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Posted: 9 years ago
I wonder how KB ppl can leave Anandi at this time and go. Nandini is not yet found and apparently from the spoilers Anandi gets to know about Bal vivah too. Still those ppl will leave? How is that possible in real life! Even if it is about any immediate business emergency then just alok could go. Why entire KB ppl should go? And Why daddu too? This has same logic as to why Sumi and Bhairon are not returning even after so much happened in BH😆.
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Posted: 9 years ago
anandi herself don't want to go singapor and daddu tranfer property of kb in name of anandi
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01

anandi herself don't want to go singapor and daddu tranfer property of kb in name of anandi

 
I know! But shouldn't Daddu atleast stay with Anandi in Udaipur? What was the emergency for him to go to Singapre!
 
 
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Posted: 9 years ago
Anandi may not have called up Dsa and J or asked for help but it's coming nevertheless.
They are doing it out of their own concern for Anandi.
But the way this is shaping is what tells that the pakke umar ki rishte have turned out to be kacche for Anandi.
No problem if Singhs replace Shekhars in life but showing them taking up the place of Shiv will be unacceptable.

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Posted: 9 years ago
Anandi made a mistake and she is paying the price for it. But she is also the one who has lost the most in this...
family's initial reaction was as expected,...and in a family you see all kind of people...some who still think logical like daddu, some like Ira and Alok who get hyper and dont really use their thinking ability for some time...IRa who can hold a grudge for days..and then we also have surprise package like Meenu...who are otherwise calm and sensible, but sometimes do lose out due to circumstances.
also we have khajan who know his daughter did a mistake but then he can understand her pain as well in that instance...just like daddu.
i wont blame anyone...all are not same and can never be...

also comparing singhs and shekhars doesnt make same...both have their positives and negatives ..and both share a different level of bonding with anandi and also the time span both have stayed with her is quite different. 
plus like someone mentioned her - i think @libs... that Jagya and Shiv's characters and their relationship to anandi is also a parameter why the relations are different.

getting Sarita and her daughter was a sure adding ghee to fire, she could have asked someone at bhaili to take care of them, but then i give it to anandi...because after losing her daughter due to her own mistake i dont think she can really think so much, she brought them home is quite thoughtful and brave on her part.

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anyways just like CVs made Shiv superhero with entire force in tow, to bump him off...
they made Anandi wander off from the police so that nandini can be kidnapped...
and now they are showing Shekhar's OTT drama, just to create rift between them and anandi, and to bump them off...

to me neither of the above seem any way logical...and all are unnecessary tracks...but then CVs will show what they have to.
kachchi umar ke pakke rishtey is coming back in full force, and if they try to show BH replacing Shiv...i would hate CVs to the core.
i dont see how this is woman empowerment, and why a woman needs to go through all this nonsense to get empowered. stupid CVs and their stupid ideas...no way the message is postive or thought provoking in any way.
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Posted: 9 years ago
There are numerous logical way to show Nandini's kidnap, there are numerous ways to show logically what happened to Nandini after kidnap (this child marriage is crap), there are numerous ways to send away Shakhers except this butchering of characters, there are so much they can still show without resorting to taking the story backward - bal-vivah, Anandi returning to her first sasra etc.  But creatives have decided to take the most illogical route to take the story forward - somewhere they have confidence that most people will accept whatever they show - and it is evident in the way Anandi and her actions are being defended, Singhs and Jagya are praised for their support to Anandi and Shakhers are declared outright villains. 
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: adi2512

Pooja's marriage and its annulment.

Make the lead of the show, empower the child's mother enough to fight for justice for her daughter.

The lead is already empowered, that's why she is the Heroine. But is that it ? will that all be enough ? 

Anandi as one person cannot be at all places, every time a child marriage is happening.
But with the example, she can set with the mother, can give inspiration to all the other mothers , whose daughters are being thrown into this evil tradition ruthlessly with out their consent.

And in actual, until the police had reached there with their rifles, was she able to stop the wedding ? They have put her at gun point and carried on with the proceedings as usual.

One can try their best to stop a child marriage, before it had taken place. But if one can't ? there would be many chances, that one cannot be on time. 

Even in Anandi's case, that day, she could have got stuck in a traffic jam, or seen a destitute caught in an accident on the road, which is also an emergency and would have given her bit of assistance in getting her to the nearest hospital...she would have missed to stop the wedding.


So, is that it ? Is the child's fate doomed forever ?

And that is where the Law becomes the savior.

