No Purab, Pragya is right

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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all, Team Pragya is very very very far from being perfect and for the most part of the series, they've handled things in the worst possible way. So whatever I say is not in support of them. I however do support Pragya's condition to Purab:
"Don't go talk to him."

How many more times, Purab? How many more times must you go and convince Abhi that Pragya is the girl for him? That Abhi loves Pragya? That they're meant to be together?

Why can't he figure it out for himself? Why can't he himself think about her happiness? Why does he need people to tell him what to do to keep Pragya happy?

Does he even love her?

Seriously, is he more just infatuated by the fact she's so devoted to him? Now that I think about it, he was more interested in knowing if she loves him than actually confessing. If he's not willing to make the commitment, why should Pragya believe he loves her? He so quickly pushed her from being his present to being his past in a blink of an eye.

Simple women psychology from generations and generations: women want security.
Abhi provides none. Funny enough, he provides security to no women in his life. Not to Tanu. Not to Aaliya. Not to Dadi (or else she wouldn't be always praying for him to make the right decisions). And definitely not to Pragya.

Sorry, I take that back. He seems to have committed to Tanu's mom. Maybe his motto is one women at a time. Sometimes it's Dadi, Tanu, rarely Pragya and now Tanu's mom. Tanu's mom who is supposed to die soon. He's more committed to the dying than the living and dragging people to join the dying club. Does he really think he'll keep anyone happy by marrying Tanu?

LOL to his 'I can't live without you'.
LOL to his 'I can't see you in pain'.
LOL to his 'you are my music that will never leave me'.

You proved all of this wrong in excellent speed.
Why say all this when you don't follow through with it?

By the way, what about his promises to Pragya? In my opinion, he's lost the right to call her Fuggy.

Pragya doesn't deserve this. She's made a lot of mistakes, I agree, but she doesn't deserve this. I honestly want her to go away from Abhi and find peace else where. Maybe they're not meant to be together at all. All the signs point to that anyway.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Pagalhawaii, aka Ani right?
Thank you 🤗so much for saying everything you did.

I thought people would think I am crazy as I felt happy that Pragya stopped Purab. Agree 200 % with everything you said. I wrote in some other thread, Abhi never gave her " emotional security " of being there for her forever or for her only. You articulated everything so well for me.

Exactly, Amen to your LOL's. Just perfectly put👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i always say that Abhi is a petulant child, he doesn't know what he wants, doesn't have a mind of his own, someone alway have to tell him what to do. Maybe it is time for Pragya to move out of his life and let him marry tanu, i personally think he deserved her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mili9

Pagalhawaii, aka Ani right?

Thank you 🤗so much for saying everything you did.

I thought people would think I am crazy as I felt happy that Pragya stopped Purab. Agree 200 % with everything you said. I wrote in some other thread, Abhi never gave her " emotional security " of being there for her forever or for her only. You articulated everything so well for me.

Exactly, Amen to your LOL's. Just perfectly put👏


Thanks mili (that is your name right?! Please forgive me if it isn't!)! (And yes, it's Ani! Nice to see you again 😊)

I'm glad there's someone with similar thoughts as mine! I feel like Pragya is given so much dirt for not speaking up. While sometimes it's true that she should defend herself, what has she ever gotten from doing so? What is she defending herself for? For this crap? To be with a guy who could desert in a few seconds? Nah, I prefer she save her breath sometimes.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: paglahawai


I however do support Pragya's condition to Purab:
"Don't go talk to him."

How many more times, Purab? How many more times must you go and convince Abhi that Pragya is the girl for him? That Abhi loves Pragya? That they're meant to be together?


Does he even love her?

Seriously, is he more just infatuated by the fact she's so devoted to him? Now that I think about it, he was more interested in knowing if she loves him than actually confessing. If he's not willing to make the commitment, why should Pragya believe he loves her? He so quickly pushed her from being his present to being his past in a blink of an eye.

Simple women psychology from generations and generations: women want security.
Abhi provides none. Funny enough, he provides security to no women in his life. Not to Tanu. Not to Aaliya. Not to Dadi (or else she wouldn't be always praying for him to make the right decisions). And definitely not to Pragya.

Sorry, I take that back. He seems to have committed to Tanu's mom. Maybe his motto is one women at a time. Sometimes it's Dadi, Tanu, rarely Pragya and now Tanu's mom. Tanu's mom who is supposed to die soon. He's more committed to the dying than the living and dragging people to join the dying club. Does he really think he'll keep anyone happy by marrying Tanu?

LOL to his 'I can't live without you'.
LOL to his 'I can't see you in pain'.
LOL to his 'you are my music that will never leave me'.

You proved all of this wrong in excellent speed.
Why say all this when you don't follow through with it?

By the way, what about his promises to Pragya? In my opinion, he's lost the right to call her Fuggy.

Pragya doesn't deserve this. She's made a lot of mistakes, I agree, but she doesn't deserve this. I honestly want her to go away from Abhi and find peace else where. Maybe they're not meant to be together at all. All the signs point to that anyway.


