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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: .:Aphrodite:.

I agree. I was watching this Indian TV show a while ago and some guy made a joke about how some guy in Africa who's sooo black had one wish and he said "i wish i was white" and everyone laughed as if there was nothing wrong with it.

why afro/desi people would wish to be white and why that idea has such amount of acceptance is deep rooted in a century of imperialist rule and the consequences of servitude. somewhere deep in our minds we still are slave to the western world and believe in its superiority subconciously.you need to take a look at micheal jackson to realise,how far this inferiority can lead us. the other day there was a pyschatrist trying define animosity between middle east and western world on discovery channel. he traced the impact to the fables, hatred and fear handed down the generations from the bloodsheds during crusades. comparitively the struggles and bloodshed, the feeling of servitude and being less is fresh in our memories since we have been independent state for merely 60yrs. someone us still have relative that have lived in those turbulent times.



I have seen so many desi people have some sort of a superiority complex as if they're better than Mexicans or African Americans.

also many bollywood movies show non-indians as immoral and sex starved people. HELLO? India probably has the biggest population of prostitutes (most forced to work there after their own family member sold them), women are molested in trains etc. and yet Westerners who have cheonsensual sex are "immoral".

citing westerners as immoral is not racism.this more a case of ignorance and culture clash than racism.besides what to do you expect from the citizens of a country that celebrates virgins and sex within marital bonds when it comes in contact with sexually aware and open society. once again historically westerners exploited eastern cultures sometimes even in sexual terms and somewhere that memory exists. there are westerners who have a concubine on every continent simply because they can afford it. as for prostitution....there are many african , european and eastern countries that are way up high on the lists. as for molestation and rapes...unfortunately western countries are no better than india.

How many times in Indian movies do we see some ethnic groups being stereotyped? All the time and yet Indians complain that Indian characters in Hollywood are stereotyped. OH PLEASE..

i agree

also, watching Fair and Lovely etc ads are so embarassing. However, we got some desi girls where i come from who make snide remarks at girls with fair skin. I swear one time at a wedding these girls were backchatting about me and my sister and said "i bet they put whitening creme on their face, I am natural and tanned".. so desi girls with fair skin are fake? 😡

kill me!!! but they are no more embarassing than watching the ads of tanning salons and those unnaturally orange tanning creams and bronzers. the simple fact is that we value the rarity more. indians are tanned lot so we value fair skin there, westerners are fair so they thirst to be tanned . add this fact to the superiority that we associate with fairness subconciously due to our history and we are a fairness obsessed society.actually westerner's obsession with tanning too stems from imperialist period, people who went to east or on adventures came back both tanned and rich, somehow subconciously in western world tanned became equivalent of class and riches. hence the current fight for being tanned all the time. btw those snide remarks you mentioned seem to be more jealousy induced than any form of racism or apartheid.

Edited by pj04 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Very good point.

but i think we "desi's"

are racist sumtimes to white n other pple

coz we wud be like "sala"kamina"blahblah"

to other desi ppl bout sum white person

but i wudnt consdier it rascist we jsu like our race

more but yeah u have a gud point

AMERICA-RACIST 2 MUSLIMS!

for ex. Barak Obamama senetar of IL

is gunna run for President in America

But He is Muslim His middle is HUSSIAN

n when voters find this outt

hes not gunna make itt NEWHERE!

thts RASICISM!!! i hate it

Especaily , White people

they do the most rascism..

blaks n mexiis are FINE WITH US!

lekin whites think there shit when

they aint.

😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I believe what you saysing but come on ani blondes are proverbially the most attractive race amongst humans.. u cant deny that.. the only black i liked was naomi.. but thats it I am back to Scarlett johannsson, naomi watts and the other blondies..in and around boston.. 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ani11

Oh ya I can deny that😆😆Maybe to you they are the most beautiful race because the criterion of beauty differs from race to race,we always pine for what we don't have,white complexion for us indians and a golden tanned one is what the americans want.To me indians are the most beautiful people in the world and it has been proven again and again.

BTW i like Tyra Banks also besides Naomi,there are several that are very beautiful

remember i said attractive which is different. beauty can be innate... btw what about pitbull oprah dont you consider with her $1.5B she is the mos tbeautiful woman in the world....😆 she can buy all the people who can say that...😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ani11

is'nt saying different from feeling the beauty in ur heart,sure Oprah can make people call her beautiful for all the money she has(BTW she has a beautiful heart thats for sure)but are'nt there chances that some people really find her beautiful.

What u call beautiful is very personal and differs from person to person,most of us indians are stuck up on fair complexion as the only criterion for beauty ,it does'nt matter if the fair person has a potato for a nose or two straight lines for eyes but they would still be considered beautiful by most in India.So its a personal preference,what is not beautiful to u maybe the ultimate beauty to some one else.

Only if all of them are blind...😆

madhu bala is unequivocally considered beautiful by generations of indians.. u can go ahead and say, medha patkar is better for all her social work she is doing...😆

No i dont resort to diplomacy sometimes.. and still maintain blondes have a better chance of being attractive than the rest...and its not that we dont have fair complexion.. punjabis are veri fair....so With all the crap about "beauty lies in the eyes of.... " it still a fact that most men know whats really beautiful and what is politically correct beautiful....😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Only if all of them are blind...😆

madhu bala is unequivocally considered beautiful by generations of indians.. u can go ahead and say, medha patkar is better for all her social work she is doing...😆

No i dont resort to diplomacy sometimes.. and still maintain blondes have a better chance of being attractive than the rest...and its not that we dont have fair complexion.. punjabis are veri fair....so With all the crap about "beauty lies in the eyes of.... " it still a fact that most men know whats really beautiful and what is politically correct beautiful....😆

Ok, taking a stock of the situation

If you are an Indian and you love/like blonde's you are a racist and you like/love Brunette's you are not?

what about people who love/like redheads😉

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ani11

where did medha patekar and politically correct beautiful come in all this ,i was thinking that we were just talking about physical beauty here😕

And if someone's idea of beauty is different from urs then they are blind😕😆😆

and u think rest of the races can take on blue eyed blondes.. the politically correct was meant for people who are forced to give miss/mr india titles to their spouses😆...😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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but let me assured you that i am an Indian and i am proud of the fact but still i am against responding to Shilpa Shetty as an Indian just because she was racially abused by some Brits.

I believe you are saying that you didn't think it was a big deal that she was treated like a third class citizen in that show. There is prejudice in Britian against other races and I believe producers of the show could have edited those remarks made by Jade, but they chose not to! Why is that? Is it because they don't care or insult sells? People need to be aware that those kind of remarks are not acceptable.

I do agree with you though that we need to look at our behavior first..We have so many racial issues in India. People still believe in cast systems and racial quotas.
But I guess when our own people discriminate, we can still ignore it, but when we see someone with different skin tone doing the same things, we tend to get more offended.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Himali !
Wonderful post 👏 👏 👏

I remember the quote "charity begins at home".
First we should set the things right in our country and then blame others.
For that matter Indians are notorious for untouchability concept and people who suffered that problem cursed all the higher caste people,net result "reservations" 😆
I will come back to this post again.
cheers,
Mythili
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: egghatcher

what about people who love/like redheads😉



Are there such people?? 😆😆

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