And the self-victimization CONTINUES...| DT note P.6 - Page 3

Originally posted by: methebest

Thank you for tagging!! I am upset with CVs to portray Virat like this!! He started as an amazing character, but right now he is nothing more than a pathetic Chavan!! I feel that CVs use his tears to show how sorry he is rather than making any changes in him when next time his zombie relatives gang up on her. However, I didn't feel "she left me" was meant like "she is the one who left me", but rather "I don't have her anymore". I could be wrong and someone else can shed some light on it.

My biggest problem with Virat is he has soft voice and a feather stick when it comes to Pakhi or his family even when they are monsters. Pakhi has openly declared her intentions with him and he is still not drawing boundaries firmly, but with Sai anything can trigger him to be a monster.

There is no worse mistake than throwing a young stunning woman out on streets' in middle of night all decked up in wedding attire, let alone a woman he was married to. India has enough rape problems and this guy is an IPS topper ACP, shouldn't he know better? He has calls Sai badtameez when she retorts to Pakhi's advances and taunts, but what should he call himself when he throws his wife out in middle of night knowing fully well as a police officer what are the chances of her being safe out on streets at night. Many would argue that Sai didn't talk to him about this and that, but no excuse is good enough! I am a woman and I find no excuse good enough for a man to throw me out on street at night putting my dignity at very very high risk!! I really hope he finds his true happiness I really do, but far far far away from Sai. At this point I rather have Sai not find anyone and be lonely in life than be with him. Lets hope CVs make changes in original script and free Sai from the zombies and their chahita. I am sure Ayesha will do fantastic as FL and Neil will do fantastic as ML, but separately!!

Wonderful!!

I can't sympathies with Virat, at least at the moment..When he had no solid proof, he threw Sai out of the house immediately. and when he is sure that Sai was not wrong. just a phone call to her and tha's it. The contrast in his urgency of the two reactions further enhances my anger towards him.

He said that ki jab baat uski Tai per aati hai to woh control nahi kar paata...is liye he kicked Sai out of HIS house in the night...To what is he going to do with Omi kaka? and what did he do with the school staff? bas dhamki?

After, insulting Aai during the Amey incident, Virat ka character bilkul girta gaya...After the alta episode where without hearing to Sai's side he asked Karsiahma to drag her down...Virat has totally lost his charm..galgi karo...aansu bahao...maafi mango and then same galto karo...what a wonderful pattern..😡

Writers need to bring in some factors that can redeem his character...

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Lol @thefirstline ,is the comment based on watching the episode today or based on the content of the topic.

Since you mentioned not watching the show anymore and also talking about an episode which is not aired.

Just curious 🧐

Originally posted by: uneorchide

why sarcastic remarks targeting the members sharing their concerns under this topic? if they dont like neil's acting, they dont. why are some acting like a hormonal fangirl? some people dont have a life outside the internet and it shows

@bold wow fantastic!!!!

nobody is targetting anyone here.... we maintain a certain decorum on this forum and try to avoid targetting actors... they are doing their job!

I completely support Sai in this situation yet i am able to put myself in virats shoes and think. i am not a biased person and will not get swayed by other's opinions...

Just because someone does not like the character it does not give them the right to insult the actor which has been going on for many days now!

If they don't like neil's acting they can be respectful as well... I see so many people asking for a change in the lead! Really in the time of COVID people want to snatch someone's job!

I work every day to earn my bread and butter and I would be super pissed if someone insinuated that i should lose my job for doing it according to what is expected out of me.

I get people are pissed but IT DOES NOT give them the right to lose the right of decency as human beings!

I am as pissed as everyone else with the offscreen drama, but I ignore it for my own sanity.... I think the producers and channels know what they need to do and as far as i have heard someone has been given a very strict and last warning this time...

So as fans we also need to chill out!

Concentrate on the show and if you don't like it, don't watch it! nobody is forcing you but dragging those down who enjoy watching the show and questioning them is absolutely pathetic!

Learn to agree to disagree and be respectful!

My opinion sorry if you find me rude!

Originally posted by: uneorchide

why sarcastic remarks targeting the members sharing their concerns under this topic? if they dont like neil's acting, they dont. why are some acting like a hormonal fangirl? some people dont have a life outside the internet and it shows

+1

Ya definitely sab sangat ka asar hain , people really don't have life outside , people forget that this is frictional show .

