OK this topic is veering towards feminity v/s tom boy kind of discussion
I think about kajol like this
See if you have no sister at home you are made to wear elder brothers(even cousin brothers) dresses usually as kid
Only on festival etc they buy girly dresses
So may be kajol was brought up by parents like that so she wear like a boy
Further if you are only child of parents a girl is usually brought up like a boy only as parents want her to be bold and independent as she has no sibling to take care of her
You have read in rajasthan girls dress up like boys to remain safe(watch indian idol such girls do come)
So nothing wrong with being tom boys
In a dangerous society like ours acting boyish and dressing boyish will make men not cast bad eyes on you
I know one girl who used to be harassed by boys on road on way to school, she chopped her hair boy cut dressed more boyish and also started speaking roughly, the boys stopped following her. This is in very big city not small village. Police never bother if any compalint goes so how you remain safe by acting bold and more boyish only rough so boys do not run after your beauty etc
As you mature and become big like 25-30 years tomboy girls will start dressing more feminine usually
Even hair girls have short boy cuts till college than start growing hair
Does that mean they cannot fall in love or cannot marry because they look and act boyish
Kajol was only 20-21 years so ok the way she dressed
It was tina who was dressing so overtly to college it looked like she had matured before age. I mean who wears mini to college that to co heads
Even USa no one wears like that in college
Is tina student or model?
Edited by myviewprem - 3 years ago
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