I dont know where it is shown , I mean how it is clear that Anandi always needs male support.
I think since childhood she never needed any male support. She did what her heart told her to do. She fought for the people who are in problems, in pain but never disrespected her elders, never disobeyed them. She did what is right but always given importance to her loved ones.
I thought I am not clear where it is shown that she always needed male support , I wanted to recollect it from the beginning.
From childhood she used to do everything for the people , Bhairon Singh supported her because he knew that she is doing the right thing. She never waited for Bhairon to come or pleaded him. But its Bhairon , who realised what he should be doing earlier , the girl is doing that so he ran after her, helped her complete the things which she initiated seeing people in problem.
That does not show that she needs male support.
She loved Jagya as she knew that he is her beendh
After Jagya humiliated her, insulted her badly she decided to rebuild her life. She never needed any man in her life. She started education for the girls and elderly persons.
After Shiv came he was impressed seeing her capability , her willpower. Its Shiv who has fallen for her, not the other way round. She didnt want to marry , But when married she fulfilled her all responsibilities.
After Shiv when her in laws was ready to go to Singapore, she never asked anyone to stay back for her saying she needs male support. But she was firm that she cant go as she cant leave her Nandini here. Atleast if she stays in India , she may get her one day.
She wanted to stay in KB.
But her DS, Daddu decided that she will be with her DS as before leaving Daddu wanted to leave her with her Maika, for forumwasis it may be A's ex sasural but Anandi, BHwasis, Jaitsarwasis , writers all came a long way. For them she was the beti of the house when the son left them, they did their Kanyadaan and she will always be beti there. Its her Maika.
She refused but Daddu said its his order.
Anandi came there not seeking any male support, not for Jagya, But for DS who wanted her to be there.
Nowhere it was shown she came there because she needed Jagya's support.
They have shown few scenes here and there that she wanted to leave but DS forced her to stay with her. So we have to go by that .
She came there for Daddu and DS, not for Jagya (male support)
As per the tagline, theme rishta of Anandi and DS who were completely opposite earlier bonded in pain so well that for DS there is no difference between Jagya and her Anandi.
For her both Jagya's kid and Anandi's kids are same.
They have come a long way, they dont bother about what society thinks. They are very clear in their mind what relation they share.
That relation is not based on seeking any male support.But a family where if any problem arises everyone stands for each other.
Infact Anandi supported Jagya when he was in problem always.
Both of them have past baggage , which is very open . So their spouses accepted them that way.
Now Its the relation between Anandi and DS , not Anandi and Jagya.
After she came to BH it has been shown, she is searching for her daughter, Ofcourse once complaint is filed, it is the job of the police to help the civilians. You cant run without any head and tail. Police were doing their duty and she was following up
She has managed to built a school for the girls (no where they have shown she has taken male support to build the school)
Neither financially nor emotionally.(no male support , atleast that is what has been shown)
DS was there with her.
It is she who helped doctor Anant (actually he needed female support😆)
She helped him to get a job thru Jagya.
Now also she is doing everything of her own. Every good job what she initiated since her childhood , Jagya , DS everyone is doing that , not because she needed male support but because they realised and understood what she started was a right thing to do. So they willingly came forward.
Whoever is helping her is coming of their own and if it is acceptable she is not denying that.
But not in a single scene it is shown she is crying for any male support. The only male support she actually longs for is Shiv's support, even that she keep within herself, deeply buried in her heart, never cries in front of any one.. She talks to his photo , she gets the strength and her life goes on.
Edited by hisusmita - 8 years ago
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