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That is exactly my query, Nith...if we lose trust...what happens to love? Does it only evoke a sense of nostalgia, a regret or feeling of what could have been but was never meant to be. Why did Shravan even after ten years of staying away from Sumo come back to her? As a younger teenager, he had been scarred even if Sumo had not done it intentionally...at that age every pain, every trouble seem to be more magnifed...yet, even his conscious reasoning articulated as hate did not make him stay away from her. He still hoped she would once give him a call...not for merely saying sorry but at least to hear his voice...Why did he hope? The trust was seemingly gone...the hate had infiltrated his very being...yet, he hoped...yet, he dropped those earrings of her just by the mention of her name...He lost to nanu during his first chess game after a gap of ten years...even when he knew Sumo had misplaced one piece of that chess...A person who doesnt like to lose...(Khosla case he said this to Sumo)...why did he lose to Nanu when the stakes were...he would have to come again for another ten rounds of chess...which btw...is still pending
Why did Sumo wait for him? Love she did...and yet, hadnt read his letter...Knew she was wrong as well...to a certain extent, she believed she was the reason he hadnt returned for the past ten years...Yet, she waited patiently...Was it simply to apologise? She could have done it over telephone, emails and other various ways...yet, she waited...
How did she knew he would return? And when he would...her apology will make alive those ten years gone by?
Thats why my query...what is love? How do we define love? And when barriers are erected...in the name of trust issues...what happens to love? In the case of SS...we have seen that barriers or walls are rather transparent and weak...
Will now in the present moment those walls still stand if love or whatever you want to classify it as spills over...I guess the answer will be a resounding no..😆
I donrt know if love is the most mangled...but, it is the most translated...and i do not mean into different languages...but, one which defies the rules and grammar of language😉
OK, my one simple question to the two of you - is love without trust not love then? In that case, how would you see one-sided, unrequited love?
I think in a relationship where love is reciprocated, trust completes the feeling of love.
Really curious to hear your thoughts on the question...
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