Originally posted by: swathi1990
To all the arrange married buddies here...
How do you say yes to a proposal...u talk to the guy for half an hour, may be an hour ????
Aparam kuda enaku solla theriyala...π π
Sooo many doubts...always skeptical...always trying to find something about the proposal which wont suit you properly...SIGH !!!!!
Love or Arranged...this getting married is becoming sooo difficult...
Koi formula nahi hai...but listen to your gut...pure gut...away from the outside noise. If you are uncomfortable about anything or feel something is not right...then no
Then considering the things that are important to you, you will have to assess what he feels about them.
Imagine your life with the guy five or ten years hence...what do you see...imagine all kinds of scenarios...with in laws without, with bachchas...etc etc
What do you feel when you see him...attraction index kitna high hai...boss chemistry is important.
Like I said it's difficult, Lekin thoda pata chalta hai...I think it's important to take your time. Lekin bahut zyaada time loge then you can also get more confused...
Uff don't want to scare you...but it's a gamble at the end of the day.
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