|| Naina during the separation ||

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi All,
I just wanted to talk about Naina during the years of separation. We all have discussed about Sameer in these two years when he is in Delhi. But what about Naina?

Of course, she would be missing him, waiting for him. They will be in touch with each other hopefully. But these are the internal struggles. What about the external factors? For Sameer it would be his family and family dynamics.

For Naina, it would be little different.

I would like share my own experience when I was at Naina's age. My mom was talking about us kids with some family friend. She was just telling them how I was studying PUC 1st year (equivalent of 11th std) and she is waiting for me to complete 2nd year PUC (12th Std).

The family friend immediately said, "Of course, after 12th you will be finding a husband for me. You will be worried." My Mom firmly said no, she is worried about my higher education, not my marriage. It is too early to talk about that.

The point is, as soon as we girls reached the age of 18, the legal age, most of the society just assumed that we are ready for marriage and we should get married. And through out my four years of B.E. she kept getting wedding proposals for me. She was firm that I will not get married until I have a job, so she refused. And she knew I already have a BF.

Can you imagine, Naina's family supporting her like that? It would a challenge for her to survive the next few years, till Sameer attains marriage age.

I guess that is what Preeti-Village boy track is hinting at that. Of course I have not watched the episodes.

Love
Kshithi
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Posted: 7 years ago
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She will be under pressure. I hv marwarI friends whose marriage was fixed before they attain 18 and marriage done just after 18.naina also may be put under this pressure
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Posted: 7 years ago
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i think when Ashi posted some photo shoot pic, I had a similar thought that since all doubting thing is coming up, this sudden photo shoot makes sense only if they are planning to get her married off and save their so called izzat...

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I totally understand what you meant in the post..
I understnd for girls its far far difficult ... they are insecure, afraid , tensed and in pressure all the time..

ajj bi same hi h i doubt if Naina would be strong to have faith in such a long distance..
uska toh pain bi lamba chalega...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Muggle_Diaries

Hi All,

I just wanted to talk about Naina during the years of separation. We all have discussed about Sameer in these two years when he is in Delhi. But what about Naina?

Of course, she would be missing him, waiting for him. They will be in touch with each other hopefully. But these are the internal struggles. What about the external factors? For Sameer it would be his family and family dynamics.

For Naina, it would be little different.

I would like share my own experience when I was at Naina's age. My mom was talking about us kids with some family friend. She was just telling them how I was studying PUC 1st year (equivalent of 11th std) and she is waiting for me to complete 2nd year PUC (12th Std).

The family friend immediately said, "Of course, after 12th you will be finding a husband for me. You will be worried." My Mom firmly said no, she is worried about my higher education, not my marriage. It is too early to talk about that.

The point is, as soon as we girls reached the age of 18, the legal age, most of the society just assumed that we are ready for marriage and we should get married. And through out my four years of B.E. she kept getting wedding proposals for me. She was firm that I will not get married until I have a job, so she refused. And she knew I already have a BF.

Can you imagine, Naina's family supporting her like that? It would a challenge for her to survive the next few years, till Sameer attains marriage age.

I guess that is what Preeti-Village boy track is hinting at that. Of course I have not watched the episodes.

Love
Kshithi


I think she is going to affect more because of this separation..If spoiler is true about Taiji getting suspicious about her affair and if she will fail in exam then I don't even know which type of challenges she is going to face? She is already broken bcoz of separation and now after Taiji is doubtful about her affair,Taiji will definitely try to convince others for her marriage..Can't wait to watch how the story of Samaina's journey of togetherness will progress
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ruchi3179

She will be under pressure. I hv marwarI friends whose marriage was fixed before they attain 18 and marriage done just after 18.naina also may be put under this pressure


Exactly! I just hope Bela Chachi and Anand Chacha would be of some support.

Love
Kshithi
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Originally posted by: Hearttalks_90s

i think when Ashi posted some photo shoot pic, I had a similar thought that since all doubting thing is coming up, this sudden photo shoot makes sense only if they are planning to get her married off and save their so called izzat...


May be. Was she wearing any Saree? Usually the marriage photos were taken wearing saree's in a photo studio.

Love
Kshithi
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: srkfan05

I totally understand what you meant in the post..

I understnd for girls its far far difficult ... they are insecure, afraid , tensed and in pressure all the time..

ajj bi same hi h i doubt if Naina would be strong to have faith in such a long distance..
uska toh pain bi lamba chalega...


I know.. that is why I am rather be in 2018 and move forward. 😃

Naina would be strong enough to maintain a long distance relationship. Not sure how she will handle such things though, especially when Sameer is not near by,

Love
Kshithi
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Binta13


I think she is going to affect more because of this separation..If spoiler is true about Taiji getting suspicious about her affair and if she will fail in exam then I don't even know which type of challenges she is going to face? She is already broken bcoz of separation and now after Taiji is doubtful about her affair,Taiji will definitely try to convince others for her marriage..Can't wait to watch how the story of Samaina's journey of togetherness will progress


I too am looking forward to the next phase of their life. Just like Sameer, Naina too will have to face challenges from her family, apart from the pain of separation.

Love
Kshithi
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Muggle_Diaries


May be. Was she wearing any Saree? Usually the marriage photos were taken wearing saree's in a photo studio.

Love
Kshithi


she wore the same dress as what Preeti wore during Haldi of Pooja... other than marriage alliance talks the photo shoot dint make sense...

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