Why Malini over Imlie ANY day.. so so many reasons DT nt p6 - Page 4

Originally posted by: ranisree

How racist people are here that village girl cannot be a topper, cannot have common sense or strength to fight odds. People mature early when they a faced with difficult situations and I am one among them. Because she was forced into some marriage doesn't take away intelligence from her or her fighting spirit. She came to city because she was forced Adi bought her home and for a village girl who has never seen a city having a house is more important for her safety.

I can never relate to a coward obsessed with a man like Malini who is from so called high society educated well dressed beautiful etc etc but doesn't have self respect. First if she is professor and with such unstable mental health she needs to reign , in many countries it is important to check mental health before hiring someone as professor. She can't even speak to her husband straight but vent frustration on others.

imlie has the fighter spirit which she got from her mom who fought against all odds to educate her daughter. I m surprised that from which high society people belong to or which bubble they are living in that they have not seen village girls and girls from low income fight back against all odds and progress.

Guys broaden your views and stop being racist to village girls or lower class kids who fight againt all odds.

Racist ? Please first look up the meaning of racist before using that word..Imlie’s eduction arc was never shown seriously all we got to see was the back to back weddings..so suddenly showing her the “topper” was unnecessary..this is no empowerment serial like Diya aur Baati is what I have clearly articulated ..oh and when the suicide memes was being circulated and enjoyed in this very same forum, I was the one who reported that as soon as I saw it ..

Originally posted by: Divi1301

Racist ? Please first look up the meaning of racist before using that word..Imlie’s eduction arc was never shown seriously all we got to see was the back to back weddings..so suddenly showing her the “topper” was unnecessary..this is no empowerment serial like Diya aur Baati is what I have clearly articulated ..oh and when the suicide memes was being circulated and enjoyed in this very same forum, I was the one who reported that as soon as I saw it ..

I don't know if you are aware of tribal racism and classism.

If you have watched the episode properly it was well established that Imlie was an intelligent girl a bright student who earned scholarship in her entire village and how proud she was and how ambitious she was.How she had to fight with her own grandma to make progress in life.

Just to support high society mentality you guys ignore these stuff and only focus on what you want to see like forced marraiges etc.

Village girls are forced into marraige eveyday in the pretext of arrange marriage,& they have no choice. so first enlighten your self with these atrocities a village girl has to go through every day.But high class people stay in this safe bubble and try to mock the intellegence , maturity of a village girl. Come to ground reality and come out of your safe bubble.

Also because village girl does not pronounce thing properly I. Proper Hindi or English or May not know your high society manners does not make her less valuable as a human.

Originally posted by: sunshine333

I would argue that Malini is a much stronger person than imlie, barring the suicide move. Imlie doesn’t even have the strength to even tell the TRUTH. Imlie doesn’t have the strength to stand by her decision of removing herself from Malini and Aditya life. She says one thing but does the other. Her antics are more crazy and awkward than adorable. She overacts like a 10 year old (even a 10 year old won’t act like she does) and just comes across as plain weird and socially awkward.

Originally posted by: ranisree

I don't know if you are aware of tribal racism and classism.

If you have watched the episode properly it was well established that Imlie was an intelligent girl a bright student who earned scholarship in her entire village and how proud she was and how ambitious she was.How she had to fight with her own grandma to make progress in life.

Just to support high society mentality you guys ignore these stuff and only focus on what you want to see like forced marraiges etc.

Village girls are forced into marraige eveyday in the pretext of arrange marriage,& they have no choice. so first enlighten your self with these atrocities a village girl has to go through every day.But high class people stay in this safe bubble and try to mock the intellegence , maturity of a village girl. Come to ground reality and come out of your safe bubble.

I find statements like how can village girl be a super woman or super intelligent breaks my heart and insults all those village girls who struggle againt all odds every single day to progress in life.I rest my case but just because your favorite high society girl is a weak character doesnot make a strong village girl unrealistic.

Also to add someone pointed that imlie as socially awkward yes most of the villager might come across socially awkward for the society created by privileged people. They may appear raw or manner less they don't know the effluent Society manner, please bare with them if give an opportunity they will learn.

Malini would laugh at Imlie's behavior , find it cute but did she make an effort to teach her.

every one is free to like or dislike a character. Some will not relate to Imlie because they never met one who came from tribal society or village.

it is really difficult for a village girl to get out of forced marriage, ther is a belief system in marraige forced or not forced in village.

have you ever introspect for imlie why she had to stay in Tripathi house first time she had now where to go,she could have been in dangerous situations, that house was her only shelter and for that she had to work like maid hear Adi trash.

Imlie only knows sorrie Malini Didi...and she does what she wants to do👎🏼

Malini dont give this much importance to Farebi....Just move on dear...

