Is Suman right?!

princess2507

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Is Suman right to blame Sujata that she never got the love of Ramakanth because of Sujata, when she herself knew that Sujata & Ramakanth loved each other before her marriage to Ramakanth http://imgur.com/A0IzMz9

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Poornima

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Posted: 9 years ago

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No...it's not right.It's her insecure self speaking. I hope she comes to know of Sujatha's true nature soon.

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ViTharvforever

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Posted: 9 years ago

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even sujata doesnt know suman's nature...but doesnt even give any hate to this second woman in her man's lyf...

but suman..???she behaves as if she is ramakant's first wyf n he had extramarital affair with sujata😆.. hw insecure she is...she shud hav walked out of this loveless marriage long.tym back ...no she wants vashith bahu status..

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Soumya

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Posted: 9 years ago

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It's her insecurity and the need for her to reassure herself about everything that makes her so bitter.

And no, she's not right. She needs a reality check to see the gem Sujata is, to not have any bitter feelings towards anyone despite the sufferings she has gone through all her life.

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viji2111

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Posted: 9 years ago

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it's not her insecurity, it's her inferiority complex because she couldn't make him fall in love with her in their married life of 25-26 years.

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prabharajani

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Posted: 9 years ago

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just now had a long chat in twitter regarding this

suman is not forced to marry, she married by choice and she knew ramakanth was in relationship with sujatha

its sujatha who had to feel like thay not the other way around

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Poornima

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: viji2111
it's not her insecurity, it's her inferiority complex because she couldn't make him fall in love with her in their married life of 25-26 years.

She thinks Sujatha, "The other woman'" in her language will come and "cheenle her haq"
Don't you think its insecurity?

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Hareem

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Posted: 9 years ago

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okay really the way Suman talks, I was for a bit confused if Sujata was the second wife lol. She is insecure of course since she couldn't get her husband to love her, she feels defeated by Sujata that although she got the Vashisht name, she still lost to the woman who held her husband's heart and the Vashisht name is all she has now, and she's afraid she might lose that too.

On the other hand, Sujata, even after suffering adversities and being left behind by her husband, utters not a single grievance against Suman, its sad..

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Khushi....

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Posted: 9 years ago

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How can she be right? She knew about Sujata, she knew Ramakant loved Sujata, so why marry a man who loves another woman. Why marry a coward who couldn't even fight for his love?

She didn't have to marry him. She didn't have to stay with him. You can't spend life hating someone else for your own mistakes. She should've found someone who would love her. It's not Sujata's fault Ramakant never loved Suman. You can't force love.

It's funny how Ramakant and Suman both feel sorry for themselves, when really everyone should sympathise with Sujata. He apparently loved her, yet ditched her and their child and set up home with another woman. And Suman is the other woman. People can say Suman married Ramakant so she isn't the other woman, but to me she is. She knew about Ramakant and Sujata, and still went with him and married him, without thinking about how Sujata would feel. You don't go and marry a man with a girlfriend, and you don't trample on someone else's happiness to make your own. That's exactly what Ramakant and Suman tried to do and failed.

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Poornima

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Khushi...
How can she be right? She knew about Sujata, she knew Ramakant loved Sujata, so why marry a man who loves another woman. Why marry a coward who couldn't even fight for his love?

She didn't have to marry him. She didn't have to stay with him. You can't spend life hating someone else for your own mistakes. She should've found someone who would love her. It's not Sujata's fault Ramakant never loved Suman. You can't force love.

It's funny how Ramakant and Suman both feel sorry for themselves, when really everyone should sympathise with Sujata. He apparently loved her, yet ditched her and their child and set up home with another woman. And Suman is the other woman. People can say Suman married Ramakant so she isn't the other woman, but to me she is. She knew about Ramakant and Sujata, and still went with him and married him, without thinking about how Sujata would feel. You don't go and marry a man with a girlfriend, and you don't trample on someone else's happiness to make your own. That's exactly what Ramakant and Suman tried to do and failed.

It's shown Suman asking for Sujatha's name from dadaji after her marriage. So she didn't know about them before her marriage.She was dadaji's friend's daughter. Apparently they had some promise of sorts to get their children married. She knew after the marriage,but she could walked away even then.

I am going to copy paste what Vitharvforever said as what she said made much sense, "when an uneducated woman lyk sujata can survive with her child all alone...n face the society why not suman??y cant she just move out of this marriage??"

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