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Originally posted by: rulama

Hi... Don't be... Avni is a self centered woman... Anyone can have a child and call themselves a parent... A real parent is someone who puts their child above their selfish needs and wants...😛

Originally posted by: canapoem

Avni's parenting reminded me of this scene from Mahabharath, where Lord Krishna and Dronacharya talk. 

Krishna asks Acharya Drona as to why he did not guide his son Ashwathama on the right path and could not teach him the difference between Dharma and Adharma.

Dronacharya says that he had faced a lot of hardships in his life and wanted a comfortable life for his son. He says he loves his son too much and always wants him to be happy, successful and powerful.

Lord Krishna says that what Dronacharya has towards his son is not "Prem but Moha".

If he had just loved his son, then he would have made sure that his son walked on the path of Dharma irrespective of whether there were hardships or not. But what he has towards his son is just "Moha" and so could not differentiate between right and wrong.

Sorry I am not able to find the right english translation for the Sanskrit word "Moha".

Good parenting is not just providing food, shelter, basic necessities and love to ones children, the other main responsibility is also to guide the kids to differentiate between right and wrong and do the right thing irrespective of how tough the path is.

Did Avni do that? Agreed she loves Payal a lot, but is it love? Does loving someone not mean helping them to the right things too? Should a parent's love not guide the kids to walk the righteous path in life??

Originally posted by: albmum14

I agree with you, but things are never what they seem on the outside. We have yet to see what happened after Avni's depression was cured. Post natal depression is a disease that is difficult to treat and it carries a lot of stigma. Sometimes women themselves, are very scared to admit to it as they are afraid children will be taken from them while they are having treatment, or simply because everyone will feel less of them as a mother. 

If Harshad is trying to mend his ways, we have to see what will Avni do to repair that relationship with her daughter. 

Also, I believe that she is not the only to blame for their state today. Apart from Dadi, they all contributed to the breakdown of relationships between themselves.

At this stage, we have yet to discover what was said between mother and daughter when Khushi pushed her mother away.

Originally posted by: Arshi67

We love you too dammit! Happy to have our regular Tuesday dose of Revealed back   🤗

Avni ... I don't want to, but I still feel just a tiny bit sorry for her here. That emotion which seemed to be  looking for a way out, suppressed once again. And what can be more hurtful than to see your own child's affections be reserved for another. But then Sofia Raizada is one amazing woman ...

It feels so good to be back to this story after my so called summer hiatus and if there was one story that I really want to badly get back to, then it would definitely be this one.

Looks like every chapter is still causing that same edge of the seat moments with the regular twists and turns as bonuses. Not for nothing you are the writer of the month and no matter how many thank you notes you might have said so far, it is simple pleasure to always tell you that the honor is always you readers.

Coming to the teaser, it is such a human nature that the happiest moments of our lives always end up bringing the happiest memories from the safest part of the brain.

The surprise party may be long overdue but I will hold my judgement until I realize the true intentions behind it.   

Avni might have frozen in place but it is usual cycle of life that that you "reap what you sow". Let us see how much she melts and mends her ways once she comes out of that frozen state. This may be a perfect setting to get us her POV in all this.