Why is Saanjh disliked a lot in this forum?

Originally posted by: nitzy_21

I like Saanjh, but the show is abt Maya's beyhadhness... V all r prepared for her crazyness, whereas we expect Saanjh to b d level headed sane person n minus her crazyness for Arjun, she is all dt. I truly feel Arjun loves Saanjh n hasn't yet realised it. I'm sure he will realise it in d future. Wn Saanjh will b heart broken, v all will sympathise with her, just as v wud hate Maya if she wud harm anybody. Where is the question of being fair or unfair? V r just reacting to d way d character's r behaving.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

What is too be level headed ? To love your best friend is immature behaviour . . . Her life revolved around arjun from the time she was five . . . Arjun also needs her time and again. Just like you feel arjun loves her she also feels the same so she keep hoping for him to realise .

Originally posted by: Shanak_Fan

I am a fan of this show.I love it a lot so I keep coming to this forum and read peoples comments.

However since last few days I have been reading few comments against Saanjh.People call her obsessive,they hate her.

My question to them is Why do they hate her?

Is it only because she is madly in love with Arjun whereas they expect Arjun to end up with Maya?

That's still not a valid reason to hate her.

She's not evil and I am sure she will definitely not try to separate ArYa once she knows about them.

She will sacrifice her love for him whereas Maya will try her best to break Arjun and Saanj friendship.

I am sure people won't have any problem with that.Ulta they would be like,"Wow!Look at Maya's deewangi.She loves Arjun so much that she is trying to separate him from Saanjh."

People will come up with all sort of excuses to justify Maya's obsession by saying that she is a loner, suffered a lot due to her father and that's why she is too possessive.

But when Saanjh calls Arjun,meets him,tries to propose to him,people start having problems and say that she doesn't leave arjun alone,she is such a chipku, she is more obsessive than maya,blah blah blah.

If Maya falls in love with Arjun,it's cool but if Saanjh falls in love with Arjun,it's bad.

I thought that people will actually feel sorry for her.She rejected a good and matured guy for Arjun but Arjun will love Maya.

She will be shattered but she will always remain Arjun's best friend and won't try to separate him from Maya.

Saanjh doesn't deserve any hatred.I don't know why people hate her.

Originally posted by: nitzy_21

To love ur best friend is not immature... But to not give him space is.

I don't know Tanvi why u feel v don't like Saanjh. U made an earlier post also where ppl pointed out what dy expect... I guess u r still not satisfied. I guess u will b wn d forum actually sympathises with Saanjh... Dt day doesn't seem far.

Originally posted by: Nirja1994

I don't hate her but i do find her very very annoying.

She's just too chirpy, and loud. She mothers arjun and is quite frankly overboard with it. The way she calls him 25 times(more i think!) to wake him up, talks about him 24/7..It's weird. The fact that she talked about Arjun's quirks with a guy who came to meet her for marriage..I mean c'mon. Have the decency to atleast realise that the other person is here for marriage and probably expects you to be courteous and a little interested in meeting him. I have never even seen her work responsibly. It;s always about arjun even when she is in her office supposed to work.

Some people might find that-
AWW how cute..See how much she cares about him!!

I don't. I find it irresponsible and irritating.

Having said all this, I do recgnise that saanjh is a very nice person. She truly cares about people she loves. She is not fake and doesnt have a mean bone in her body. However she's just too typical.

As for Maya...Its not that people think her deewangi is wow. Its more like- holy shit, first time on indian tv such a powerful female character. A character with real, serious issues.

You do a great disservice to both saanjh and maya by comparing them. They are very different and people like and dislike them for different reasons.