Has Kabir Sharma's inherent personality trait changed?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Starting a discussion on inherent personality. I have posted my views on another thread, but based on suggestion of a forum member..

In the context of Kabir and Shreya's relationship I believe that people's basic trait / personality / philosophy does not change.

Kabir and Shreya would have met when both of them were young and probably starting their career together... Both found each other attractive and extremely capable/competent. They fell in love (i would assume so), but both of them had other empowering emotions... While Shreya was ambitious, Kabir valued and prioritized their relationship more... So, there was a conflict between ambition and personal relationship, and ambition won!!!!

Kabir was probably more emotionally invested in the relationship, and hence got hurt more. He built all those walls and became relationship phobic. He fought his feelings for Ananya for a long time but finally gave in and hence all that talk of breaking the walls that he himself built... And now he is again in a relationship (with Ananya) and his priorities have changed. He is again back to focusing more on his relationship with his professional career becoming priority # 2 for him

To re-iterate again, People's basic trait / personality / philosophy does not change. And the same has happened with Kabir Sharma

Do you also feel the same, discuss...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow nicely put, he is slowly turning to what he actually was, that is what he said to Ananya during the porch convo, 'I've not only accepted you but also my original self'
So he is once again giving his way to the old Kabir who valued relationships more than his career and success.😊

That is what Sherya commented when they first met, she could recognise the old Kabir, as he was least bothered about the consequences of his resignation, because he was only concerned about his present.😊 The Kabir Sharma whom we saw initially wouldn't have done such a thing, high I think Sherya has never met.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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First of all thank you for starting this topic.

Each one of us have a set of traits, ways, attitudes, outlooks, beliefs and habits that define us. And I believe that we almost never change (even if we try).We tend to acquire this set of personal ways, traits and tendencies when we are young and that is what defines us our entire life. Once these habits, tendencies and behavior patterns of our youth have solidified, they rarely change. It is way too difficult to change our basic inclination and nature, once it has crystallized.

Like I have commented to this post of yours in the other thread - Kabir Sharma is a person who values relationships a lot and we have witnessed that over and over again be it with Tarini, Anurag, Inspector Khurana, Laxman or Ananya and the people related to her. His emotional investment to these people shows his deep commitment towards them irrespective of the relation he shares with them.

His and Shreya's relationship was indeed a tussle between love and ambition where not only ambition won but his relationship with his family also obliterated thus rendering him relationship phobic and completely broken.

But, post confession whom we see is the 'real Kabir Sharma' who had been obscured by the walls he had built around himself. However, a part of the real him was still visible when he was around Tarini and Anurag.

Similarly, Ananya has one basic trait that is there to stay irrespective of the circumstances surrounding her i.e. she is driven by her heart. We have always seen how cogent her emotional reasoning is. So, people who feel that she can easily be manipulated by Shreya should not forget about this side of hers, keep their worries aside and enjoy this wonderful show.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mahi78

Wow nicely put, he is slowly turning to what he actually was, that is what he said to Ananya during the porch convo, 'I've not only accepted you but also my original self'

So he is once again giving his way to the old Kabir who valued relationships more than his career and success.😊

That is what Sherya commented when they first met, she could recognise the old Kabir, as he was least bothered about the consequences of his resignation, because he was only concerned about his present.😊 The Kabir Sharma whom we saw initially wouldn't have done such a thing, high I think Sherya has never met.😊


Not sure if Shreya ever understood him... She may have noticed some of his behavioral traits but I do not think she ever understood Kabir Sharma - the person. She never would have tried to, possibly because she was so over-powered by her ambition...

In a recent episode, Shreya claims that Kabir is impulsive... I strongly disagree. I do not think he is at all impulsive... most of his actions reflect maturity, which certainly does not go well with impulsiveness... We have seen that all along... He took his own time to realize and express his love for Ananya.. He was patient enough to talk to Ananya's mom before dating her etc etc.

Some may think that he was impulsive in giving his resignation and then changing his stance. But I think that is more of being instinctive and not impulsive.

