SW Symphony 63 - Page 105

After C-section I had the health problems and had gone through that depression it's very painful.

I actually have long felt that when a woman chooses to get pregnant, we don't give enough importance or credit to that decision.  You are vulnerable-you are not as fast as you were earlier, your mind and body undergo serious hormonal changes, you need help, support, affection, sleep, consideration, understanding etc.  Growing a tiny human in your body with your husband away for most of the time and you continue to be active at work, at home, and trying to deal with so many issues is not easy.  It is very easy to say-II was being unreasonable but the person who has gone thru a surgery and a pregnancy pretty much all by herself is II.  She is not seeing her daughter while she is awake, only sees her for feeding.  And her husband and his family take her away sooner from her mother so that they can see the baby.  That is very sweet but perhaps Sam or Mrs. II should have come and stayed with her?  She may have done better with a woman nearby who can understand that she may be feeling crappy if she doesn't get to bond with her baby apart from meal times?  

Even more difficult wen baby only stops crying if dad picks up

What further depresses u is that he knows what baby wants and mother is perplexed why she doesn't 

Yes it makes ur cry loads and tons and kills u from inside

I'm just talking abt.my self not ll

But if u have loving hubby he will bring u out of it .I remember I told him wen I was going to have our 2nd baby that I won't let him monopolize this one. Ya u fight over babies.thanks God the 2nd one was totally attached to me and took away most of my insecurities as a mother.

I really feel for ll .Yes nisha u made me cry as I remembered all those moments that I went through though I was never clinically diagnosed with PP depression but almost all new mothers go through it to some extend.

Yes it's not just the baby but mothers need pampering too. ll should have stayed bak in DD II. 

Yes not all r perfect and dude just proved it .he suffered a lot but still was not able to see or get or understand the silent suffering his wife was going through.

What ll is going through will not go away in a day , it's a healing process hopefully dude won't let her down any more

Yes couples fight but not to the extend its leaves a mark if they do then that's not love.yes I know this couple have never said love word to each other and might never ever say that...

Loved how dude was comforting her! 

Yo Preeti...I'm good🤗

How have you been...

The tragedy is ...real life has kept me away from sosy land😭

Have a lovely day

Hello SR 🤗