Originally posted by: swathi1990
This calls for a debate Nish ! I am in no support of feminists.. Infact I hate all this special women meetings / empowerment ...they are just BAKWAAS... They say that they wanted women to be treated equal but in actuality they themselves have no clue of wat they want...to be treated equal or to be treated like a god...Thats not wat I meant when I used the word feminist...
Oh I need a promotion so I will not have a child (II)
But wats really wrong in II / any girl thinking this way...I dont support all demands..But I feel that women have the right to make their choices /decisions as well... I am doing my PhD now...Ofcourse during paper deadlines I will be late home...I dont want a kid till I finish my PhD...wats wrong in thinking like that??? I am not being a feminist here..I am just being a person who follows my passion in life
I am going to assume you are unmarried ille? Otherwise apologies... II wants to postpone it for 5-7 years until she turns 35 36? I feel thats a tad unreasonable, or may be I want my leading lady to be unreasonable I dont know
I agree you should focus on what you want... and go after it, but also be WILLINGLY make changes, if you feel forced or pressured then its cracking up...
I am probably not doing a good job of making a point here may be... I find a certain stiffness in some 20 somethings about what THEY want.
They want a DDLJ/ Two States type picture perfect thing AND GET THEIR WAY
I just sense that men/boys/grooms are more flexible these days. More willing to collaborate, more willing to share and forgive and "give"
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