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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wat thy r showing abt early marraiges were true ...N gals less than 18..infact 16 was a marraigable age for many then!...i remembr i got my first propisal wen i was 15..dropped in vacations to my homeplace!😆..Especially in india, in my side ...it was no.big deal as my relatives,xtended family boasted how thy hve been married young ...but for gals like us jus as the Vo had mentioned v had no saying or inkling in such matters...!Tis was a fact too mny wud bait the gals parents that they wud see the gal gets educated in their house...😆jus as how that Kachras mom put it forth abt preeti...!ThankGOD my parents were thick n solid as rock ...For them my age n education was important... .Cmng to the show..Wen thy introduced tis kachra😆 n the propisal...the main aim was to show that the gals were married young n It can b indicative of wat troubles TAYJI can create if Nainas affair is out...Those times mny forcefully got their daughters married for the sake of izzat...So this can b a possibility!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hearttalks_90s


she wore the same dress as what Preeti wore during Haldi of Pooja... other than marriage alliance talks the photo shoot dint make sense...


Oh Okay. Thanks for the link.😊

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mehraan

Wat thy r showing abt early marraiges were true ...N gals less than 18..infact 16 was a marraigable age for many then!...i remembr i got my first propisal wen i was 15..dropped in vacations to my homeplace!😆..Especially in india, in my side ...it was no.big deal as my relatives,xtended family boasted how thy hve been married young ...but for gals like us jus as the Vo had mentioned v had no saying or inkling in such matters...!Tis was a fact too mny wud bait the gals parents that they wud see the gal gets educated in their house...😆jus as how that Kachras mom said abt preeti...!ThankGOD my parents were thick n solid as rock ...For them my age n education was important... .Cmng to the show..Wen thy introduced tis kachra😆 n the propisal...the main aim was to show that the gals were married young n It can b indicative of wat troubles TAYJI can create if Nainas affair is out...Those times mny forcefully got their daughters married for the sake of izzat...So this can b a possibility!


Exactly Meher!

Many people waited till 18, only because it is the legal age, not because 16 is too young to get married!!!

Girls getting an education is a norm now, not so much in those days...

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Posted: 7 years ago
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This phase is going to be really tough for naina... People like taiji are always around her to make her more miserable... And you are right about marriage proposals... Even during pooja's wedding those ladies were talking about looking for grooms for naina and preeti to bela chachi... We know that those days mostly girls were married off early.. Some exceptions might be there... Bt mostly it was like that... Groom hunting will surely happen... If she fails in exams, then its going to be even worse... I'm a '91 born... Still i got my first proposal at 17... These days mostly parents themselves rejects those proposals and we dont have to worry much... This is the reason i agree with ashi that 2018 is better atleast for girls... We have a say in their own matters unless those daysm
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Its going to be much more tougher for naina...
The toofan that was mentioned yesterday in that qsqt dong was not the toofan which has come in the form of nanu's death...But the toofan that will hit naina in sameer's absence...

Sameer's is leaving without meeting naina...No matter how much naina trusts sameer... Or how much sameer loves naina...There is an uncertainty of his return till the point sameer reaches out to her...Be it in the form of letter or calls...
But even after that...The curbs will be there on naina...Thanks to the rising suspicion of the family..

To add to her woes is the suspicion of taiji of her affair with someone ...Naina failing will add fuel to this fire ...And the only resort available to the agarwals will be to marry her off ASAP

Naina will be abused both mentally and physically...Taiji will not leave any stone unturned...

I feel sameer getting angry on naina spoiler will play here...He will be unaware of naina's abuses...And the mental pressure she is in...And wen he finally meets her...He will definitely not like what he will see...

Let's see how this plays out and wat the CVS have planned...I think naina's condition will prove to be the trigger for sameer to take up decisions for his and naina's future...Be it moving back to ahemdabad... Or taking up the business responsibility seriously
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelic567

This phase is going to be really tough for naina... People like taiji are always around her to make her more miserable... And you are right about marriage proposals... Even during pooja's wedding those ladies were talking about looking for grooms for naina and preeti to bela chachi... We know that those days mostly girls were married off early.. Some exceptions might be there... Bt mostly it was like that... Groom hunting will surely happen... If she fails in exams, then its going to be even worse... I'm a '91 born... Still i got my first proposal at 17... These days mostly parents themselves rejects those proposals and we dont have to worry much... This is the reason i agree with ashi that 2018 is better atleast for girls... We have a say in their own matters unless those daysm


yes, Simi. It was difficult for girls then. I am glad to be in 2018 too...as I have seen the old days and how difficult it was for me then.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -vandy-

Its going to be much more tougher for naina...

The toofan that was mentioned yesterday in that qsqt dong was not the toofan which has come in the form of nanu's death...But the toofan that will hit naina in sameer's absence...

Sameer's is leaving without meeting naina...No matter how much naina trusts sameer... Or how much sameer loves naina...There is an uncertainty of his return till the point sameer reaches out to her...Be it in the form of letter or calls...
But even after that...The curbs will be there on naina...Thanks to the rising suspicion of the family..

To add to her woes is the suspicion of taiji of her affair with someone ...Naina failing will add fuel to this fire ...And the only resort available to the agarwals will be to marry her off ASAP

Naina will be abused both mentally and physically...Taiji will not leave any stone unturned...

