If Gaurav wants more than friendship from Bani?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I was noticing it from many days but was avoiding making a thread on it as evidence to support my suspicion were not very solid. But now some comments of other posters are forcing me to make this thread.

Now following are my observations that support my suspicion.

* Whenever he talk about his friendship with Bani with anyone, he keep saying ' jaisa rishta hota ha waisa he behave kiya jata, woh jo umeed mujh se rakhti hain, us umeed ke badle me na woh koi aisi baat mujhe kehti hain na waisa rishta ha' as if she want her to say something and make some special relation and then start expecting.

* In one unseen video he said that when you have a 100% wala relation with someone in this game about whom you are fully sure that this is the person then you can even accept defeat happily to make that person win but you can't do it if relation is of 95% wala.

* He says to Bani many times about something that I won't do it in firm way but then after five minutes go to her to do the same thing to make her happy. Eg. That door fight scene in luggage area, today giving money and asking Mona to sing song for him.

* He is clearly jealous of Bani-Jason bonding. Sulking continuously and showing his anger in stupid ways.

Its a question and not something confirmed. I'm still confused. Please share what do you think?

I hope its not true. I don't want any love angle and wish everyone to play individually.

EDIT
Ok so here's conclusion based on all the comments:

"For Gaurav only a girlfriend has right to ask or expect what for Bani a friend can ask."

I don't think it has anything to do with how old is their friendship because in unseen videos whenever Bani tease him by saying that as yet I understand you only 10% or 15% then Gaurav get irritated as he think they've spent enough time together that now there should be no confusion between them.

Maybe he came from that school of thought where 'Ek ladka aur ladki Kabhi dost nahi ban sakte'.

btw if this friendship thing was imposed on him then he would consider Jason as a blessing or relief but that's not the case. He never leave Bani after saying or doing something harsh the way he left Lopa yesterday.
Edited by tinaaaa - 8 years ago

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Posted: 8 years ago
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You wrote exactly what I was thinking. He was saying she only does this to me or has this kind of expectations from me. She should come and talk to me why she has this kind of expectations . I think Gaurav wants something more. But this led to lots of misunderstanding between them. Hope they patch up soon.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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exactly mujhe bhi kuchh aisa hi lg raha hai.
bhale hi bani abussive hai, moody hai, bahut jaldi snap krti hai pr usne gaurav ke sath frndship achhi tarah nibhayi hai. aur ab gaurav ka ye kehna ki aisa rishta nahi hai its quite confusing. aakhir usse friendship me chahiye kya?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Some of it is true but IDT he wants anything more than friendship, it's just he also wants her attention completely and this new change isn't likable in his eyes. He even said in the epi that before you stepped into the picture, we used to be together all day long but now we fight but are not able to sort it out coz we don't spend that much time together. He is sulking and since he has those crazy passionate eyes so everybody assumes it's sth romantic.
P.S- He is touchy AF at times. I get it but it's funny too! Oh FunFact, I think he referred to his dick as Khazana in the unseen video where Priyanka was touching him and he was like >Ye bohot pass hogaya, Mai khazane ki baat kar raha hu.🤣

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tina if that's the case then y was he defending to Manveer and Mona regarding there is no such commitment based relationship and there is nothing in that relationship like they think .. I mean what was he trying to say ? Does he need more than friendship from bani or he doesn't want any other relationship from her except friendship .. his statements confuses me
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Don't know but I agree with you 1 point
He is definitely jealous bani-jason bonding
How much he tries to hide but his face clearly said

Till now he is the one bani spending all her time but now situation is not like that
So obviously its human nature to get jealous

But I think Jason is also takes advantage of gaubani fight
He watched it from outside & want to make an angle (maybe I can misunderstood but I feel)

& he even told Mona when salman or someone criticized him about their relationship, bani didn't support him but kept Telling dekha dekha,
Edited by RB.ritz - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think Gaurav is definitely jealous of Jason. The way he stated to Jason that before u came we were able to sort out our arguments but now she spends time with u so it doesn't happen proves it. I also feel Jason takes advantage of it to get more closer with bani
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Posted: 8 years ago
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don't think he wants anything more from her LOL. He actually meant the opposite.
what he meant that Bani demands too much from him(acc. to him) which sometimes he cannot understand as their rishta is not more than a simple friendship.


And Bani doesn't want anything like that either it's just she thinks everything with whoever she talks to not just Gaurav as "WE" and for Gaurav it's "ME and YOU"

I am a "WE" person so relate to Bani more and don't really like people like Gaurav no matter how honest or good they are, they think of their useless asools or image all the time instead of the real matter, it's just too selfish IMO.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The wise one (Hippo i.e.) agrees with goldie - except the part where she shows her inclination towards Baani than Gaurav
What is going on between the 2 is following

Gaurav is a very sorted out. clear headed, less emotional and logical person who lives life on asool, parampara. prashistha and anushasan. He sees Bani as a friend but he does not see her as his girlfriend or future wife where he would sacrifice his own interest over her.

Baani, whether she loves or not, is definitely behaves in a manner where she is expecting a lot from Gaurav as if she is his girlfriend. I mean in casual friendship dont get to the level where u start expecting things from him as if he is ur boyfriend. Even if she does not love him - still she is coming out as one. Even if she is using him - she is coming out as one. The emotional, sensitive, holding high expectation

Gaurav tries to resist but is not too inflexible like he did offer money in the end but inside he is not happy. He does not like confusion in life..he sees life through logic. The way he shut up Lopa complaining was one of the best thing in this season. He said to her today you are irritated but the other day you were with Manveer when he was doing same against me. Lopa's face was to look at. Gaurav shut all her point. Even though I agreed with Lopa that it was unfair. Still considering her history she was caught as dual personality

In conclusion Baani should expect less and respect Gaurav, his class..his sorted nature..his smartness..he is a great person so stop treating him as some sadak chap romeo.

He will do things his way - which almost always is based on logic and sense

And that is why Gaurav Chopra is Hippo's favorite this year.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with what hippo said...
Plus the changes in Gaurav this week seem to be a direct result of the pati-patni comment from the weekend. That was an eye opener for him. Which could be why the whole rishta comment came up.


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