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Talk about hitting ur head with a brick wall time and again! GIFS don't cut in..bring on the discussion..
+1 Great post 👍🏼 👏This video, I believe, is from after Bani's call to Lopa, and before Lopa's call. Lopa reacted with patience during Bani's call, and said the same on the weekend. She was clearly far more affected with everything that followedher own call - i.e. being violently attacked, Bani's and other HMs' wrongful accusations that she spoke ill of Bani's mum, and being painted the sole bad guy in this - when Bani started it and equally muddied it.
And then she was almost unanimously declared the villain, and heard Salman tell them how both of them shamed their families and parents - all of this is what bothered her far more, and she didn't deviate from that on the weekend. It was Salman who enumerated all of what Bani said to Lopa - not Lopa, who much later stated that she has her own dreams of her career and shaadi, and only stressed on what Bani said about Lopa's credit cards after Salman spoke of her father, and upbringing in general at length. She was doubtless miserable about the whole thing - her own conduct included.Lopa displayed patience in the task - which was the requirement - and when tables were turned, Bani didn't, and reacted violently towards Lopa, and with the HMs (barring Rohan) made Lopa the sole bad guy - this upset Lopa far more than anything else - and that is exactly what she showed too. It was Bani who attempted to lie on the weekend - about what Lopa said re her mum, about what she herself said to Lopa, and about her colourful abuses, both general and to Lopa.As for Lopa saying 'I was sitting in the corner crying' when Manveer said we didn't know Bani spoke of your Nani - Manveer is in the video you posted, where (if you watch the full video) Lopa clearly tells them that Bani asked what was the saddest moment in her life, and she replied with her Nani's passing. Manveer already knew before the weekend - and Lopa was upset having recalled her Nani's passing.
You want to sympathize with the tears she sheds, the stories she tells, but somehow they still lack conviction and truth. Her gestures, her actions, her words time and again keep proving how manipulative she is. Maybe she is too unknowingly manipulative, that is the only benefit of the doubt that I can give to her.Even though I dislike Manu but he proved that he had the balls to admit that he does the most back-biting. I was amused at the same time shocked at how Lopa made the whole situation so one-sided, and no she did not need Salman's help for it at all.1) Lopa says she was being calm and patient during her phone call. Cool. That I agree with, it seemed like Lopa was least bothered by what Bani was saying. In fact her replies "aapko dawayion ki nahin duaon ki zaroorat hai" suggested the maliciousness in her mind too. Now let's assume Lopa is a calm, mature person. If she exercised calm during her phone, then instead of replying to Bani sharply she could have said the following things"Bani you don't know anything about my father, his income, so please don't suggest that I use his money";"Bani what you are saying will not go down well with the audience, as I have dreams of getting married";Lopa had the opportunity to calmly tell Bani the same either herself or when Bani asked her if she was okay with the things that were being said to her.2) Lopa was very hurt by Bani's words but wanted to appear level-headed to the HMs.Um ok cool. But if she was truly hurt by the things Bani said to her not only would she have cleared it out with Bani, but also would not have stooped below Bani's level to get back at her.Lopa kept blaming Bani for ruining her image, but honestly, it was in Lopa's hands to do damage control and not stoop so low either. It's all about the choices one makes. No one forced her to plan the vicious hate she was going to spew at Bani.3) Lopa was laughing in front of the HMs or didn't want to tell them about what Bani did.If she really did not want the HMs to know what Bani did, then the next day after Bani's reaction she would not keep pushing "YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT SHE SAID TO ME" as a counter argument in her defense for going overboard with her comments.She did say Bani talked about my make up, my shadi, my expenses but nothing like the monologue she prepared for WKW.If Bani's reaction and other HMs reactions had pushed her to tell them what Bani said, as a natural human reaction in her defense, she would have very easily been able to articulate the same points she said on WKW in front of Salman; the envelopes, her dreams of getting married.If someone says she was too shaken up, then I cannot believe it because she had enough capability to spew insults like"Ye toh aise hi shows karke ayi hai";"I haven't got any work done"; "This is what I wanted to show, ye aise hi karti hai""Meri image ka kya hoga;"Logon ko bahar kitna funny lagega kisi ladki ne mujhe aise hug karke pakad lia" ;"She does use it yaar";These were the actual reasons she was upset about, not the ones she cried about during WKW.Lopa only attacked Bani the next day not because she felt Bani attacked her family and looks but because she was on a vengeful streak to expose Bani.4) Lopa started sniffling, slightly brushing her nose, making psycho facial contortions after she saw Salman was not taking Bani's side. Salman's mere mention of words such as "family", "dada dadi" gave her the opportunity to sway the entire focus on her pain and her damaged image.When she sat on the Khalnayak kursi, she said "I have a lot to vent out", to which Salman laughed a bit and then took a break.Where was all this venting out the first time Bani said all of that you? Why does she have to make human reactions so calculative?If you are truly hurt by something, please say it there and then. Clear the air out. Why do you want to keep it in and make it look like you are the only one who is suffering?5) The final blow for me was when she uttered the words "Bani's image will not get damaged only my image will suffer". Wait a minute...First, you say Bani said shit to you, then why won't Bani's image suffer? Is it really all about Lopamudra and her image?Chalo, in a way it makes sense since she thinks Bani has only done sadakchap shows before and now Bigg Boss.At least have the compassion to accept that both of you wronged each other.Then she said, "Bani thinks only she has problems in life". But Lopamudra also thinks that only she has struggled and suffered in life too.Crying over stuff like meri shadi ke sapne, merese kon karega. I mean since those are her dreams so only she will be affected.So if she knew how she felt after what Bani said, and if she truly felt that it would damage her career and image, then why the hell did she try to malign the image of anotherperson if she had the choice not to?6) Lopa told all the HMs that Bani said something related to her nani. Even Manu repeated the same during WKW "Nani se related kuch baat boli usne"So now that Salman had the done the khulasa of all the things Bani had said, what was Lopa waiting for in order to clear the air about the nani issue?Would it really hurt her ass to tell everyone that Bani was sympathetic about her situation?
Salman gave her an inch, and she took it to a mile; "Bani you have been swearing at me every day". "She has done this, she has done that"
She has found a friend in Rohan, now I expect her to learn things like
'How to be truly compassionate?', 'How not to act selflessly when you are selfish?';
'How to be true to yourself?';
'How to learn to do something for others but not remind them about it every time?';
In fact, gift her a: How to be Human 101 and if you are not then don't act like one.Lopa's entire performance was insufferable, obvious, and manipulative!As I said before her Niagara also falls in a very calculating manner.Please stop twisting and turning, and pinching your head, and contorting your mouth while trying to cry.You put every OTT reaction to shame.
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