Meher's dilemma, Abeer ka band baja

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Posted: 9 years ago
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In today's epi I could understand in a better fashion why Meher did what she did. She knew about the pregnancy post her divorce.
And even when they were married Abeer was not ready for a baby. Now post divorce if she told about pregnancy there was high chance Kuber, Taiji and even Abeer doing a character assassination. That the child doesn't belong to Abeer. They have been living separately for some time etc etc..Meher at that time was alone, unemployed and in a society which does not treat single unwed mother kindly.
Suman survived because there is no question on the paternity of Meher and Tunnu. Still she faces flaks from people, but for Meher in a situation where Abeer and his family unwilling to accept the paternity things would have been difficult. So she has decided to hide and that story is yet to unfold on how Akshat came into the picture for saving her honor at that time. So it was a fear of society combined with her need to move ahead in life made Meher take that choice at that time. And once that choice is made she cannot go back to revealing the truth now.
Now Abeer, I loved the way Ishaan made him run around. The child is really headstrong like him, but is not Badhameez. I would say Ishaan has got the best of both his parents. He has feet on the ground like his mom. He asks the right questions, which leaves Abeer perplexed and in anger. Because it is the first time someone is questioning him, challenging him and getting away with. It was fun to watch Abeer-Ishaan scene.
But what I hated was the words Abeer used for the child and then Akshat. The child has seen his mother crying and then thought the man responsible for it should be taught a lesson. 7 year old doesn't understand the complex relations. Instead of trying to understand the relation Abeer literally abused Akshat telling if he cant take care of his child why he is producing them. I am not surprised Akshat gave back. Anyone will give back for such a comment. And it was good that he showed restraint enough for all the abuses hurled from shouting Ishaan is your son. I would really like to see Abeer's face when he knows the truth of Ishaan.
Instead of going after Akshath with his next plan it would be better Abeer concentrates on his job, on Ishaan. He will get his Meher back.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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As always it is such a nice post
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Posted: 9 years ago
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👏very will said...
Abeer really need to leave Meher and Akshat alone and concentrate on Ishaan, and I feel soon he will automatically get attracted towards Ishaan...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I wanted to shout Abeer please leave Meher alone!! I am fed up with all the sorries and the pleas!!

The way Abeer behaved with Akshat and Meher made me go like... Abeer please put a break on that anger and stop being jealous of Akshat. He helped Meher all along why is Abeer not even giving that a thought?!!!!!! Seriously, Abeer needs to use what little brain he has left and treat Akshat politely.

CVS PLEASE TAKE A NOTE OF THIS... DONT SPOIL ABEERS CHARACTER

I want Alia to come quickly and keep Abeer occupied and away from Meher and Akshat for some time. I am fed up with this Abeer, he is not at all cute anymore...
Edited by Chessy - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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👏well said shruti exactly..
i was like are yaar this abeer has gone mad...ekbar shanti se dimag ko thoda durake sochega but na this guy seems to be stimmen with meher so hard...feeling extremly..sad for abeer..


at right now abeer head is all alone i mean is empty and it is said a empty mind is alwys a devil mind so for that abeer right now is just thinking rather foucsiing on soory ranting and geeting meher backed...and this will not go until someone comes and occupiued his attention and there comes ALIA in picture no matter how much abeer plan with alia to get back meher

i am sure ...alia gona create a effect on him just like what sasha did...and overall ishaan is there to swrew abeer up...so i am happy as far as aber bad mouthing ishhan to akshat is not his fault rather he is grown up in that envirenment rembering kuber badmouthing madhvi when u have kuber like father what do u expcet form his production tough abber turlly hold Madhvis upringing but a child always consist of both parents trait and abeer exac tly got this habbit from Kuber..

i am sure he is going to repent soon to his badmouthing..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@chessy they are bringing alia to rip apart Akshat's character right. That's what I understood from the precap.
@antika the problem with Abeer is that he is using Meher like his property. A property that does not have a voice of its own. A property that cannot take decisions on its own. And he feels Akshat is cheating her and she is taking bad decisions. Even Akshat has that problem. He also treats Meher his. Both men need to understand Meher is not a property but a woman who has a heart beating inside her, who always wants to have her own choices and want these men to appreciate those choices.
Edited by shruthiravi - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Seriously @Shruthi, I dont want Akshat to be bad. Abeer thinks thats what is going to happen.

Only in our serials all characters are villains :(😭
Edited by Chessy - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Cheesy I am fine with Abeer trying to rip apart Akshat, but then it trying to destroy Akshat, he will be destroying himself only.
Abeer is now a man possessed with single goal of destruction and that boy Appendix is pouring oil into that fire.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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even i feel Meher is justified in doing what she did. who would want to go back to the man she just divorced for a child he doesnt want. It will be forced relation ship, atleast that what meher would have perceived by abeer reaction when he thought she was pregnant. And it was because of this he ran off to Singapore.
At least as much has been shown,i like Akshat's character, he is supportive of Meher, almost like a father to ishaan and has waited for 6 years. It is fair for him to think that Meher should be with the guy who has been with her thorough bad days rather then the guy who is the reason behind the bad days.
In the end i do want Abeer and Meher to be together, but along with that his character should grow equally, In the last episode he said something like if meher liked kids so much, they could have had them, instead it should be that he also wants to have kids and doing just it for Mehers sake.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@bebo the same problem Abeer had in beginning. Because Meher wanted to take care of her family, Abeer promised that she can do whatever she wants post marriage.
He never understood the implications, seriousness of the promise. In other words when he is not getting what he wants, promises come to play.
Once he gets what he wants then promise gaya bad mein. It's me , me and me only. That ego of Abeer not able to face problems has to dissolve.
Unless Meher is sure that Abeer has the maturity and we the audience has to be shown his journey of reaching that maturity, Meher should not go to Abeer.
He is not yet ready. He can go back to his old ways once again.

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