I go straight to point
Pakhi is 30 plus no mother has right to hit her head or stop her from dating and marrying a man
When anupama can live in anuj/Malvika house without marraige to him and flaunt him as BF before wedding everywhere and openly behave with Yashdeep like a girl friend or lover at 55 years why cannot pakhi go out with her male friend or classmate? Shes divorced can date and marry anyone
When vanraj can have affair with Kavya for 8 years and marry her when he can have affair with Malvika for Kapdiya empire who is he to stop Pakhi from talking to male friends or suitor
Just because Pakhi is selfish brat you cannot force her not to meet male friends or suitors after 30 plus too
This is typical indian parents syndrome - they can take liberty and have affairs and do all sort of nonsense in personal life but their daughters cannot even date in 30s again
Why anupama never had same rage towards Toshu when he had EMA? Because kinjal is outsiders daughter no not her own? Where was anupam arage with vanraj was using Mlavika for gaining kapadiya empire? Why no rage as its parti parmeshwar vanraj doing affair and all money he steal from Malvika would go to Shahs her shahs her kids?
When anupama encouraging Dimpy to marry Titu why not Pakhi cannot find suitors and date or marry
Atleast Adhik and kapadiya family will be spared of this selfish shahs and pakhi if she marry another person jaan chuti lakhon payee for adhik
But no vanraj and anupama and Baa want to zabardasti force pakhi back to india and later to adhik life too later why because hes an millionaire kapadiya family easy to control through puppy anuj kapadiya all life? Let pakhi hit him abuse him or steal his money waste his money anuj kapadiya the puppy will support Pakhi and not adhik to please anupama his eternal lover
Anupama and vanraj may not openly say whats going on in their mind but viewers are not fools to understand why they do not want Pakhi to date anyone else? Because both know no sane man will stay with a brat like pakhi in another 2 years she would be kicked out divorced by this US friend so they want only adhik to be her hubby their jamisa so they can make him dance like doll through anuj kapadiya influence if pakhi misbehaves and things go wrong
Very clever parents Pakhi has, shes a bit stupid cannot think so much deeply as vanraj and anupama
This anupama bashan on maa, sanskar blah blah is hollow because anupama herself lacks any sanskar mostly and so does vanraj baa and most of shah family
How anupama went and stayed in yashdeep/beeji house cannot she live in rented apartment in USA?
Anupama herself taking advantage of every human in life anuj, malvika, devika, yashdeep, beeji, vikram to get economical up ladder and jobs and doing emotional blackmails by lying and twisting her past than giving bashans to Pakhi is wrong
Atleast Pakhi is bad on face to everyone, everyone knows her true nature unlike anupama or anuj kapadiya in show
As parents anupama and vanraj cannot control life of a 30 plus daughter to date or marry again
When anupama never listened to kanta to leave shah house after divorce or to give priority to anuj and CA etc etc anupama herself worst daughter of world and worst sister to bhavesh how on earth shes giving bashan to pakhoi that mother has right on kids and daughter has to listen to parents blah blah
As per law after 18 years all adults are independent to live their life or marry anyone they wish
If anupama/vanraj has right to decide on pakhi life why anupam anever allowed rakhi to decide on kinjal marraige and did kinjal marraige to toshu even when rakhi opposed it?
Oh for anupama she has all rights to control her kids life but other mothers have no rights to control their kids life ------- wow what hypocrisy?
Anupama even hide for anuj and GK akka that vanraj was having affair with Malvika right under their nose in office - did anuj and GK kaka have no rights as family as father and elder brother of Mlavika to know truth from anupama? Ohhh Malvika is others daughter GK kaka daughter so anupama rules for pakhi do not apply to Mavika and Kinjal parents/gaurdians i guess
Indian parents must stop dictating their adult kids especially daughters whom to date or marry what to do in life. They make all decisions for daughters and when hubby turns out to be cruel or do EMA like vanraj indian daughters parents do not bother say adjust and live and daughters suffer all life for parents decisions
This is applicable to indian sons too parents interfere a lot in sons life what to study whom to marry and men live miserable lives thanks to the force to live as per parents wish all life.
Just let adult kids live their life make their decisions if its wrong they are responsible? What is this over control on adult kids life? Thats why india is lowest in happiness index adults her live as per parents or family wish all life very unhappy miserable lives.
I know many young adults 20-35 they never wanted to be doctor or IT professions or marry their wife or hubby living miserable lives eating depression pills always tensed and upset without much happiness because parents interfere a lot. What is use of being highly educated earning a lot when you are miserable all life? Because your parents choose your career, college, degree you do, spouse you marry, which city you live etc
By the time these kids get freedom when their parents die(sorry for stating truth straight forward but thats reality of many young adults) they will be late 40s or 50s they cannot relive their lives again as per their wish ever in life. They will die as miserbably as they live. By the time they get independent they will be old or sick cannot enjoy life like in younger days. Especially girls and daughters
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