Originally posted by: Onyourface
I agree with your thoughts jayu but that wasmt public humiliation.... it wasnt done at a public place of in front of outsiders
Abir did break up in his house in front of the family members...just the way mishti broke up with kunal ... in her house in front of family members
Public humiliation is
Kunal giving divorce papers to kuhu
Mishti slapping kunal in navratri pandal
Kunal ill treating mishti in ganpati pandal
Either ways ... girls ho ya boys ...its painful for anyone to go through a break up ...doesn't matter kahi pe bhi kiya ho..the biggest pain of losing the most special person in your life remains the same. Dont say he publicly humiliated mishti , it sounds more upsetting than the actual thing
I know what is public humiliation re.... What i was trying to say a humiliation is a humiliation and everyone has different style of handling it.For me one to one talk between Mishbir which will happen in tom's episode is private humiliation. Where Abir will not breakup with her, indirectly he will insult her love and trust.
But what he did today with Mishti is public humiliation (atleast for me). First of all RVs are not her family & that place was not her house.Secondly koi mujhe akele mei insult karen aur mere parents ke samne insult kare toh mujhe jyada bura lagega. aur koi relatives ke samne kare toh mujhe bahut bahut jyada bura lagega.It will become a public matter then.
Bold-exactly that's why Kunal still has grudge on her.That day Kunal said naa. agar reject hi karna tha toh akele mei bata diya hota. sabke samne kyun.
This is the same reason why Kuhu wants to handle her divorce thing by covering it up by compatibility issues. She just doesn't want her family to know about it.Basically she doesn't want to hurt her family,but the truth is she doesn't want to go through the humiliation what everyone will say that Kunal has rejected her.
I hope i am making sense here.
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