Kabir Sharma has always been instinctive - whether its about his new stories or personal dynamics... It was his instinct that made him accompany Ananya in the baghi segment as well as in the Brakdesh kutty segment.

Kabir Sharma is probably the best written male character on TV - the most complete character!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: idonkno

First of all thank you for starting this topic.


Each one of us have a set of traits, ways, attitudes, outlooks, beliefs and habits that define us. And I believe that we almost never change (even if we try).We tend to acquire this set of personal ways, traits and tendencies when we are young and that is what defines us our entire life. Once these habits, tendencies and behavior patterns of our youth have solidified, they rarely change. It is way too difficult to change our basic inclination and nature, once it has crystallized.

Like I have commented to this post of yours in the other thread - Kabir Sharma is a person who values relationships a lot and we have witnessed that over and over again be it with Tarini, Anurag, Inspector Khurana, Laxman or Ananya and the people related to her. His emotional investment to these people shows his deep commitment towards them irrespective of the relation he shares with them.

His and Shreya's relationship was indeed a tussle between love and ambition where not only ambition won but his relationship with his family also obliterated thus rendering him relationship phobic and completely broken.

But, post confession whom we see is the 'real Kabir Sharma' who had been obscured by the walls he had built around himself. However, a part of the real him was still visible when he was around Tarini and Anurag.

Similarly, Ananya has one basic trait that is there to stay irrespective of the circumstances surrounding her i.e. she is driven by her heart. We have always seen how cogent her emotional reasoning is. So, people who feel that she can easily be manipulated by Shreya should not forget about this side of hers, keep their worries aside and enjoy this wonderful show.


You are right about Ananya. And Malika in her post has nicely summed up how Ananya epitomizes a modern young lady (someone who we can identify with easily)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Serotonin


Not sure if Shreya ever understood him... She may have noticed some of his behavioral traits but I do not think she ever understood Kabir Sharma - the person. She never would have tried to, possibly because she was so over-powered by her ambition...

In a recent episode, Shreya claims that Kabir is impulsive... I strongly disagree. I do not think he is at all impulsive... most of his actions reflect maturity, which certainly does not go well with impulsiveness... We have seen that all along... He took his own time to realize and express his love for Ananya.. He was patient enough to talk to Ananya's mom before dating her etc etc.

Some may think that he was impulsive in giving his resignation and then changing his stance. But I think that is more of being instinctive and not impulsive.

Kabir Sharma has always been instinctive - whether its about his new stories or personal dynamics... It was his instinct that made him accompany Ananya in the baghi segment as well as in the Brakdesh kutty segment.

Kabir Sharma is probably the best written male character on TV - the most complete character!


Very good point you have raised here. I doubt that Shreya every understood KS or even tried to. She was so much engrossed in her own world that she did not have time to know the real KS and that is what KS meant that their relationship was long over (and it is not because of his alleged affair that they separated)

KS has never been impulsive not even while resigning. Yes, Kabir Sharma does seem to be an instinctive guy. Had be been impulsive he would have reacted to a situation based solely on the information presented in that one spontaneous instance but instead he acts based on what thoughts and ideas has been bred into his head from prior experiences. Clearly, resigning was not an impulsive decision instead an instinctive one.

Kabir Sharma definitely is the best written male character on TV ever!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful post.Agree basic traits of a person remain the same..it might get suppressed for some reason but ultimately will come out
Kabir was always like this...caring ..loving..person for whom relations matter a lot...but Shreya could never see that Kabir
He himself said..maine wapas us kabir ko bhi accept kiya hai
Let us wait for what all Shreya has to reveal...but Iam sure there is nothing Kabir will be guilty of...I am sure

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonyjknum

Wonderful post.Agree basic traits of a person remain the same..it might get suppressed for some reason but ultimately will come out

Kabir was always like this...caring ..loving..person for whom relations matter a lot...but Shreya could never see that Kabir
He himself said..maine wapas us kabir ko bhi accept kiya hai
Let us wait for what all Shreya has to reveal...but Iam sure there is nothing Kabir will be guilty of...I am sure



Yes..u said it all :)

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