If Gaurav wants more than friendship from Bani?

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shinningstar

@shinningstar

Voyager

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

he's feeling suffocated now...she says friendship but corners him and expects him to become her sidekick r doormat like anthony in roadies , he doesn't understand y since its just friendship and not even tht strong friendship.so y play guilt trip games and corner him and not let him play his game cry sulk and make him look bad. hes pissed off as she's doing my way or i sabotage ur image as friend backstabber. he shud thank jason and let bani be with him and move out and play his game. its clear he can bond well with others and most others like him.

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@BebaakBegum

Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: hippopotamus
The wise one (Hippo i.e.) agrees with goldie - except the part where she shows her inclination towards Baani than Gaurav
What is going on between the 2 is following

Gaurav is a very sorted out. clear headed, less emotional and logical person who lives life on asool, parampara. prashistha and anushasan. He sees Bani as a friend but he does not see her as his girlfriend or future wife where he would sacrifice his own interest over her.

Baani, whether she loves or not, is definitely behaves in a manner where she is expecting a lot from Gaurav as if she is his girlfriend. I mean in casual friendship dont get to the level where u start expecting things from him as if he is ur boyfriend. Even if she does not love him - still she is coming out as one. Even if she is using him - she is coming out as one. The emotional, sensitive, holding high expectation

Gaurav tries to resist but is not too inflexible like he did offer money in the end but inside he is not happy. He does not like confusion in life..he sees life through logic. The way he shut up Lopa complaining was one of the best thing in this season. He said to her today you are irritated but the other day you were with Manveer when he was doing same against me. Lopa's face was to look at. Gaurav shut all her point. Even though I agreed with Lopa that it was unfair. Still considering her history she was caught as dual personality

In conclusion Baani should expect less and respect Gaurav, his class..his sorted nature..his smartness..he is a great person so stop treating him as some sadak chap romeo.

He will do things his way - which almost always is based on logic and sense

And that is why Gaurav Chopra is Hippo's favorite this year.

You know Hippo! You are very on point here but I'd just like to add my own 2 cents to this. I think different people have different expectations from friendship. It's very difficult to separate the GF and Good Friend thing at times. I keep telling my best friend that we are friends without benefits while his GF is his Friends with benefits😆

Anyway, I think friendship is a very subjective thing and though I find Bani's definition of friends too cumbersome to deal with but I think I'll give her the benefit of doubt coz IDT I've seen anyone else talk about their best friends as much as Bani does in the show. She looks like one of those people who always want to be there. Like Always. Territorial as she herself said😆

I don't see any fault of Gaurav in this regard. His definition of friendship is different and he should stick with his belief and Bani should stick with her own and both should reach a common point as per their wish😊

P.S- I find Bani's snapping and walking away bit very irritating and I've always wanted Gaurav to answer her back for that and I'm glad he's starting to do that.

Edited by StinsonIsHere - 8 years ago

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Sunshine

@teri_Sanem

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Main actually darr jati huun Gaurav k kuchh bhi likhne ko because of u Hippo.

It's not that he is bad or anything bas mujhe gussa bohot aajata hai and I just couldn't control it today. and yes he is too logical fr me and I am(was) more like Bani so relate to her and expect too much from people around me which is unhealthy I know. I just can't control it lol. 🤣😆

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yellowsapphire

@yellowsapphire

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: shinningstar
he's feeling suffocated now...she says friendship but corners him and expects him to become her sidekick r doormat like anthony in roadies , he doesn't understand y since its just friendship and not even tht strong friendship.so y play guilt trip games and corner him and not let him play his game cry sulk and make him look bad. hes pissed off as she's doing my way or i sabotage ur image as friend backstabber. he shud thank jason and let bani be with him and move out and play his game. its clear he can bond well with others and most others like him.

Agree with you, but he has lesser chance towards trophy .

Winner generally is loyal to at least one person. Gautam was loyal to punz despite his faults. Pritam lost ground after his wife came and he tried to move away from P3G.

I don't think Guarav ever wanted to be very closely associated with Bani. He, at present has no one who is completely in his corner. In paint task even Rohan and Rahul were not with him.

M3 are together, Lopa has Rahul and Rohan, even Priyanka has Om Swami but rest are on there own. It does help to have someone support you emotionally when you r in a place like big boss house and emotional stability does help you move forward in game

Just my 2 cents>

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Fatema

@DoremonLove

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Y do i feel that its the other way round its bani who wants too much thats y keeps on cribing where as gaurav yest only said n times that he doesnt have special relation woth her.

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Pillwa

@PilloWtalk_13

Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

I am thinking the same TM

Though dont want anything more than frndship as both of them are engaged!!

But who can control feelings!!

Just like me,infact most of the ppl including mona's bf thinks mona has feelings for manu inspite of their 8yrs relationship!!

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Jemimah90

@Jemimah90

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#17

The reporter is going to add fuel to fire between Bani and Gaurav.

The precap showed reporter telling Gaurav. He stands nowhere without Bani in the show. 😆 😆

Hopefully going forward Gaurav will run opposite direction of Bani 😆

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Uma2010

@Uma2010

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Nope. I think I can understand Gaurav pretty much well. At the beginning of the show, due to the their fairly sophisticated celebrity backgrounds, Gaurav has no issue syncing well with Bani. Bani now, has issues with female companionship. I wouldn't find fault per se with that. Many women find it easier to connect with men, who are generally less judgmental. Earlier too, she had connected with Lokesh, only on Salman's request.

That said, Gaurav's connection with Bani is as a casual guy friend he made on the show 😆- nothing more. He does not understand girl talk or girlie expectations. You did this for me, now you have to do that etc. His head is a very chilled out man's world, almost the kind we see at our workplaces. The guy's doing his work on Big Boss- acting the part, forging relationships and not friendships. He has ambitions as he should and is mature.

Now Bani needs someone who is a constant protector and she probaly had expectations of a father-protector kind from Gaurav, which he had no intentions to fulfil, atleast the kind she expected. Who would actually expect a body builder tattoed woman to need that, however much she says? 😕Again, the poor guy would actually like to play his game individually and is having to forever take his decisions, base his actions and speak to people under Bani's scrutiny.

He is surely not jealous of Jason. Rather, he is plain irritated that Bani walks out where serious sorting out is required and then the sort out time is spent chatting to Jason and then the issue gets escalated. In the end of it, he would have been fine on it, but he knows the Bani fan world including Salman, would blame him for all of it. Bani is never blamed for anything on weekend ka vaar is she?

So, can he ever on Big Boss be himself and play his own game?

That last shot from yesterday- Bani scrambling to speak to Jason at night was so blah, and one realises exactly where Gaurav's coming from then.

Edited by Uma2010 - 8 years ago

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khamosshhh

@khamosshhh

Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

I think the main thing between Bani and Gaurav are that they have different definition and expectations from friendship and neither is wrong in their place.

For Bani even a 50 day old friendship made in BB house demands high expectations, whereas Gaurav does not think that they have such a friendship that Bani can make such demands from him. According to Bani, she is there to support Gaurav every time and yes she does, but it's not like Gaurav has asked her to support him. It's totally her call. For Gaurav, he does not feel the need to support Bani every time and again that's fair enough.

Another major difference is dat for gaurav priority is game and for him game and friendship are 2 different things. For bani, friendship, especially with Gaurav is a priority and she does not demarcate friendship and the game.

I can understand both of them and both are right in their own place, but I think Bani should stop being so demanding and have such high expectations from Gaurav.