Originally posted by: Aniash
I am seeing lots of arguements in this post on malini and imlie behaviour wifey rights etc.
I just want to say one thing and that is if malini is adityas wife that was coz of imlie. Imlie gave way at the last moment . The one who had more right on aditya is imlie not malini.
Imlie gave way coz malini had always respected her and treated her nicely. She has a soft corner and affection for malini so much so that even now after all that has happened she is still trying to save adini marriage.
She could be selfish when aditya confessed his feelings after all she is the first wife. Take advantage of the situation if she wanted to. Now aditya wants to be with her she can easily ask for her rights rite. But no. She didnt.
Why imli was in the hse. Coz she was given the title of servant . Thanks to aditya who brought her. Second time she decided to go to the hostel. Aditya blackmailed. He will leave everything and come to her. Imlie was forced to return to the hse. Not by her will
And why she is moving around the hse is coz she does hse chores. U need to move around to do chores. And mingling with family coz they love her as their family member. Shes been given rights to move around the hse freely. And most of the time she willingly does not go to aditya room unless family members send her there to give chai put a candle etc.
Imli was sent to the room .
And if u are talking about privacy. This is a joint family living together under one roof. What privacy do u expect. If malini is second wife. Imli is the first wife. Her husband romancing another wife in front of her is that moral.
Imlie is not at fault. Where else will she go and live if it was not tripathis hse. Devs hse. Where that chaturvedi dayaan is waiting with her claws to suck her blood.
She failed to handle her husband properly and now influencing her daughter to do the same. There is a way to handle things efficiently. She was never happy with adini marriage. Her motive is to break their marriage. She is using this cheap tactics to teach her daughter how to handle her husband.
Seven yrs in a relationship with a man and u need ur mother help to solve ur marital problems. That clearly shows u have never known that man in and out thoroughly. And what u do is pack ur bags all the time and run to ur mothers hse to resolve ur issues. Like seriously??
And here is a woman who knew him for 7 mths and she understood him well.
The only one mistake made by imlie was that she doesnt need to reapply the sindoor after malini wiped it out. She got emotional. The writers have shown a reason . She is 19. So a teenager. Fine . A little immature at times. But majority times she handled situations better than aditya and malini though they are matured adults.
Writers have showed more flaws in aditya and malini character. They sre not as selfless as imlie is. Aditya mow wants imlie and get rid of malini. Malini is in her own delusional world. She could only think about aditya and herself. No other woman could come between them.
I am not judging all the three characters. But emphasizing how writers have portrayed them on screen. The only selfless character in this show is imlie who is trying to make everyone happy. Can any woman give away her husband to another woman willingly??
And knowing that her husband actually loves her and still wants to be with her but pushing him away to his second wife coz she wants her to be happy.
For malini there are ways to handle things. Instead of being emotional sensitive. She is being influenced by her mum and requires her shoulder to resolve her probldms.
Aditya imlie malini . No one is perfect . All characters have flaws. And this show is about imlie not aditya or malini. Whether u like it or not imlie is the main character .
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