Malini Kapoor's role to end in Balika Vadhu - Page 6

hisusmita

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01
Agree sushmita and it is not morally wrong if single mother not staying alone .which book say that single mother bound to stay alone

With her nature she has been successful in making her place in that family when the son of the family left the house.

She has earned that place by her love, patience, kindness, dedication.

For our parents and grand parents we are always small for them. Why cant we share our pain with them? How can it make anyone weak? Even after tolerating everything if someone can handle so much that makes one strong.

Weak people revenge, strong people forgive, Intelligent people ignore

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Surabhi01

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Posted: 8 years ago

If anandi take help from jagya only because he is mla taking help from mla in case of crime nothing wrong

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aparnauma

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01
Anandi start adul education without young male support she fought for sarpanch without male support after marriage she take support from shiv afteall he is her husband and after death of shiv how many men comes in anandi life that anandi need male support

She became sarpanch because of her own capabilities and dedication for people of the village and not because she was Singh family Sadasya.

The people came and asked that they wanted Anandi to be their sarpanch

Now the two males who are helping her are the two people whom she helped.

One of whom is her childhood friend the other one became a friend recently.

All the people who are helping her now are beneficiaries of her goodness in the near far past.

A person who helps others why would she be dependent on others?

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hisusmita

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha
Precisely, everyone needs emotional support and so does Anandi. So why is it wrong if Anandi marries for the third time?
Are people expecting that she stays with DSa and Jagya (hex Ex) forever?

Why is it, that people do not want Anandi to leave Shiv or his memories and move on with another guy, but it is absolutely ok for them if Anandi lives with her ex-husband and his family.

No anyone can marry 100 times but not for a second she said she need any male support in her life be that emotional, financial or any thing else. She is happy with DS's emotional support. She is happy and busy with her kids. She is happy with her work, working for the down trodden people, she finds happiness in her work.

Emotional support does not mean that you have to stay with that person. Its DS , en elderly person wants her to be with her. So she forces A to stay there, . otherwise she has shifted to SN.

She got every thing she wanted from Shiv, She has never shown any urge for any other man in her life. Here she is there for DS, not Jagya

Her DS , not her ex husband's DS

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Surabhi01

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Posted: 8 years ago

If u remember anandi even refuse take help from shiv when shiv offer help in construction of school it was shown before marriage

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aparnauma

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01
If anandi take help from jagya only because he is mla taking help from mla in case of crime nothing wrong

Anandi called up Jagya when she saw Akheraj was following them when they were coming back from Jhalra after Urmi's Godh Bharai and Urmi's funeral.

J was MLA and Akheraj was an escaped prisoner.

When Shivam was kidnapped she never rang Jagya for help she called up police and went chasing the vehicle in which Shivam was kidnapped.

When Nandini ran off that was the only time she actually woke up Jagya and asked for help

That is not because she was single but he was part of family.In these kind of scenarios even couples take help from extended families

As for discussing Nandini with Anant it was clearly because he is a child specialist and his profession gives him insight into children's minds.

It was never shown that she is sitting and waiting for one or other male to come by.

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Surabhi01

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Posted: 8 years ago

If for anandi male support everything then why she learn karate and teach karate to girls why she herself study and encourage girls to study .obviously anandi learn fighting art focus on education so that she can live life without depending on male so that male can protect herEdited by surabhi01 - 8 years ago

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Surabhi01

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Posted: 8 years ago

It is fortune who bring anant in anant life otherwise anand never thought not even in dream that another man should come in her life and Support her

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Vidya

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Posted: 8 years ago

I don;t know what is the point of this whole discussion.

Is it to prove that anandi does not need a man in her life?

But the story so far has shown that anandi cannot do anything on her own without a support. People are talking about her becoming a sarpanch and starting a school. At that time there was Bhairo with her. And I think he was a male.

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Surabhi01

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Posted: 8 years ago

So anandi take help from only male ?? What about ds gehna sumitra sugna sandhya did these does not help anandi and is there is any single person in this world who is totally self dependend

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