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I know many here are very upset, I should say strongly pissed off with Vishakha. A part of me is too. Before these Delhi scenes honestly I hated her. I thought she was this self centered woman just trying to please Somani and stay in his good books. That for her own selfish reasons she abandoned her own flesh and blood. But now somewhere in here I see her as a human being, as a mother a wife,a daughter,a daughter in law. But with all these roles she carries a past.
I hope this never happens to anyone out there but I unfortunately have had to know of two women in my life whose husbands abandoned them at a time where they both were expecting a child. For whatever reason their spouses left them and even had second marriages. Both these women are not close to me but I know they were nicely brought up from good families. Whatever issues they had their men chose to leave these girls I should say. In both the instances the girls were made to remarry by their parents. In both the cases the nana Nani decided that the 1st child would be adopted by them and would live with them so their daughter can have another chance at love life future family whatever. In one case new husband was such an awesome guy he insisted the wife's child would come stay with them and he would call him Papa.
Now look at Vishakhas case. She probably was widowed or divorced at a young age. This man wholeheartedly never accept her past. He till today expects Vishakha to bend backwards. It's all about him and his children. Somewhere the mother is vishaka is there alive. That is the reason she always wanted sameer to be like Rohan. Because Rohan is how a Somani child is supposed to be. There is no room for a bhaaghi Rohan even in the Somani house. Now she really wants sameer to make efforts. Somewhere she knows Rohan will remain quiet. But the sameer she knows. He's a rebel and it would make it very difficult for her to make Sameer a part of her world.
Now coming to the point about her being so clear about Rohan's schedule and not disturbing him. According to her and many normal parents that's how a students life should be anyways. If Sameer was an achiever and very disciplined she would also say the same. She always wanted sameer to live a disciplined life and to work hard and succeed. But sameer always did the opposite. He also never gave her a chance.
Right now she is really trying to bring her children together, her world together. Her way of introducing sameer to Rohan was also with compliments. But yes sameer has not given her Much to talk about. Rohan has. But she always wanted sameer uo there as well.
Ok I'm rambling. What do you guys think. Let's give her a chance.
Look aparently there are other rooms in the house but she was adamant about sameer and Rohan being together. She knows sameer needs to get to school ASAP and resume his life. In the room case she didn't even listen to her sasu Ma. Let's give her and sameer a chance.
I hope this never happens to anyone out there but I unfortunately have had to know of two women in my life whose husbands abandoned them at a time where they both were expecting a child. For whatever reason their spouses left them and even had second marriages. Both these women are not close to me but I know they were nicely brought up from good families. Whatever issues they had their men chose to leave these girls I should say. In both the instances the girls were made to remarry by their parents. In both the cases the nana Nani decided that the 1st child would be adopted by them and would live with them so their daughter can have another chance at love life future family whatever. In one case new husband was such an awesome guy he insisted the wife's child would come stay with them and he would call him Papa.
Now look at Vishakhas case. She probably was widowed or divorced at a young age. This man wholeheartedly never accept her past. He till today expects Vishakha to bend backwards. It's all about him and his children. Somewhere the mother is vishaka is there alive. That is the reason she always wanted sameer to be like Rohan. Because Rohan is how a Somani child is supposed to be. There is no room for a bhaaghi Rohan even in the Somani house. Now she really wants sameer to make efforts. Somewhere she knows Rohan will remain quiet. But the sameer she knows. He's a rebel and it would make it very difficult for her to make Sameer a part of her world.
Now coming to the point about her being so clear about Rohan's schedule and not disturbing him. According to her and many normal parents that's how a students life should be anyways. If Sameer was an achiever and very disciplined she would also say the same. She always wanted sameer to live a disciplined life and to work hard and succeed. But sameer always did the opposite. He also never gave her a chance.
Right now she is really trying to bring her children together, her world together. Her way of introducing sameer to Rohan was also with compliments. But yes sameer has not given her Much to talk about. Rohan has. But she always wanted sameer uo there as well.
Ok I'm rambling. What do you guys think. Let's give her a chance.
Look aparently there are other rooms in the house but she was adamant about sameer and Rohan being together. She knows sameer needs to get to school ASAP and resume his life. In the room case she didn't even listen to her sasu Ma. Let's give her and sameer a chance.
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