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Posted: 8 years ago
#41
Mangala does not know any other life - she cannot be blamed for this. She did not deliberately put a girl (leave alone her daughter who is completely dependent on her) in dangerous situation. Mangala was already living in that home and so, the girl she saved was also made to live there. Mangala would have been guilty - had she stolen the girl or had she brought the girl giving assurance to the mother/relatives that she will give best care to the girl. No blame lies on Mangla for what is happening to Nimboli. 
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42
She is the reason behind the the girl's marriage with Kundan.That fellow thinks he has rights on Nandini because he is married to her.
As long as this belief persists she will never be safe in that house.

Just like the way Kamili is responsible for what happened to her Anandi as well as  Mangala are responsible for what is happening to Nandini.

If Mangala has any conscience she will get out of her moh and do the right thing by that girl whom she thinks of her as her daughter.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#43
Instead of blaming Mangala, people should be blaming Anandi.
 
See the irony, the daughter is living a hell kind of life and the mother is enjoying herself going for movies with her student and her father.😔

I wonder which mother whose daughter is lost because of her fault will even think of entertaining herself.😒
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: Shinya

Instead of blaming Mangala, people should be blaming Anandi.
 
See the irony, the daughter is living a hell kind of life and the mother is enjoying herself going for movies with her student and her father.😔

I wonder which mother whose daughter is lost because of her fault will even think of entertaining herself.😒



Its 11 years and I dont think mothers should stop their lives and not care for the remaining kids and their happiness.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45
As for mothers, they cant be generalised. There are mothers who can kill their daughters, who can make them prostitutes to get easy money, who can terrorise with undue discipline.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: aparnauma

She is the reason behind the the girl's marriage with Kundan.That fellow thinks he has rights on Nandini because he is married to her.

As long as this belief persists she will never be safe in that house.

Just like the way Kamili is responsible for what happened to her Anandi as well as  Mangala are responsible for what is happening to Nandini.

If Mangala has any conscience she will get out of her moh and do the right thing by that girl whom she thinks of her as her daughter.

@ bold - That fellow also knows that he is now married to another girl with whom he has consummated and is also going to father hert child, then why is he still lusting over a girl whose status is that of a maid (now M's daughter) in that house?

The problem is with the pervert mind set of men like Kundan. Therefore the blame of Kundan's act cannot be passed onto Mangala's decision taken in a spur of a moment to save a child.

And by the very standard, if Kundan was not so pervert / crude but a rather good guy, then would you have endorsed Mangala's decision to get N married to K. 

Bse here, M is blamed for marrying N to a bad guy, so would it have been ok if K was not so bad?
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Posted: 8 years ago
#47
Talking of Mangala's conscience, it will be measured when it is time for her to let go off till N meets her bio mother. Till then, she has lived with her conscience only. 
If we are talking of conscience; 

Then if A has conscience, she will make efforts to find her daughter and if Kundan has any conscience, he might start to become a little human.

Akhi-Harki do not have any conscience. 


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Posted: 8 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Missesha

@ bold - That fellow also knows that he is now married to another girl with whom he has consummated and is also going to father hert child, then why is he still lusting over a girl whose status is that of a maid (now M's daughter) in that house?


The problem is with the pervert mind set of men like Kundan. Therefore the blame of Kundan's act cannot be passed onto Mangala's decision taken in a spur of a moment to save a child.

And by the very standard, if Kundan was not so pervert / crude but a rather good guy, then would you have endorsed Mangala's decision to get N married to K. 

Bse here, M is blamed for marrying N to a bad guy, so would it have been ok if K was not so bad?

Even if Kundan is a good guy that doesn't make the marriage right.
But she would have been safer.
Kundan thinks he has rights over that girl because she is his wife.Had he not been married to that girl and if that girl had been living as Mangala's daughter from the begining he wouldn't dare to look at her.
In fact he never looked at her that way until Ankita Ver 2.0 gave him this idea saying since he has a wife at home he can use her and he may have called her a maid and treated her like a maid but he always considered himself having two wives.
So Nandin was never free of that guy and she will nver be free of that guy until she leaves that place
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Posted: 8 years ago
#49

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Its 11 years and I dont think mothers should stop their lives and not care for the remaining kids and their happiness.


Agree she has to live for the remaining kids.. I never complained when she tool shivam to mela and other places.

But going for a movie with someone you have known for just a few days? it looked out of place... Whom was she entertaining ? her kid or her student and her father?

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Posted: 8 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: Shinya


Agree she has to live for the remaining kids.. I never complained when she tool shivam to mela and other places.

But going for a movie with someone you have known for just a few days? it looked out of place... Whom was she entertaining ? her kid or her student and her father?



Why going to films is wrong? She knows Anant quite well by now. She is not going on a date alone. They are with their respective kids. Only gossip aunties are bothered by such things. And I know you are not one of them.