YHM CVs ( in)fertility track * review pg 5 Collages pg 7* - Page 6

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Please do😆

Originally posted by: nb.neha

Hi again

I read the replies here. The disappoinment is visible for sure. And it is saddening to see the disappoinment regarding the track we have been waiting for.

I truly understand all the concerns mentioned here starting from ruhi till the miracle pregnancy.

I too would have liked it if they would have shown them try a bit more -- more treatments, some failure n then pregnant ishita.

It didnt happen. Yes its a bit annoying

But for me it hasn't devoid me of any happiness. I liked the episode. It wasn't bad at all.

Ishita never mentioned she wanted the child only for Ruhi. Yes she did. When Raman was consoling her in the bedroom, she categorically said, she only wanted this child for Ruhi, so that she can have a little sibling, because she's been so excited about this baby. Hence, the first point of disconnect. Had she said she wanted this child for Raman AND Ruhi, I'd have been more than delighted.

Raman n ishita both were unhappy with Ruhi's behaviour.

Doc wanted to check ishita again just to keep Ruhi's request and found a different story all together.

A tv show can't wait for 3 yrs or 10 yrs to show miracles.

Some might think its a mockery on women suffering from such an issue. Well, in a way it does sounds too rushed n too good to be true or like many have said too soapish.

But its not a mockery. Its yet again another hope. They have spent 2 years in putting forth the message that a woman who cannot have her own child is not incomplete. She is equally worthy of love and respect. And to bring this fact to to the fore, they shown a beautiful bond between Ishita & Ruhi - Nurture over Nature. A lot of females relate with the sentiment. The least that could've been shown was her under-going some treatment of some sort, before immediately getting pregnant. No, they need not wait 3 yrs or 10 yrs, but could've covered up in 2 days, or even in 1 day using fast-farword or whatever. Why I feel this is a mockery is because this infertile / barren woman track that YHM has since the beginning has been very realistic from day one, unlike other shows. It has been relatable, hence the huge acceptance of Ishita's character. Showing that she's pregnant because Ruhi prayed so hard, and not giving any medical reasons or hints, is as unrealistic as it could get. The same females who used to connect with this character cannot do so anymore, and YHM was not like your normal soaps.

Raman mentioned they dont need children. Raman mentioned everybody doesn't get everything. All this doesn't indicate any mockery.

Sorry guys. M really being an odd one out here. Cant help it. I liked the episode.

Try watching it again n this time from my eyes ;) u wil definitely find a couple's desire to have a baby, a daughter's love for her mother, parents trying to show the daughter reality n then a miracle.

This is yhm. Isn't it? Ishita n ruhi have always felt each other's pain. Raman has always been touched with ishita's emotional side n ruhi's love for her. Their very own marriage is a miracle for raman n ruhi. AdI coming bck to raman was a dream come true for him. Their lives have been full of such moments.

When you put it this way, yes, it does sound nice and very heart touching. But sadly it was not executed in the same manner 😭

Let me give you an example: Remember the times when IshRa were not in love? Enter an old friend of the female lead, her spending time with the friend, husband getting jealous much, and ultimately realizes he loves his wife and cannot see him with anyone else. Sounds lovely as a concept, right? But whatever happened with the Mani track, we all know that 😔

Only thing is it ws rushed ; bit too fast. But still m really happy. A tv serial has to move at a faster pace than real life. This is the only cause I can attribute to for the hush hush pregnancy.

My concern is surrogacy. Please keep protesting. Anita is busy with 2 more shows now that too on a diff channel. I hope they dont show shagun's involvement. I want ishra to experience each day of ishita's pregnancy.

Ranted a bit too long!!!! M not against anyone here. M just too blinded with the pain the leads have gone through n thus the happiness feels so divine.

Originally posted by: -Nidoo-

<font face="Geneva, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Hi Neha,</font>

<font face="Geneva, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">I'm glad someone has a positive outlook towards the current plot, because all of us are severely disappointed with the execution. I understand where you're coming from, just putting forward my thoughts as to why am I, as a member of the audience, is very upset with what is being shown.</font>

<font face="Geneva, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">My replies are in purple above 😳</font>

<font face="Geneva, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Having said all of this, I'm glad you opened up your thoughts here, because that is the beauty of the review threads. Two people can discuss their points of view, and try to see something beyond what they're seeing 😳</font>