suRya - Made for each other ???

Originally posted by: GovindaGovinda

@Neel_M - I have not been watching the episodes regularly because of the nonsense but I decided to watch today after reading WU - so disgusted with Sandhya - she was so unhappy when she was away from Suraj - she could not wait to jump back to RP house (Rat Pariwar) but then when she came back,I do not see any feelings from her towards Suraj - same old BS (Bull sh..) as before their cons... - so tired of seeing that in couple who have been married for that long

everything is game for her when it comes to Suraj - and then asking him about his dress - what the heck - why is she so worried about his dress - is that all she cares?

right now Suraj and Sandhya are on my nerves😡 like u said nothing between them - no sparks - just plain awkwardness

Sandhya's nok jhok is making me irritated

Originally posted by: GovindaGovinda

Today's episode is even bigger joke than the previous ones -

Any relationship is based on compatibility, understanding and trust. Marriages are successful when we have these elements. In our culture, at least I grew up believing in arranged marriages and have very happy marriage(but will not do that to my children in current situations), we make some compromises to have successful marriage. In arranged marriages, compatibility is what lacks between two but that is where compromising comes in. so we do - Sometimes even though it is arranged marriage, both will turn to be more compatible. Understanding and trust both are personal characteristics of any person, may be based on up bringing -

in Suraj/Sandhya - Why are Suraj and Sandhya made for each other? What is so special about these two than others? I fail to understand now -

Compatibility - They both are from opposite sides of a spectrum except their love for their family - I see one and only aspect in which they are compatible - family

Understanding - If they understand each other, Suraj would never throw his wife - under any circumstances - after throwing her out,there is no remorse, no feelings - just turned into a stone - all of a sudden his beloved mom has to make him realize his mistake - then decided to bring her - blah blah - went on national TV to apologize - but I fail to understand where he understands his wife - not really - right - he might have made his dream come true - that was different - in my mind, that was not a test at all - his real test in understanding his wife is after she became IPS officer

Sandhya - she never really understood him - if she did, she would have found real reason for his behavior or would have been with him no matter what

Trust - This is where I really feel pity on Cvs - they fail miserably here - where is the trust which is foundation for any marriage - Suraj trust broke into million pieces in the name of family - never tried to understand his wife

Sandhya - what does she base her marriage on? bunch of secrets - she always did in the past - hide things from Suraj, now what ever her reasons could be, does not matter when she decides to come back, she should respect him as her husband and be open with him - instead she is playing child games with him

all and all in my opinion, Suraj and Sandhya are no different than any other couple we see in daily soaps - they are no special