7 Stages Of Love Which MehRya Has Already Crossed...(With CAPS)

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Posted: 8 years ago
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1. Dilkashi (Attraction)

The first stage of beginning of a story, eyes meet, sparks initiated and something happens. At this stage a boy likes or gets attracted to a girl. But he may not know exactly as to what attracts him, but he realizes that there is something in her which he finds interesting.

2. Uns (Attachment)

And now in this stage he is more interested in her and decides to woo her. So he will try to get any opportunity to talk to her, meet her and so on. He keeps on looking for her signals too. In case he do not get any indication from her in this stage he will move on to other greener pastures but not without a sincere attempt.




3. Mohabbat (Love) :

The most blissful of all stages. Here the guy starts feeling at top of the world unaware of other things in life just lost in thoughts of his beloved. Here, he is totally involved. She showed him attention and he is now madly in love (he thinks but actually he is not)


4. Akidat (Trust/Reverence) :

This stage initiates the process in love. Here one started trusting someone more than anything and anyone. At this stage the boy decides about the relation and gets into it. Now, he is becoming dependent and his feelings are getting serious now. After this there is no turning back in love.

5. Ibadat (Worship) :

In this stage love reaches at the extend of worshiping the beloved where nothing can be wrong with the object of worship. Here love not ends even after a denial by the beloved instead leads to the next stage of love. He is loosing control here.



6. Junoon (Madness) :

In this stage one finds his own identity incomplete without beloved thus his urge to have love reaches to the level of obsession and madness. A stage where mind stops working and heart starts ruling everything, a very dangerous stage where nothing counts except obsession about the beloved counts.

7. Maut (Death) :

The final stage of love now the self identity is completely lost. Here the existence of lover depends on the existence of beloved. There is no turnaround. The final end of a love story either from both the lover or the boy as he believe he can't exist without her



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Kuch smjh me nhi aya maasi but I loved the caps.😃😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheLifeDiaries

Kuch smjh me nhi aya maasi but I loved the caps.😃😛


😆😆😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Don't tell me shamz you wrote this?😲😲
It was beautiful and for the first time, I am seeing such a post. Well done, dearie.🤗

Loved it and also, thanks for the caps!😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Aisa bhi hota hai kya love mein??
Itna stages.. 😕
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Payal yeh Maine nahi likha...It's used in dedh ishqiya movie. ..

The Sufi traditions described the seven stages of love as Dilkashi (Attraction), Uns (Attachment), mohabbat (Love),akidat (Trust/Reverence), Ebadat (Worship), Junoon (Madness) and Maut (Death)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Santiago24

Aisa bhi hota hai kya love mein??

Itna stages.. 😕

Tujhy nahi patah Kya 😛😳

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautifully put,Shams,
Few lines from one of my favourite song:

You want commitment, and take a look into these eyes.
They burn with fire, Yeah, until the end of time.
And I would do anything, I'd beg, I'd steal,
I'd die to have you in theses arms tonight.
Baby I want you like the roses want the rain,
You know I need you like a poet needs the pain.
And I would give anything. My blood, my love, my life.
If you were in these arms tonight.
I'd hold you, I'd need you,
I'd get down on my knees for you.
And make everything alright,
If you were in these arms.
I'd love you, I'd please you,
I'd tell you that I'd never leave you.
And love you till the end of time,
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shamrouz

Tujhy nahi patah Kya 😛😳


arre no!!

I guess am only in stage 3 or maybe 4.. baaki toh 😕

nahiii
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Shams, I really wanted a post like this, but honestly in future. But, nevertheless thanks. I have a different interpretation; currently it is an amalgamation of Stage 1 - HUB, Stage 2 - UNS and Stage 6 - JUNOON for THE great. I loved the snaps that you have selected from that kidnapping scene. I was wishing someone creates a post on 7 stages of love in future and add a few from that sequence for Stage 6 😊!!!
Edited by chandrima02 - 8 years ago

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