I support Malini over Imlie too. Just because Imlie got married first and even if she's a victim of forced marriage, can't support her. Coz Malini is as innocent as Imlie in this situation and she is unfairly treated like a villain.

Malini and Aditya have been in a relationship for seven years before they got married. And it was Adi who hid the truth about Imlie. He tried his best to keep her away but eventually he'd to fall in love with her , coz afterall she's the heroine of the show. Thus now Malini is nothing but a responsibility. Even if Malini behaved insecurely she's justified coz she's newly married and wives do tend to feel threatened regards to their relationship when untoward situations arises. Malini is deeply in love so even if she makes Adi her whole world, it's still justified.

If Adi isn't, then he should be the one to break her heart and come clean with her, rather cheating her behind her back.

The soap writers always use the card of who got married first to justify their leads, but the male lead who marries another woman is never bashed. Only the woman is. Malini doesn't deserve the hatred she gets.

Originally posted by: tellyme

very well said... It is worthless to discuss with Malini supporter as I feel they are not capable of understanding the depth of character Imlie.. They stay in bubble same as their favorite

whoa why the personal attack? And can’t I say the same exact thing about imlie supporters?

But why can’t we have a discussion without attacking each other personally? I enjoy reading various povs even if they are different from mine. And sometimes even find common ground, which has happened even on this thread itself. Please be nice, just here to bounce ideas and have fun.

This show is a fictional show with fictional character, but lets not forget behind the keyboard there are real people with real feelings :) take care and believe it or not I do enjoy reading different povs even if I don’t agree with them. Helps me gage how 2 people can see the same exact situation and have completely different take on it!

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Just want to add specially dont expect such attacks and lack of decorum from IF seniors (rockerz) like yourself

Originally posted by: __VIHU

Can’t agree more...

I really liked Adilie a lot from the very first promo... but Adini wedding ruined the show or more specifically Aditya’s character for me.

I still feel adoration for Imlie and the girl’s grit... but now whenever I look at Aditya I feel nothing but pure anger...

That guy was so athirst for the wedding.. moon.. wedding... moon... wedding...

Because of Malini’s inability to take the truth... he went ahead with the wedding, people would defend. But no... he could’ve told her mom, no way she’d have let her daughter go forward with the wedding.

She needs return for her seven years invested in Adi... this is an accusation people?

I mean what is so wrong if a person demands consideration for 7 PRIME years of her life.... you think it’s a small time period? It seems a lifetime to me..

And damn your sympathy jokes... when a person decides to take her own life she doesn’t give two figs about airheads out there who are too stingy with their misplaced sympathy...

You can argue with all my points... but I don’t get the baseless hatred against Malini...

Vihuuuu🤗 So glad to see you here. Can't agree more. I can't understand how people are always out to make Malini a villain when in reality she's the prime victim. Aditya was "majboor" and he couldn't tell her the truth but he could have said no for the marriage. He could have delayed it. He went ahead and honeymooned with his moon and now is romancing with Imlie in the very same bed🤢

Originally posted by: prietyp

Aditya is flawed , he was embarrassed to accept a Gawar as his wife and the forced marriage as real. He desperately wanted to marry the beautiful elite girl he was dating since 7 years and so he did. That’s what any normal person in real life would do , even then he attempted to to tell her . Aditya is a normal flawed selfish male lead . That’s why the story is hit as many can relate the the mistake he did or is doing . He could have abandoned imli at ngo which any normal person would do... but he didn’t, he tried.

After marriage , he started knowing Malini better and imli better.. again Aditya is a normal person , not any glorified ml , so he is flawed and he did get attracted to the shiny penny who also happens to be his wife ... he realized Malini and him do not compliment each other , he realized he did a mistake ... again normal and realistic and yes he is selfish and flawed . That’s one of his main characteristics.

What he did to Malini is wrong , what he did to imli is wrong . I am tired of seeing male leads who are spotless. And unrealistic . Aditya kind of people exists in real life .. Iam glad Iam seeing a different story . Aditya is trying to fix his mess... people get hurt .. unfortunately , there lot of mess for him to clear.

Yes out of the 3 leads aditya deserves the most ire. I agree with a lot of your comment, my only gripe about your comment is that shiny penny syndrome applies to a “new” person/thing for whom you ditch the old penny. Malini was not new in his life, she was his LONGTIME girlfriend and then fiance. So technically it can only apply to imli since she was the “new entry” for whom he ditched the “old penny” aka malini.

And i wish adityas character was seen as such, as deeply flawed. As the most greyish character on the show, who shouldn't be looked upto or idolized. He’s more an anti-hero than a hero.