So, after family Marathi dinner, Raghav and Pallavi made a promise to each other that they will solve the problem together, like Amma stated married couples do.
What occurred after that, though? Did Raghvi work together to solve the problem? No .
Both sought to deal with it in their own manner . So this argument was likely to happen.
Their mistakes in track so far after dinner night till fight .
Raghav :
- kept her in dark about challenge
-Despite her persistent inquiries as to what was wrong, he pretended that everything was OK ( twice she asked it to only him although Mandaar was present there too : Pooja scene and Restaurant scene )
- He acted as if he was fine with Pallavi going to Deshmukh residence alone after the photoshoot when she sought for him after getting call from Mandaar .
- didn't even show her concrete evidence against Mandaar : Mandaar’s text message
- Placed tracker in her bag and breached the trust she had on his trust on her , albeit it was done with good intentions , no doubt ,but still Pallavi unaware about it , Amma explained where he went wrong correctly in episode. He kept on faking that he's ok with Mandaar and suddenly Pallavi finds out about the tracker and that hurt her.
Is it likely that Raghav did all of this because he didn't trust Pallavi? No, he did everything on his own because he wanted to solve the problem on his own. He assumed he could handle Mandaar without troubling Pallavi, but he forgot that she is the central figure in all of this drama and must be kept informed. He didn't tell her about his insecurities since he didn't want her to know.
Raghav viewed it as a Mandaar vs. Him challenge that he could handle without involving Pallavi too much, but he misjudged Mandaar's cleverness and the significance of keeping Pallavi in the loop. He's acting rashly and not properly analysing Mandaar's strategy for dealing with him.
Pallavi :
Pallavi communicated well the entire time with Raghav. With few glitches here and there - such as leaving the house on Marathi dinner, roaming the entire day with Mandaar without even thinking of contacting anyone or checking her phone. She did, however, make it clear that RR is her husband and that all she wants is for Mandaar to recover; she didn't hide anything from Raghav because her intentions were pure and genuine.
But she forgot what Raghav had told her long back , Main sab kehta nahi Pallavi . Raghav faked being okay , but Pallavi didn't dug deep and see sadness behind his approving smile. I accept that Raghav faked being okay and Pallavi did repeatly assure him about her intentions but little pondering over Aai’s words was required from her side, especially after cheap mirror trick Mandaar played.
Did she do it on purpose? No, not at all.
She merely wants to get free of Mandaar's duties as soon as possible, wants him to move on and have happy life . and in her haste to make Mandaar remember things , she misses Raghav's inner turmoils and Mandaar’s shady behaviour. She knows her motives are good, but doesn't realise that just because she has good intentions doesn't mean everyone else does too.
Mandaar has tried many times to portray themselves as husband and wife, and while Pallavi has stated and demonstrated with her acts that only Raghav is her husband in her eyes, she has yet to go past the facade of the good Mandaar image she has held in her mind all these years and see how shady he is .
Raghav has made more serious errors so far (not that there's a competition; it's just that he had concrete evidence against Mandaar that he didn't bother to present Pallavic had he done it at right time, things would have definitely been different.), and that’s why he was the one who suffered the most throughout.
Now track has reversed, Pallavi doesn’t have a passive role to play anymore in this track , she’ll come to front so she’ll hurt too .
Raghav and Pallavi both are flawed people like we all are. Both are making few mistakes in this track , they're both very much in love but still new to relationships.
So I hope what changes after this is they sort this Mandaar issue like a team , not separately. They tried to sort it out separately, Pallavi with her gentle care and Raghav with his rash attitude but it didn’t work , team work is need of hour now .
It’s a learning process , both will learn things at end of track , Raghav better communication and Pallavi , world will not be kind because she is , she needs to keep her and her choices over everything else.
Marriages do have conflicts.
Our parents also fight, do we chose sides and promote divorce just because they are facing an issue ? No right ?
This track isn’t Raghav vs Pallavi , it’s Mandaar and his gang v/s Raghvi .
I don’t know why other people like Kirti , Sunny , Mandaar etc get a free pass but audience keeps on engaging in fl vs ml 😆.
RaghVi are in love and they’re learning new things , I am simply enjoying this phase .
Mandaar and gang are delusional people , I laugh on them and move on 😆.
Ashok is good actor , Mandaar’s scenes are good actually except for times when it has that doctor or Kirti in frame too 🤢
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