WORDS and HEART Should be HANDLED with CARE

We have two people here Naina and Sameer. Sameer has hurt Naina's heart and now Naina is hurting Sameer with words. I don't think Naina has realized that words like heart should be handled with care . One needs to check the usage of words before it leaves you. No wonder our older folks keep repeating it to us that "Be sure to taste your words before you spit them" because " A tongue does not have bones but its strong enough to break a heart."

I understand she is hurt as Sameer broke her heart but what she is doing is no different from what he did to her because Words and Heart if not handled with care will lead to disasters Words when spoken with out a thought and heart when broken are the hardest things be corrected.

You all must be wondering what made me write this post , well its because what Naina was telling Munna and Pandith. Below is what she told them . Have a look at it and I am sure she is going to regret these words more than what Sameer is regretting now.

Kaun Acha hain aur Kaun Avara mujhe bahut achi tarah se patha hain
Bherehmi se galthiyan karna besharmis se unhe na manana
Yeh toh tumlogon ki khasiyath hain na

( Really ?? How much do you know him?? You didn't even realise that this guy is in love with you . Did you ever think why he did not say the three magical words simple he did not want to win the bet. Did you ever think why he took all the blame on to himself spoiling his image but seeing to that your image is intact ??

Its your brother who cheated in the exam by stealing the paper because of which Sameer's image was spoilt. Did you/your brother try to correct it or reinstate his image ??

He accepted his mistake and is here in your house at your door steps to apologize and mend the situation. So is your comment right about him and his friends?? Think about it Naina dear , you are going to regret these words when the truth comes out )

Naina sirf apnon kakhayal rakthi hain
Aur Sameer mera apna nahi hain
Balki voh toh ek bura Sapna hain

( Then why did you not tell the truth about the fact that he cheated you. Why did you not tell your family that you fell in love with him ?? We are 100% sure that they wouldn't have allowed him into the house. Why do you keep stealing glances at him . if you don't care about him or like him.
People hate to look at people /things that they dislike . But that is not the case , you seem to be making excuses to come in front of him to answer the phone..in the kitchen..etc

Why did we see a flicker of hope or shall I say happiness when Munna said " woh pyar mein pagal hain
Think about it dear Naina. You will get your answer.You love him even today. The hatred you have for him is more to do with your ego than a broken heart.)

Wondering what will be her situation when she knows about the 5 Lakhs deal that her father has placed with Sameer's Nanu. I am sure there is a reason behind this deal.

Something tells me that the torcher in the house will be to such an extant that Sameer's Nana itself will come and give the money so that Sameer can live in peace. This might happen probably in front of Pooja's future in laws messing the whole situation . Again its just a wild guess , I could be wrong. But that 5 Lakhs has something to do with the marriage because Pooja's parents also said they are ready to spend 5 Lakhs for Pooja's wedding.

Wondering how it will all turn around . Whatever it is we are in for a treat . Very relatable characters , wonderful actors..not much over the top drama ( compared to other shows )..so friends keep your popcorns and coke ready!! Lets enjoy this journey and see the effect of Naina's words on this beautiful love story "Yeh Un Dhino Ki bath hain"

Eagerly waiting for your thoughts and comments..
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Each to every word u say ..brilliant vpost 👏

Originally posted by: Kavila

Each to every word u say ..brilliant vpost👏

Thank you , glad you liked it .

Hi Rock,

I also have similar views and expressed it in my previous post - Parasitic Relationship For Sameer.

There seems to be a huge disparity in the narrative of Naina right now. I don't know if the writers are doing it with something planned or it is just a misdirection.

Not because Naina is angry on Sameer. She has all the rights to be so.

But, the convenience with which she seems to have forgotten many of Sameer's good deeds seems very baffling.

For example, Sameer being the sole reason to fix Puja's marriage. At that point, his motive was to use this help to get closer to Naina.

However, it was a direct help to Naina's family. (Naina seems to have forgotten about it)

Another instance, If Sameer wanted, he could have maligned Naina's Image in Mount Abu (after he was caught in her room). That would have been his ultimate revenge.

But Sameer took all the beatings and abuses from Rakesh to save her dignity.

Naina has forgotten all these very conveniently. I hope the narrative shows her realization and make her realize & feel her mistakes. Otherwise, the mutual confession will hold no substance.

It will just appear that Naina for showing some apparent love is going to take chunks away from Sameer.

Naina will appear hugely double standard or vampish with the subconscious attitude in regards to Sameer - Love me, Love my family, Do everything for them, Get beaten/insulted by them and Do not expect me to go against my SACCHA DUO of RAKESH & ARJUN Shocked

Lol ! Can you imagine the plight of Sameer as a Possible Future Son-in-Law ?

Like you I am also confused as to what is the route for Sameer to be Naina's hero again? Does it always have to be - Sameer consistently doing things for her family tolerating all the abuses.

If that is the way writers have chosen then we are going a lot of collective insults on Sameer by Naina's Agarwal Trio including her. Only after Sameer is insulted to the core (all the while doing things for her family), May be Naina will be pacified enough to think calmly

There is nothing more dangerous than a woman SCORNED

And we are going to go through all this heady episodes in the hope that the noise reduces.

