Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Taara
I will respond with my favorite topic'
http://depts.alverno.edu/dgp/GEC/Principles%20of%20Economics.html
We all try to cut our losses in life
We either incur financial losses or emotional losses, when we avoid one, we incur the other, you just cant escape it, I know there is probably someone out there in the universe that has financial AND emotional gains
I am not talking about him or her, I am strictly speaking about mere mortals like me, there is NO escaping it, you avoid one, you incur the other... life is not a business relationship. II tried to treat it like that, to preserve her self respect (OR STROKE HER INFLATED EGO, as some believe)
She incurred a financial loss to preserve her dignity, she ended up losing BOTH
she has caused (hopefully not) lasting damage to her relationship with Ranjan and Sam😭
I see life differently than you, Ashu sees it differently than Anu... I write this story based on how I see it. Its NOT the right way... its how I decided to narrate it
Nisha I had to get back.
Logged on wanting to write about the update and II getting stewed. But I can see that reams have been written about that. Plead guilty about not having read all that has been written.
@ Blue caught my attention. That's what we are all here for in the first place.
I know Romance means different things to different people and different things to the same person at different times.
I think the success of your story is not because this is prosaic and outstanding but because it is discordant and together and extremely unpretentious ( among a long list).
How many times in life are we able to cut out the undesirable experiences or people and move on ( Manny for II and losing Savvy for RnB) Rarely! For most of us love and let downs happens in the same relationship. We probably set ourselves up for success when we are more considerate and a little less selfish than our reactive nature is with ones that are dear - spouse, kids friends family etc. Then there are some of us who take a load of unpleasantness outside the family - with friends and colleagues ( either of out affection or respect or to further our own ambition) and have impossbily high expectations for our personal relationships. Something's got to give! Where and what we do defines us. And there is no right or wrong with that!
So to me, Sam's disappointment at II's recklessness is because she is upset that the II she has seen and known - a loving human being was so business like with her outrageous sister. She wishes II had not duped her and had actually told her why she needed Manny's address. II has seen Sam is sharp and wise. One step towards Sam and she would have had a anchor in her. II's loss really.
Crisis and conflicts are inevitable between couples, families, communities or even nations.
But almost always a little patience and unselfishness makes a world of difference.
When I see II and RnB rage, rant and feel rapturous I use the window to reflect on my own normal life - either pat myself or learn a trick or 2 ( Like your book-et 😳). AND eargerly wait for more like right now!!
I Come here to enjoy your " IMPERFECT LEADS" stumbling across life and all the chatter that follows.. that makes me smile, giggle or think!
Great GOING!
Congratulations on 16!
Go on forever as you see it FIT!❤️
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