SS 8--Transfer of Power on 123 - Page 96

This content was originally posted by: deernav

And he found Maa..lovely Nisha

Guys enjoy the last few hours of R & Bs bachelorhood as he will be married to II in a few..we cant eye him anymore..😉😉

PS: Ashu will kill me for this

Changed my user name to Ashu25 from Ashu9...

😭

beautiful beautiful beautiful so lovely so lovely so lovely no adjectives.
enuf said..
i will challenge anyone reading this to not have a lump...
 my god it keeps getting better nisha and update after update i say the same thing..
gooosh he said the mantras perfectly and the vadyars gave him the nod
i have no words for your writing but to say thank you  🤗👏

sometimes i wonder if you are even real .. like how can one write like this and not be a professional writer its a crime actually..i feel if you were born brought up in US by now you would have been a Jumpa lahiri .

be back in a bit to the thread I have a meeting at 11

This content was originally posted by: swathi1990

Very touching update Nish !!

Her giving a kerchief to him... kind of came out very naturally...a progress for them..

He seeing ma in Amma...Sam being a vanditha for II...wah ... u just brought out a beautiful family emotional scene..Wat the parents would go through when their girl is getting married..I have always noticed that...

But the feminist in me doesn't like or accept the title 😭 It is not power somehow that sounds wrong  but I dont know the right word as well...

Swathi

Its HOW you take it

NO man wants to control dominate and suppress. They want a good marriage as much as you do. Havent met ONE foolish power hungry one like the feminists describe in the last 20 years, its a HUGE generalization to assume that men are out to destroy women's lives.
I know 10s of women though that have systematically ruined their marital life.


Its my personal opinion that 20 somethings, not all... but certainly many 20 somethings (not you at all) are TOO WRAPPED UP in their sense of academic and professional achievements.  there is a certain hubris in their approach to marriage.

"Oh! I am too smart for any man"

"Oh! I am an over achiever I cannot cook"

"Oh I need a promotion so I will not have a child (II)

Men are CONSISTENTLY doing more, I married nearly two decades ago, my Mom married over 4 decades ago, my paatti married over 6? 8? decades ago
I have not heard of one marraige in the last 5 years where the man does not know how to cook or fold laundry or scrub toilets.  There have been good and bad men in every era, men that contribute willingly dont have the urge to be Hitler, in fact 99% of them dont care to be Hitlers.

Many women I find are suddenly very unmanageable and prickly and unwilling to "give" and are too overcome with their sense of self. Traditions have a reason, they dont apply 100%. Never did even 100 years ago kanna.  So dont get caught up in that... Dont let feminists  run over you with a 18 wheeler.

They derive orgasms from butchering men, some of us get it FROM MEN😆
(Sorry! no offence to feminists)



Edited by Nisha0604 - 9 years ago

really this was soo touching..i never thought about kanyadan as you said.its really auspicious.now II will hav 2 akkas and 2 appas..and one dude...

Another WOW update Nisha Di..!
Edited by Aksh14 - 9 years ago

"The handkerchief was passed tho FROM HER TO HIM... YESSS... FROM HER TO HIM Ahem!!"
Yes this had to happen..I was so sure it would be II giving the handkerchief...

This update was emotional nisha...loved how both ranjan and R&B were missing savvy..and R&B finding his ma in Amma..loved it totally...

R&B has to be the end of me yaar..I love d characterEdited by dsgirl - 9 years ago

Beautiful Nisha. Especially the last part :')

This content was originally posted by: Nisha0604

Swathi

Its HOW you take it

NO man wants to control dominate and suppress. They want a good marriage as much as you do. Havent met ONE foolish power hungry one like the feminists describe in the last 20 years, its a HUGE generalization to assume that men are out to destroy women's lives.
I know 10s of women though that have systematically ruined their marital life.


Its my personal opinion that 20 somethings, not all... but certainly many 20 somethings (not you at all) are TOO WRAPPED UP in their sense of academic and professional achievements.  there is a certain hubris in their approach to marriage.

"Oh! I am too smart for any man"

"Oh! I am an over achiever I cannot cook"

"Oh I need a promotion so I will not have a child (II)

Men are CONSISTENTLY doing more, I married nearly two decades ago, my Mom married over 4 decades ago, my paatti married over 6? 8? decades ago
I have not heard of one marraige in the last 5 years where the man does not know how to cook or fold laundry or wash toilets.


There have been good and bad men in every era, men that contribute willingly dont have the urge to be Hitler, in fact 99% of them dont care to be Hitlers.
Many women I find are suddenly very unmanageable and prickly and unwilling to "give" and overcome with their sense of self.

Traditions have a reason, they dont apply 100%. Never did even 100 years ago kanna
So dont get caught up in that... Dont let feminists  run over you with a 18 wheeler.

They derive orgasms from butchering men, some of us get it FROM MEN😆
(Sorry! no offence to feminists)

Edited by swathi1990 - 9 years ago