When Law is there to help, help the women to take the help of Law. If procedures have to be gone thru' have patience to go thru' them. Give them faith, that Govt is on their side.

Empower them to fight their battles.

If she can do it for Nandini, make Sarita do same for Pooja.

One person cannot be an answer and cannot be a savior for all.

If by seeing the show, a woman gets enough courage to fight back, then that is how there is a scope for positivism.

That is how, ppl would get inspired, and you will be an inspiration.

As they have been advertising, that Anandi is one to inspire, this is not how Anandi will be an inspiration. None would like to put their loved ones at risk, to achieve their social goals.

Or

Every one cannot be as selfless as Anandi., 

but if shown a correct way, they can at least gather enough courage to fight their battles.

If on an assumptive basis, in some distant future, the writers want to make a CM / PM out of Anandi , She has to DELEGATE for all the changes she wants to enforce...
It is HUMANLY impossible, for her to be there at every place to bring about a change / stop a child marriage every time.

And this holds, even for a common man who wants to bring about the change.

That is how a Hero can be made out of a common man.

Its not by the preaching s of the leading lady making herself omnipresent, against all odds, or the mssgs the show gives at the end, that mindset of society will change.



Excellent Post.
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Posted: 9 years ago

When Shiv was alive when were both  Shiv and Anandi were out of Jagya's life Creatives again and again shown them  in his life Its another thing he very less interfered in their lives but yes they were shown in almost every track of BH and Anandi attended every function of BH regarding Jagya or all happenings in BH regarding him  Wasn't that cvs favorite kachi umer k pake rishte that now people are  blaming this particular rishta is the reason of cvs bumping of Shiv ?Where Jagya is too much interfering in Anandi's life ? He is well wisher like always even when Shiv was alive ? so relax it happens only one in one way even Ganga being  with there creatives make Anandi ji lecture Jagya what he should do or what not It  never happened other way and won't happen either

There purpose to kill Shiv was only drama in Anandi's life First they butchered her husband s character then killed her husband Purpose is same Drama Nothing really goes logically with storyline

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: adi2512

Pooja's marriage and its annulment.

Make the lead of the show, empower the child's mother enough to fight for justice for her daughter.

The lead is already empowered, that's why she is the Heroine. But is that it ? will that all be enough ? 

Anandi as one person cannot be at all places, every time a child marriage is happening.
But with the example, she can set with the mother, can give inspiration to all the other mothers , whose daughters are being thrown into this evil tradition ruthlessly with out their consent.

And in actual, until the police had reached there with their rifles, was she able to stop the wedding ? They have put her at gun point and carried on with the proceedings as usual.

One can try their best to stop a child marriage, before it had taken place. But if one can't ? there would be many chances, that one cannot be on time. 

Even in Anandi's case, that day, she could have got stuck in a traffic jam, or seen a destitute caught in an accident on the road, which is also an emergency and would have given her bit of assistance in getting her to the nearest hospital...she would have missed to stop the wedding.


So, is that it ? Is the child's fate doomed forever ?

And that is where the Law becomes the savior.

When Law is there to help, help the women to take the help of Law. If procedures have to be gone thru' have patience to go thru' them. Give them faith, that Govt is on their side.

Empower them to fight their battles.

If she can do it for Nandini, make Sarita do same for Pooja.

One person cannot be an answer and cannot be a savior for all.

If by seeing the show, a woman gets enough courage to fight back, then that is how there is a scope for positivism.

That is how, ppl would get inspired, and you will be an inspiration.

As they have been advertising, that Anandi is one to inspire, this is not how Anandi will be an inspiration. None would like to put their loved ones at risk, to achieve their social goals.

Or

Every one cannot be as selfless as Anandi., 

but if shown a correct way, they can at least gather enough courage to fight their battles.

If on an assumptive basis, in some distant future, the writers want to make a CM / PM out of Anandi , She has to DELEGATE for all the changes she wants to enforce...
It is HUMANLY impossible, for her to be there at every place to bring about a change / stop a child marriage every time.

And this holds, even for a common man who wants to bring about the change.

That is how a Hero can be made out of a common man.

Its not by the preaching s of the leading lady making herself omnipresent, against all odds, or the mssgs the show gives at the end, that mindset of society will change.


This reminds me of that famous Leo Tolstoy quote,

"Just as one candle lights another and can light thousands of other candles, so one heart illuminates another and can illuminate thousands of other hearts." ðŸ˜Š

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Posted: 9 years ago
really i hate this Ira and Alok