Regarding sarcastic comment I m sorry

Originally posted by: Piyu08

what is there to watch if this show is copy paste of Bengali version but I must say it's regressive sh*t only good thing is Sai's character that also going to compromise ...characters r same only difference is actors and acting 😆

Well ,if you had seen the episode he was not blaming things on anybody, in fact he was owning up to his hasty and dumb behaviour. So was just surprised by your statement. 😂

Second. You commented about the acting skills for a plot which is yet to be shown in this version

Hence asked.

It’s the same story as KD but acting wise I personally like the Hindi versions

Originally posted by: Moonks

I think virat is not at fault here, it's his upbringing which is done by bhavani and ninad, that's what you call patriarchal mindset and no training of 2 years can make you unlearn what you have learnt your whole life. I can bet on this that if it was done by sonali and not omkar he would have behaved more violently than he did now, and he will behave more rashly with pakhi after knowing the letter thing and would be lenient after learning ninad and omi's role in kidnapping pulkit. Many of you may denied it but it's the underline cause of his behaviour. That's his subconscious mind working.

I read in few post that writer of the show is a female and she is writing such a regressive content for the show watched by millions of people then it's not the fault of writer it's the way we have brought up. Accept it or not but knowingly or unknowingly, intentionally or unintentionally we behave in the way which goes against the way of our principles, no matter who is the person a girl or a boy.

And by writing this I have forgotten what I was trying to say🤣🤣.

So last thing is there is a bigger picture in background where we have to look instead of criticising one's behaviour we have to analyse what's the reason and not degrade someone whose views and actions are differing from us.

P.S. I am not supporting virat incase you are taking it otherwise and I am a hardcore Equalist who is a firm believer of equality and think of wrong as wrong irrespective of who is doing it .

absolutely agree to you....

unfortunately, people like this exist in society...

As i constantly say and repeat myself! ITV is meant for fun, i dont get the over-analysis and hypocrisy tbh

I mean people don't like the show yet they will watch it regularly... if there is such a huge issue stop watching it! a simple as that...

I am a firm believer that ITV teaches you what NOT to do in real life... We should look at the positives rather than the negatives....

The world is made up of all kinds of people and this pandemic has actually shown us what matters and what not!

All i ask is for people to be kind and have a little compassion!

Originally posted by: uneorchide

? if u dont like a member's post u feel them dragging down ur enthusiasm for the show stop reading their post. the one who posted will not stop posting to please u and make u comfortable. Read upar. many are throwing satirical remarks just because a person decided to share their views on his acting. if we dont like neil's acting we will say it. it's our personal decision.

nobody drags my enthusiasm for the show... I can keep these things separate..

I am not asking you to stop posting I am saying be kind! and it is for everyone.. We come to the forum as a stress buster not to increase stress...

Anyways I will still make my fun posts and bring positivity because that's just who i am as a person!

I don't understand why people are here to criticize viru, vahini or makkad sena or other members of this forum.

If you don't like someone's views then counter their views by your argument and don't make this a matter of win or lose.

So please stop personal attacks on each other and let's criticize our favourite show and characters🤣

Originally posted by: Moonks

I don't understand why people are here to criticize viru, vahini or makkad sena or other members of this forum.

If you don't like someone's views then counter their views by your argument and don't make this a matter of win or lose.

So please stop personal attacks on each other and let's criticize our favourite show and characters🤣

didi ki bezzati karo sabh!!

iss sabh main we have forgotten her bezzati.... ghor anarth hogaya humse 🤣

back to bezzati

Originally posted by: uneorchide

neil bhatt is married to aishwarya sharma

having hormones for him is same as pakhi having hormones for virat

ig some people have fluid morals

he is not married as yet... they are engaged!

and just because he is married or committed does not mean you cannot have a crush on him!

you can have a crush on anyone! I know many married men and women who crush on actors and actresses who are also married in real life!

Nobody is being obsessive... we know he is committed to aishwarya and will probably get married but even after marriage it will not stop fans from fangirling over him...

Umm people still have a crush on SRK, ranveer, ranbir, akshay, barun sobti, nakuul mehta, madhuri dixit, priyanka choprs, deepika, aishwarya rai.... and so many more