SSO of Double Standards

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Truly, I have never seen a man display double standards as clearly & shamelessly as Shivaay.
It's ok for him to propose to another woman and not only make it a point for Anika to witness the proposal but to also ensure Anika makes all the arrangements for the wedding so as to bring home a point that he will always choose bloodline, family and name over attraction and passion.

But now that there is a possibility that someone is willing to provide Anika with all the love, caring and protection the sweet girl deserves, he is upset! He has got to be kidding!!

Talk about a dog in the manger 😒👎🏼. He won't marry her but no one else is allowed to either. 😡Seriously!!!

So what was his plan? To marry Tia but to carry on watching Anika from afar with the hope that anytime she's in trouble she'll call & he will get to play the knight in shining armour? PLEEEAAASSSE. Get real Shivaay.

I'm sorry if this post offends anyone in the forum but it's so annoying that a man who is so decisive & smart in business matters can be such a fool in matters of the heart.

Poor Anika...
Edited by shanry - 8 years ago

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Posted: 8 years ago
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After watching today's episode my mum was like why is Shivay so sad and what's wrong with him? He is marrying another girl but wants her to not get married? Why? then my mum said isko shadi usse karni hain aur iske saath rehna hain...
My mum's thought about Shivay embarrased me but I can't utter a word in his support. Shivay please question urself and don't confuse us. Don't provoke people to have wrong perception about you, please because as I started loving you Shivay, it hurts seeing people are believing disgusting trash about you
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't know but it didn't yet come under double standards I guess.
don't know .
but he didn't confront anika about her decision or asked why she said yes or asking her to change decision.

who khud side mey ro rahan hain ,its like suffering from his own decision outcome or karma.

but I don't think it yet came for double standards
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's true, what he want exactly? for her to be available for him after marriage? He loves her so much but he can't married her because she's a middle class girl and doesn't fit into his class but no one else should have her either? But he's willing to married Tia but Anika shouldn't married anyone.
I don't like Daksh but if not him Anika would have been married to someone else too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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u have a point we all agree jeene do aur jeelo funda follow karo shivay
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think that you are being offensive. This is the truth. He has been expecting this from her. He wants her to stay his even when he is all set to be someone else's. Although I would disagree that he being a businessman is acting dumb. All the 'na, no, Nahi ' even if they were unintentional were a sort of manipulation. And it almost worked as after hearing so many nos from his mouth , Anika who obviously was on Autopilot said no. But then she remembered what he said, thought about it & even if she acted that she didn't give a damn, she was angry with him. And then she did let that anger resurface & said yes just to piss him off. Oh the Tashan she had when she said Thank u to his cocky congratulations! All sorts of emotions! Anger, sadness, disappointment at once.Uff! He just need to understand that the longer he takes it to accept that he loves her & cannot live without her even when she doesn't fit his parameters, more he is pushing her away. And Anika for once is not gonna stay waiting. She is gonna do everything he asked her not to just to piss him off.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This post is like a 'Bitter Truth' for Shivay and Shivika Fans and I agree to it, m sure many others too😆 But its not double standards, its his confused feelings...the ego clashes and the war between his ideologies and beliefs and his Feelings for someone
He doesn't know wat he wants from himself and from her!

Doesn't even realize why he is doing this...to hurt her, to push her away or to pull her closer

He is running away from his own feelings but not even for a moment can see her or even think about her with someone else!

He wanted to question her a lot m sure, scream at her, tell her that she belongs to him but he knew he couldn't...coz he did the same...he had no right to question her...hence the Congratulations!

She was shaken...deeply hurt that he Congratulated her...so she retaliated the hurt back with a thank you!

Both were equally hurt, pained! 💔
Edited by Crazy4Mayur - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Absolutely! As much as I can feel Shivaay's pain, homeboy here is being a colossal hypocrite. If he gets to ignore his heart so that he can be with Tia, well Anika most certainly does NOT need to wait in the wings for him.
Although Anika totally took that decision to get engaged today just to spite Shivaay, it also sent him a huge reality check: She is not going to wait for him while he moves on without her
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i don't think shivaay was in anyway displayig double standards...he didnt question or taunted her of the decision of accepting the proposal. and i think shivay rejecting daksh in behalf of annika was plain, simply the fact that he doesn't want annika to deal with such an embarrassing situation; he felt he was simply helping her to get out of it and in avoiding the limelight. and annika, herself would have been felt grateful sans this misunderstanding.
and marrying tia was his plan prior meeting annika. even without all these chip on his shoulder, he may not have had accepted annika for he is a very responsible guy and he won't be breaking his engagement like that.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Why Double Standards? At-least today he did not show any double standards! Tomorrow I might change my opinions 😆 Shivaay ne atleast aaj toh nahi question kiya Anika ka decision.. He did not say - I order you to not marry him or something along these line.. 😊
He has every right to feel hurt and react(but andar hi andar - He has no right to force his opinions on Anika) This is just his reaction for his 'You-Know-What-Feelings' that he is not aware of 😛

Anika also reacted when Shivaay proposed.. She threw herself in her work - Planning SSO's wedding.. 😊 and Tried to distance herself from him..
Edited by blackorwhite - 8 years ago

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