I promised myself that I would refrain from ranting on IF henceforth and spending my emotional energy needlessly, but I saw this thread, and I couldn't help myself. Maybe writing it out will help me come to terms with the fact that the show I had come to love over the past year with some of the most nuanced characters I've seen on ITV has been wasted away with sloppy writing.
This Kunal 2.0 is a lousy husband. I know it's only been two episodes in since he's made an appearance, but my god, he's terrible! It's like the writers have taken the flattest interpretation out there for his character and applied it to the writing (worships his bhai, bhabhi, and mother, is a workaholic, and has the emotional quotient of a rat). He starts off with snubbing Kuhu when he first comes, and then only pays attention to her when Mishti first gestures towards her, and then when she literally pulls them together. He snubs her again at the dinner table in front of his maami and mama, and before anyone says that it was justified because Kuhu fired a shot at Mishti, there were 100 other ways for Kunal to move on from the topic instead of berating her like an immature child (and did anyone see that look of anger/annoyance he shot Ketki at the dinner table? What the hell was that?). He snubs her again when he's talking to Abir later, and she comes over. I know that for Kunal, Abir has always come first, but don't tell me that this dude has stayed away from his wife for three months and did not miss seeing her. Like, please. He snubs her yet again at the boutique where they go wedding shopping, and that time was the most infuriating. Kuhu asked him a 100% valid question, and instead of getting all condescending about it, he could've taken five seconds to explain to her that he had to quarantine after getting back in the country. And wait! Last I checked, you were still allowed to have a phone with you when you quarantine, and you're telling me that Kunal did not even bother telling Kuhu that he had returned to India? And what does Kunal mean by Kuhu is always in "Kuhuland"? She's always thinking about him, Ketu's wedding, and the rest of the family! Dude, give me a break.
If the writers and actors are trying to sell all of this as "nok-jhok", then it's definitely not working, unless "nok-jhok" also means being rude, condescending, and putting on a show of a mulish superiority complex to put down your wife. This track has just proven that this show is incapable of selling a consistent narrative on what healthy relationships are supposed to look like. From Abir cutting Mishti off from the rest of his family in his bullheaded haste to "protect" her, to Kuhu being left to simmer in her own frustrations because god forbid a certain someone spends some time with her to listen to her and validate her feelings for once, this sasural of MishKu's is proving to be the most toxic hellhole I've ever seen.
This Kunal can be Abir's Nanko, Mishti's devar, Meenu's munna, Parul's beta, but he is not Kuhu's husband. Kuhu's husband would not treat her like an extreme inconvenience that he could not care less about. I have no idea who the hell he is.
Edited by journalgirl321 - 5 years ago