Originally posted by putti77
Read both the updates together..
II feeling alien at the work is so true..it happens when you come back from more than a week break.. Want to see how she balance her work and health..
What to say about Bala?
Spineless, selfish...
Feel very bad for Vandu

.. When Bala types will learn that you can't push your wife and kids to adjust for everything... They are not your bean bags...
Try to act smart..
Year mujhe bala evil Nahi lagta hai, Han weak zaroor hai shayad but i think the way he behaves is more because of frustration, helplessness and his inability to improve things financially. And vandu is kind of acting up now because I think she sees The freedoms Ii has in her married life. The a bala situation has always been around, she knows bala can't be firm with his family, so why throw a tantrum now. I understand that there is a new baby, but I think more than that, it's the contrast between vandu and Ii's situation that is creating. All these frustrations.