Uff !!!

I too feel very bad when I hear such words from her... these people keep on with their sansksanskaar jaap and openly kill all the sanskars their elders might have taught... wth... she was saying those words like besharmi and all... what did her brother do... he was a thief... and now also whatever was shown... I'm sure she was shown to see Arjun strangulating Sameer.. . And she is abusing all of them...

Originally posted by: Dr.Don

Hi Rock,

I also have similar views and expressed it in my previous post - Parasitic Relationship For Sameer.

There seems to be a huge disparity in the narrative of Naina right now. I don't know if the writers are doing it with something planned or it is just a misdirection.

Not because Naina is angry on Sameer. She has all the rights to be so.

But, the convenience with which she seems to have forgotten many of Sameer's good deeds seems very baffling.

For example, Sameer being the sole reason to fix Puja's marriage. At that point, his motive was to use this help to get closer to Naina.

However, it was a direct help to Naina's family. (Naina seems to have forgotten about it)

Another instance, If Sameer wanted, he could have maligned Naina's Image in Mount Abu (after he was caught in her room). That would have been his ultimate revenge.

But Sameer took all the beatings and abuses from Rakesh to save her dignity.

Naina has forgotten all these very conveniently. I hope the narrative shows her realization and make her realize & feel her mistakes. Otherwise, the mutual confession will hold no substance.

It will just appear that Naina for showing some apparent love is going to take chunks away from Sameer.

Naina will appear hugely double standard or vampish with the subconscious attitude in regards to Sameer - Love me, Love my family, Do everything for them, Get beaten/insulted by them and Do not expect me to go against my SACCHA DUO of RAKESH & ARJUN Shocked

Lol ! Can you imagine the plight of Sameer as a Possible Future Son-in-Law ?

Like you I am also confused as to what is the route for Sameer to be Naina's hero again? Does it always have to be - Sameer consistently doing things for her family tolerating all the abuses.

If that is the way writers have chosen then we are going a lot of collective insults on Sameer by Naina's Agarwal Trio including her. Only after Sameer is insulted to the core (all the while doing things for her family), May be Naina will be pacified enough to think calmly

There is nothing more dangerous than a woman SCORNED

And we are going to go through all this heady episodes in the hope that the noise reduces.

Uff !!!

When reality strikes...when she learns to trust her own instincts than others words...Guilt is going to hit her hard as I said in my post..worst than what Sameer is going thru now...and I don't think he is going to give in that easily too.

I feel the CVs have some plan wrt Arjun's cheating in exam..( I hope they haven't forgotten about it..well we never know such things can happen in hindi shows rofl ) Hopefully our CV wont forget.

Just wondering how long this torcher on Sameer will go on...any guess?? I think probably 3-4 weeks ..and then pooja's marriage...wondering how this love story is going to shape up..

In all this I am also hoping to see some nice cute moments ...I hope CVs bless us with that , if not there is no point in watching a love story... 😆

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

We have two people here Naina and Sameer. Sameer has hurt Naina's heart and now Naina is hurting Sameer with words. I don't think Naina has realized that words like heart should be handled with care . One needs to check the usage of words before it leaves you. No wonder our older folks keep repeating it to us that "Be sure to taste your words before you spit them" because " A tongue does not have bones but its strong enough to break a heart."

I understand she is hurt as Sameer broke her heart but what she is doing is no different from what he did to her because Words and Heart if not handled with care will lead to disasters Words when spoken with out a thought and heart when broken are the hardest things be corrected.

You all must be wondering what made me write this post , well its because what Naina was telling Munna and Pandith. Below is what she told them . Have a look at it and I am sure she is going to regret these words more than what Sameer is regretting now.

Kaun Acha hain aur Kaun Avara mujhe bahut achi tarah se patha hain
Bherehmi se galthiyan karna besharmis se unhe na manana
Yeh toh tumlogon ki khasiyath hain na

( Really ?? How much do you know him?? You didn't even realise that this guy is in love with you . Did you ever think why he did not say the three magical words simple he did not want to win the bet. Did you ever think why he took all the blame on to himself spoiling his image but seeing to that your image is intact ??

Its your brother who cheated in the exam by stealing the paper because of which Sameer's image was spoilt. Did you/your brother try to correct it or reinstate his image ??

He accepted his mistake and is here in your house at your door steps to apologize and mend the situation. So is your comment right about him and his friends?? Think about it Naina dear , you are going to regret these words when the truth comes out )

Naina sirf apnon kakhayal rakthi hain
Aur Sameer mera apna nahi hain
Balki voh toh ek bura Sapna hain

( Then why did you not tell the truth about the fact that he cheated you. Why did you not tell your family that you fell in love with him ?? We are 100% sure that they wouldn't have allowed him into the house. Why do you keep stealing glances at him . if you don't care about him or like him.
People hate to look at people /things that they dislike . But that is not the case , you seem to be making excuses to come in front of him to answer the phone..in the kitchen..etc

Why did we see a flicker of hope or shall I say happiness when Munna said " woh pyar mein pagal hain
Think about it dear Naina. You will get your answer.You love him even today. The hatred you have for him is more to do with your ego than a broken heart.)

