Originally posted by: harshita27ErrantNomad: My post is full of spell errors.. I blame on ipad... And I am not going to go edit my post to correct typos... Basically saying:Please Bhavnao ko samjho!!😆
Originally posted by: putti77
Yes Harshey I agree with you...
You are one of the few impartial reader..
😊 😊
You and Kalpana are tempting me to peek in here.. Better I sleep for 3 more hours...
Originally posted by: ErrantnomadHershey thank you for typing 😆 , I heard you too but our premise that we base our opinions on is exactly that and way different .May be if she was married to an identifiable normal middle class family , the normal bhaiyya, babhi and the works and Anna/ manni and naathanar ( sister in law works)
And if she was married in to those families to hat we identify as such and them she doesn't follow , then she could be termed guilty of not showing enthusiasm. But in her case it's not the lack of enthusiasm and unwillingness to follow/ be part of the family is not it here. It's more about being overwhelmed , is what I would base it on which she wouldn't have been may be if she was married to Sri.
Originally posted by: swathi1990I donno about she celebrating Teej at MM...
My only irritation is she fussing about even going to sam's house and being there as R&B's wife...the dude had to literally pull her there for the teej function...she kept on giving stupid reasons...whining all the way...that shows the lack of interest...whereas the entire family went for shatabthi's function even though II herself was not present...do u think it is easy for them to go and celebrate in the midst of Iyers?? f**k he even had his own marriage in Iyer's style where the entire MM family knew nothing at it...Her whining is wat irritates me...as if she doesnt know how to behave if the person is rich...the point is most of them will not know that she is not from the same circle...that itself solves the problem...so they are going to talk normally and she is going to reply...this kind of conversation happens even in a workplace function...
Originally posted by: harshita27
Ye chota wala post hai, so I will quote you... Bade wale mei main khud hi kho jaati... Am not the one who says "bade achche lagte hain"😆... PJ .. Plz excuse!!😆Anyway, since you wrote so much n its a free world we live in, am no ISIS, S o lets mutually agree to disagree!!😆Hope this keeps up both our mojo!!😊
Originally posted by: moonwearerKalpana and Harshita loved your analysis...my two cents
Ii keeps moving back and forth in her settling process. She is gradually letting go of the roles and responsibilities at DII , munirca and KMPG...she is time and again now reminded her priority is her health and wellbeing AS RANJAN WOULD SAY SHE IS TOO PRECIOUS ...on ID party and when she plans stuff she takes the lead...her state now makes her vulnerable...cross cultural weddings are tough as you have every week some festival to observeWhen she attended the baby shower she was a guess ...now her altered status makes her recall the past...she will in time settle to her role but it won't be easy settling as it is for Vandhu... Not organising an event is not a big deal but addressing the discomfort she feels in accepting what the family bestows needs to gradually be addressed...The difference in class and material comforts in what she has been used to and now like a windfall walked into is overwhelming she is well looked after and as Sam says with planners no big deal yet the lady will fret over the bills she is still recovering from grappling with his past and this morning had admitted not being cool about the women...the money too is an issue...she emotionally identifies herself with the dude dad Sam and tan has to socially domestically culturally and financially start feeling at ease it will happen over time
Originally posted by: moonwearerBear with my typos type single finger and each device behaves differently
Originally posted by: moonwearerBear with my typos type single finger and each device behaves differently
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