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Originally posted by: moonwearer
I guess despite all the warmth and affection Manny would always resent II as she is not comfortable with the change she sees. From the beginning she has triggered IIs insecurities and fears. II is guarded in her responses and walks away whenever Manny is the topic of discussion. Seeing her in the flat she tries her best to make her feel welcome but there is no effort to be warm to her from Manny. Whenever she sees her brother she wants to prove a point to her. II had repeatedly asked of Mannys breakfast there was no attempt to include her in the conversation.
In the dudes response to Appa you find II anxious ready to go away avoiding confrontation and it is the dude that stays showing nothing matters more than his II. When it comes to Chachu and Manny II wants their acceptance and approval she cannot turn a blind eye to the way they treat her. She wants her marriage to last. The effort the dude has gone into to pick the bookmarks reflecting his intent when acted out will reassure his II.She has no mug or childhood memories to voice her sway their sizzling chemistry can't be discussed in public what she needs is her dude to tell her what she means. He will not speak. Sam has revealed how dad was ready to give up chicken and lamb and we know the reason. She hates the smell of egg cooking in her present state. The dude cannot make it in the kitchen he has to find a way to balance a demanding wife and sister they are like the mistrust between a new bride andMil over a son
Loved ur explanation
Been in this situation and believe me it's very difficult
Love my young sister to bits , very close to her. Don't have to explain anything to her
we r so tuned with each get that peps used to think we r
twins which is not the case. She had my full attention till hubby
came in pic.years later she told me she felt abandoned and betrayed
bcoz of my love for my hubby bcoz she though I could never love any
one more then her. I was truly baffled and it took everything in me to
make her understand what I have for her N my hubby is to different
feelings . She calmed down but never understood till she got married 😳
We do laugh about it now but it was very difficult yrs b4 that
Manny & RB was same in many ways and manny thought it will remain
like that till ll came and everything started changing. The change is difficult
for manny to adjust and she is coping the way she does that , it's her
defence mechanism . Each individual have their own. ll is not comfortable
with manny bcoz manny never made her comfortable
As far sulking of ll is concerned I find it quite normal after all these
yrs of marriage I still sulk if I think I'm not getting the attention from hubby
and he does too and I find it lovely and assuring as that's how we have been
RB knows that's too and knows ll does and he being possessive himself can
get that and so did what he does the best in his own assuring ways-knowing
ll loves book marks and he added his own corny element in it 😆
Pew 1 st time wrote so much
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