I feel sameer getting angry on naina spoiler will play here...He will be unaware of naina's abuses...And the mental pressure she is in...And wen he finally meets her...He will definitely not like what he will see...

Let's see how this plays out and wat the CVS have planned...I think naina's condition will prove to be the trigger for sameer to take up decisions for his and naina's future...Be it moving back to ahemdabad... Or taking up the business responsibility seriously


Completely agree with you.
Sameer being angry on Naina could be either because of her circumstances or he could be angry with their circumstances instead of Naina itself.

And once he gets the idea of Naina being in trouble, that would be his wake up call. To take his destiny in his hands again, to make Nanu proud, and to be with Naina.

Before too, it was Naina who was the reason for him taking up responsibilities, for him to change. It will again be her who will help him move forward.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Very true Kshithi..
as soon as Naina turns 18...the family would like her to be married off...Taiji's insistence at getting the girls to wed any random guy in the village shows how keen she is to get it done with. I actually hated her last night n felt Rakesh's reply was apt. Get Pralay married to a village girl. That's when she shut up. While there is no harm in it, what was the need for the urgency? If they did not find suitable grooms as per their education level, makes sense...but her behaviour last night irked me. If going by the spoilers, she does come to know about Naina n Sameer's affair n another MU between the couple (I'm guessing paper stealing truth)...Sameer would leave in anger. Of course, his anger would die down one day...but till then to stall her marriage would be a task in itself.
I'm also kind of thinking when bua dadi says Naina will come to Mumbai soon...why was that line put? For immediate future that she's sent to bua dadi to finish her education...or later on during their wedded life.
But whatever it is, I don't think the Agarwal clan is going to let Sameer have it easy this time. Taiji would be jealous...Rakesh has issues with Sameer...even Somanis might feel Naina is middle class...what if she's faking love with Sameer in greed of wealth...lots of angles...let us see how this story goes...ur mom is a really broad minded lady...hats off to her!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samaina_1990

Very true Kshithi..

as soon as Naina turns 18...the family would like her to be married off...Taiji's insistence at getting the girls to wed any random guy in the village shows how keen she is to get it done with. I actually hated her last night n felt Rakesh's reply was apt. Get Pralay married to a village girl. That's when she shut up. While there is no harm in it, what was the need for the urgency? If they did not find suitable grooms as per their education level, makes sense...but her behaviour last night irked me. If going by the spoilers, she does come to know about Naina n Sameer's affair n another MU between the couple (I'm guessing paper stealing truth)...Sameer would leave in anger. Of course, his anger would die down one day...but till then to stall her marriage would be a task in itself.
I'm also kind of thinking when bua dadi says Naina will come to Mumbai soon...why was that line put? For immediate future that she's sent to bua dadi to finish her education...or later on during their wedded life.
But whatever it is, I don't think the Agarwal clan is going to let Sameer have it easy this time. Taiji would be jealous...Rakesh has issues with Sameer...even Somanis might feel Naina is middle class...what if she's faking love with Sameer in greed of wealth...lots of angles...let us see how this story goes...ur mom is a really broad minded lady...hats off to her!!


Yes, Sur. You are right.

There are so many obstacles between Sameer and Naina now. It will only increase with time.

I do not think there will any MU between them though. Even the paper stealing incident. After losing Nanu, this whole thing would become insignificant.

I think the main challenges are the long distance relationship, Naina's family and her problems, Sameer's family and his problems.

And yes, my mom is very broad minded.😃

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Kshithi i think tat the marriage proposal yest in the village was introduced for a purpose for the future track..Taiji isnt gona keep quiet once she knows of Sameers n Nainas relationship as per spoiler..I doubt if shel tell any1 but wil play out smart by askin to get her off married.Naina is goin to go thru hell wit al this happenin around..I think Sameer gettin angry once hes in Ahmedabad,is coz of some alliance Naina gets im guessin..Like u said im highly doubtful its the paper stealin truth,..Only Arjun n Naina know abt the paper stealin truth..Why wud Arjun tell Sameer abt it whn he himself is fallin in luv wit Shefali,it wudnt make sense..N why wud Naina bring tat up aft Sameer comin from Delhi for her and wit so much goin on in their lives aft Nanus death..Like u n Vandy mentioned,i think this wil trigger Sameer,and make him start thinkin abt his responsibilities towards Naina,which wil make him take a complete shift to Ahmedabad ..Im assumin tats the way its gona play out...They have come so far in their relationship,tat there is no scope of misunderstandin and Sameer wil never walk off angryily..Till date he visits Mt Abu coz the very thought of him hurtin Naina back thn still troubles him as per Nainas Vo,so i doubt hel ever misunderstand her..n tat too aft being away frm each other wil he even afford to get angry and walk off unless it is somethin related to wat Taiji n Rakesh r doin to Naina,,
Like u mentioned,Taiji wil never agree to sameer n Nainas relationship coz shes jealous,Rakesh of his terms but somani i doubt wil have a problem..He mite display out tat he thinks shes aft his money,but within i think hel b happy coz shes a librarians daughter..I dnt think hes positive ..N he wil never ever b happy for Sameer is wat i feel
yes,back then gurls were married off very young witout havin much say..Isiliye taiji didnt even hesitate to accept tat village boys rishta..
Kudos to ur Mom Kshithi,for havin thought so forward regardin ur life :)
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