Comparing Samar and pakhi

Seriously Dumbo vanraj has audacity to say that Samar is bigda after all Samar did for him.

His two favourite toshu and pakhi didn't helped him in his restaurant it's Samar who did everything. From which angle Samar looks bigda hua to him. Just to support his foolish egoistic dumb daughter he was talking nonsense.

It's Samar who is supporting both his parents and proved himself resourceful after so much taunting for so many years. Even toshu could not get himself a job and is working with in laws.

Samar may hate his father and do "badtameezi" with him which is quite normal for a child whose father have cheated their mom. Even I would have done same. Children can't even see sight of step mom living with their father when mother is alive leave the concept of living together.

I was surprised at toshu and pakhi who supported their father even after knowing the truth. And pakhi is so dumb to love a step mom over her own mother even after so much experience. 

In what sense  samar is bigada hua accordinng to vanraj? 

Samar is not selfish   . He does not create drama uncessary like other children pakhi and toshu do  pakhi and toshu pick small thing and start creating issue out of nothing 

Whille whenever samar create issue there is always valid and stong reason 

Like samar stand against vanraj for vanraj hypocrisy and vanraj double standard and vanraj rude behavioiur to anupama 

Samar always raise voice against in justice, hypocrisy and double standard  . So how raising voice  against wrong thing can be called as bigda hua accordinng to vanraj ? 

Samar is not insulting anyone umcessyary  . Samar ke haath mein jitna hai samar responsibilty nibhane ki koshish karta  hai usne apni maa ke dance academy ki dream ko poora kiya and vanraj ki bhi help ki 

Bachon mein sabse layak samar hi hai 

Isn’t Samar is also vanraj‘s blood? In a same way isn’t Pakhi/toshu is anupama’s blood? 

I have noticed whenever anuraj fights, they uses words like mera beta tumhara beta !

 It’s possible for child to be more close to one of the parent but for parents, there should never be like mera beta tumhara beta. 

Originally posted by: surabhi01

In what sense  samar is bigada hua accordinng to vanraj? 

Samar is not selfish   . He does not create drama uncessary like other children pakhi and toshu do  pakhi and toshu pick small thing and start creating issue out of nothing 

Whille whenever samar create issue there is always valid and stong reason 

Like samar stand against vanraj for vanraj hypocrisy and vanraj double standard and vanraj rude behavioiur to anupama 

Samar always raise voice against in justice, hypocrisy and double standard  . So how raising voice  against wrong thing can be called as bigda hua accordinng to vanraj ? 

Samar is not insulting anyone umcessyary  . Samar ke haath mein jitna hai samar responsibilty nibhane ki koshish karta  hai usne apni maa ke dance academy ki dream ko poora kiya and vanraj ki bhi help ki 

Bachon mein sabse layak samar hi hai 

Pakhi n toshu have not done anything for their parents. Pakhi is even more toxic than toshu. Both of them don't even look like children. Samar was with Anu in hospital. I was amazed why didn't they showed toshu when he is eldest son. He was just sitting at home doing decoration.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Isn’t Samar is also vanraj‘s blood? In a same way isn’t Pakhi/toshu is anupama’s blood? 

I have noticed whenever anuraj fights, they uses words like mera beta tumhara beta !

 It’s possible for child to be more close to one of the parent but for parents, there should never be like mera beta tumhara beta. 

Today vanraj showed he didn't consider Samar his son but anupama's only. Without any fault of Samar he brought him in between and instead of scolding pakhi he was trying to scold him

Nope Vanraj has always considered Samar as a Nachaniya loser and made fun of him because he dropped out of college.

There was some friendliness of convenience, but how long can someone hide his true colours?

Vanraj's superiority complex is back after seeing approval in Pakhi's eyes because he has regained his ability to pamper her, so he doesn't need his loser son anymore.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Today vanraj showed he didn't consider Samar his son but anupama's only. Without any fault of Samar he brought him in between and instead of scolding pakhi he was trying to scold him

Vanraj always addresses like this. Vanraj speaks “tumhara beta” and Samar speaks Mr. Shah. 

Whatever the issues are, Vanraj should consider Samar his son and whatever the issues are there in between anuraj, Samar should not call his father Mr. shah. 

Vanraj is father and he should behave more maturely here. Samar is kiddish and calls Mr. shah that doesn’t mean he should speak like “tumhara beta” “nachaniya “ etc. 

The entire Shah household is unhinged. We have parents' taking sides when matter is about both their kids, exes living under the same roof along wit the current spouse, one ex going out of the way to support a man who cheated on her for years and the list goes on. There is nothing normal in Shah household. Just like Vanraj has pampered Pakhi, Anupama also has a soft spot for Samar (may be because he is the one who always supported her). Both are wrong. Parents are not supposed to do partiality between kids. Isn't it obvious that the kids are learning from them. They need to discipline their kids as a unit. Just because one is good doesn't mean that he is Anupama's son and other two are Vanraj's kids. Honestly, both of them are huge failures as parents. 

Coming to Toshu: he didn't join Daves because he couldn't find another job. He failed ONE interview, after which Daves offered him a job and he accepted it. Doesn't mean he didn't achieve anything or he is less than anyone. Another thing, Toshu is contributing to the house expenses. Just because he didn't play hum saath saath hai in Vanraj's cafe business doesn't mean he isn't doing anything for the family. Yes, Pakhi is a spoiled brat who isn't doing anything for the family and is simply throwing tantrums. Let's not club Toshu and Pakhi under the same category.