Wondering what will be her situation when she knows about the 5 Lakhs deal that her father has placed with Sameer's Nanu. I am sure there is a reason behind this deal.

Something tells me that the torcher in the house will be to such an extant that Sameer's Nana itself will come and give the money so that Sameer can live in peace. This might happen probably in front of Pooja's future in laws messing the whole situation . Again its just a wild guess , I could be wrong. But that 5 Lakhs has something to do with the marriage because Pooja's parents also said they are ready to spend 5 Lakhs for Pooja's wedding.

Wondering how it will all turn around . Whatever it is we are in for a treat . Very relatable characters , wonderful actors..not much over the top drama ( compared to other shows )..so friends keep your popcorns and coke ready!! Lets enjoy this journey and see the effect of Naina's words on this beautiful love story "Yeh Un Dhino Ki bath hain"

Eagerly waiting for your thoughts and comments..
😊

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

When reality strikes...when she learns to trust her own instincts than others words...Guilt is going to hit her hard as I said in my post..worst than what Sameer is going thru now...and I don't think he is going to give in that easily too.

I feel the CVs have some plan wrt Arjun's cheating in exam..( I hope they haven't forgotten about it..well we never know such things can happen in hindi shows rofl ) Hopefully our CV wont forget.

Just wondering how long this torcher on Sameer will go on...any guess?? I think probably 3-4 weeks ..and then pooja's marriage...wondering how this love story is going to shape up..

In all this I am also hoping to see some nice cute moments ...I hope CVs bless us with that , if not there is no point in watching a love story... 😆

Amazing post Ashu!👏

Originally posted by: sanfan

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Lovely post @werocktheworld</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Glad you put the context to the actual characterisation of Naina.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Naina fell in love with the idea of love...so while that is fine..there is always some growing up to do when you fall blindly in love. 😆😆You get a hard knock...that knock to her head is also what she is nursing today. Not just the pain to her heart, 😉Whether it gives her the perspective to see the situation for what it is...remains to be seen. Her castle in the air broke but she needed little encouragement from anyone to build it..😆</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">The conversation with MunDit you quoted assumes importance when she has the clarity of vision to apply it to her situation. When she can see that she has not yet come clean to the school about the cheating incident. Her current state of mind may not permit her to see that through all the clouding of broken dreams...but hopefully she will see it and feel for it too...(unless CVs have selective amnesia😛)</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Just one other thing I wish to reiterate that I mentioned in a different thread...</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Yet if that was all there was to this tale, all it needed was just Naina to come clean on her hasty judgement of Sameer and they confessing that they have wronged each other in some form or the other and they forgiving each other and them living happily ever after. Finito...</font>

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">But writers always like obstacle races...Luckily in life, we try to avoid some of them with some simple common sense or plain good old communication channels free from traffic. Yet the fictional world allows you to throw curve balls for people to catch or not and imagine paths to open up or close. We have in this story the female protagonist with peculiar circumstances as does the male protagonist. In that sense they are the kindred spirits. This story is interesting for this reason, Naina's circumstances that make her an interesting character. And as @werocktheworld so beautifully described the various aspects of her persona in one of the posts.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Also another curve ball...while the forum is extolling Sameer's virtues now...my question is what if Naina was not the kind person Sameer sought in his lonely life...would he have changed for the better? Was that even a relevant conditon? Was the bet justifiable on any ground? Doesn't Sameer owe an apology to Naina irrespective of their love story just as Naina owes one to Sameer, nay the school for her subsequent knowledge becoming evident?</font>

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Personally, in a love tale, I never choose favourites...I love both parts to the tale equally and so I invest in it. I treat them as simple human beings just like all of us...we have the good in us and some bad too...😉It is very tempting to evangelise and pontificate but the fact is we always only analyse from our level of perception.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">One more thing...even while a lot of us may have interesting love stories of our own and they will remain for us the favourite ones...fiction lets us become pleasure seekers in other's love tales sometimes in very beautiful ways. Enjoy the romance till it lasts...in Hindi soapland, real satyanash is always around the corner...😆😆</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Also one last thing...this is a love tale about 16 year olds...please never ever lose sight of it...😊</font>

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">happy viewing and satyanashing!!😆</font>

Thank you that was a wonderful in sight. I like this kind of obstacles that throw a very relatable situation in the story. I love both Naina and Sameers character ...in fact I love Rakesh's sir character too...he makes it interesting...thadka nahi hain toh curry mein maza kahan??!!

And honestly the actors are living their role...and its beautifully translated to the screen ...though I would like to see a lot more perfection when it comes to certain aspects like checking on finer details - Naina's school photo in the card . from where did he get that ?? rofl...anyways keeping those aside the team has managed a beautiful love story. Many a times when Naina and Sameer get into a fight mode , it reminds of me a husband and wife fight...rofl...

This story doesn't have a villain as such ..so needs some shades of grey in all the characters to make it interesting and keep the viewers glued to the screen. For me they have done a wonderful job with a simple love story :-))