Aniii, hiii ❤️

BOLD-LOLOL. YOU NAILED ITTT!!

(Except I can't agree with them maybe not being meant to be together after all because...imo, they areee meant to be together )

See if I thought Abhi or Pragya didn't deserve the other, i wouldnt get upset with their actions. Its BECAUSE I totally ship them and want them both to be happy and to be together that I get beyond frustrated. 😆

But yes yes yes yes yes about Pragya never getting a sense of security from him. I think besides when they were in Lonavla and prior to his ML, he has never really comforted her with THEM being forever. She's always been confessed to by him with Tanu still at the side. He's always needed reassurance from her to never leave him, but I guess she's not allowed to get the same reassurance from him.

*SIGH* I'm sure he's going to be in despair tomorrow. I dont see things going so smoothly or him going thru with the rest of the rituals without feeling the heartbreak himself. And I dont want him to suffer or be sad. But I do want him to realize what he did today was wrong. His reasons of picking Tanu afterall over Pragya was beyond TERRIBLE, since he knew of Chudail mama's sickness and fatal condition from before.

I'm glad Pragya asked Purab to stop from telling Abhi anything either. I want Bae to solve this one on his own, since telling him Pragz is his wife will give him a panic attack.

And *sigh* Pragz will be at the haldi. Whats a party at mm without Pragya? 😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naina-


Aniii, hiii ❤️

BOLD-LOLOL. YOU NAILED ITTT!!

(Except I can't agree with them maybe not being meant to be together after all because...imo, they areee meant to be together )

See if I thought Abhi or Pragya didn't deserve the other, i wouldnt get upset with their actions. Its BECAUSE I totally ship them and want them both to be happy and to be together that I get beyond frustrated. 😆

But yes yes yes yes yes about Pragya never getting a sense of security from him. I think besides when they were in Lonavla and prior to his ML, he has never really comforted her with THEM being forever. She's always been confessed to by him with Tanu still at the side. He's always needed reassurance from her to never leave him, but I guess she's not allowed to get the same reassurance from him.

*SIGH* I'm sure he's going to be in despair tomorrow. I dont see things going so smoothly or him going thru with the rest of the rituals without feeling the heartbreak himself. And I dont want him to suffer or be sad. But I do want him to realize what he did today was wrong. His reasons of picking Tanu afterall over Pragya was beyond TERRIBLE, since he knew of Chudail mama's sickness and fatal condition from before.

I'm glad Pragya asked Purab to stop from telling Abhi anything either. I want Bae to solve this one on his own, since telling him Pragz is his wife will give him a panic attack.

And *sigh* Pragz will be at the haldi. Whats a party at mm without Pragya? 😆


Naina! Hi!!!! 😃🤗 (LOL no matter what happens to Abhigya, our relationship will never change even if we're at differing opinions)

You know that I secretly want Abhigya together- I wouldn't be here if I didn't 😆
And you're right, if I didn't want them together, I wouldn't be so annoyed- I even made a rant about it!

But I hate how the directors have handled this! If the confession didn't happen then I wouldn't be this angry! It would be a lot more bearable! I could actually see where Abhi was coming from!

But now he is just jumping from commitment to commitment, woman to woman, mistake to mistake. It's so freakin' annoying!!! And he's hurt Pragya SO SO SO much in the process!

So one thing I can't agree with you on this one. The sadist I am wants him to be hurt and pay for always making Pragya the 100th priority.

I want him to pay for making us, the Abhigya fandom, a 1000th priority! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: paglahawai


Thanks mili (that is your name right?! Please forgive me if it isn't!)! (And yes, it's Ani! Nice to see you again 😊)

I'm glad there's someone with similar thoughts as mine! I feel like Pragya is given so much dirt for not speaking up. While sometimes it's true that she should defend herself, what has she ever gotten from doing so? What is she defending herself for? For this crap? To be with a guy who could desert in a few seconds? Nah, I prefer she save her breath sometimes.


Yes Ani, it is Mili. You haven't been around lately.
Agree, agree , agree again.

No need to beg, be around him anymore. His choice is clear, he will choose all kinds of crappy reasons over her . I hope she doesn't go back to "proving again" something or the other. This time, for once, I want the hero of the show to take charge and figure out this mystery. He has ML, he is not cognitively impaired😡. How long can one make an adult realize? Why should somebody else be responsible for his wife's or the love of his life's happiness? How long should a woman try to safeguard her husband from him falling hook, line and sinker for all kinds of crap?

Love the way you put the bolded part👏👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: paglahawai


Naina! Hi!!!! 😃🤗 (LOL no matter what happens to Abhigya, our relationship will never change even if we're at differing opinions)


Awww, Ani, you know I totally love you regardless ❤️ *hugs you tighter*

LOLOL at Abhi not keeping Abhigya fandom a priority!!! 😆 YESS!! I'm sure if he knew that theres millions of girls that want him to marry Pragz, his priority would switch from Tanu ki Amma to Pragz and us 😛

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