Originally posted by: bluejalpari
Exactly..binggy buddy..I understand how you feel and I know that your thinking Astha should have slapped him etc...and how she is taking it etc..
But trust me...the scene was a exact playout of the saputara scene...Astha Shlok's first meeting itself started like this where Shlok asks these things to Astha. At that time, Astha calld him Battameez and Rakshas, that time her self respect reacted.
But today she did not ,because it was wrong to read his personal diary that too about his ex without his permission. ..anybody will think that she is reading it to use it against him.Esp since things are happening. AStha never in so many days told Shlok that she has the dairy. Astha also reads how much of a romantic and loving guy he was
The biggest thing shlok was telling her indirectly that the diary does not mean a thing to him he wanted to discard it and he made AStha do it...he doesnt give a second glance to the diary...he does not have any feelings while burning it.
He does not want Astha to dwell on his and Swati's past...actually ever since she opened the diary he has constantly remembered Swati. He has moved on from Swati and does not want Astha to dwell on it..he wants him and Astha to create a relationship based on today's realities , not on how he used to be in the past. But he does not want to say that to Astha because he has his NA related reasons.He does not want anyone to use that diary against him. In fact he may also have realized she would be hurting so much to read that he loved Swati so much.
His reaction to her wound does say he knows when she is in pain.
100% agree his behavior with Astha was very bad...but this was not worse than Saputara where AStha was not even his wife! Now Astha is really his wife.
By the time they show why Shlok is like this, they will also show why AStha tolerated it.
Also the "bimari control to kee jaasakti hai" by Astha was a big thing today. So there are more things happening in the background.
My POV..this was better than yelling
jalpari ,thanks for posting as i always enjoy reading ur analysis ,i agree many of ur points & also disagree to some ,
ok lets see shloke wants to move on but did he do any attempt other than letting his memory thingy with swati went away ,did he try any way to move forward his relation with astha ???nope ,he did not ,his relation with astha is same ,he did not show her any love ,did not give her any wifey rights ,still they r separate ,tomorrow there will another scene where he threw the plate away ,so whats new about his relation with astha if he really wanted to move on ????
overall he said that she is using his past to copy things to get close to him & want to part of his life & that no one can be in his heart or life ,those were his words ,
now for woman whose husband is dwelling on his past since V day ,continuosly kept mumbling his ex's name ,she found out that shloke is obsessed with his ex ,would not any wife in her place want to know about his past ???? bcoz he himself did not want to let go of his past ,he kept his memory thingies locked in a room ,so why wont any wife want to know when they r married for atleast long time (6 months or so since marriage ) ???
husband wife relationship needs clarity & trust & every husband wife have rights to know about their spouse's past specially if it affects them so badly in their marriage life
shloke's past was & still is affecting their marriage bcoz shloke never let that go away ,astha wanted to know bcoz she wanted to help him move on but yes ,that plan of hers backfired bcoz of aditi's entry ,shloke never told her nor did anybody ,so diary was only option left for her ,if shloke would wanted to tell her ,he would have told her by now since so much has happened
u r right he wanted to burnt that diary but he thats bcoz did not & still does not want astha to know about his past ,do astha as a wife doesnt have a right to know about her husband's ex which affects him so badly that they dont have a normal married couple relationship ???? i disagree to the part that diary does not affect him bcoz it was shown couple of episodes back that when he was sick astha opened the diary ,he started panic or he used to get tormented while sleep when astha used to open it & when anjali burnt those things his sleep get affected so much so that he woke up ,so deep down he has this emotional connections ,even if all the things get burnt he has swati in his heart (love ,hate or obsession ) still yet ,thats why every little thing affects him so bad ,like sindoor ,bangles etc etc ,if he was so unaffected he would not bother about these things ,right ?
about astha's self respect i have nothing to say ,since its nothing new ,after the marriage or should i say after falling in love with shloke during fake love drama even before marriage her self respect kind of started decreasing ,now there is NONE ,nada ,thats why even before marriage she tolerated her parents & her insults time to time by anjali & other ways
the similarity between saputara scene & today was that when shloke behaved that way he remembered swati through astha's bangles & her calling rakshas & astha's calling shloke close relative
today also when he told her this ,its bcoz astha reading the diary where he wrote that swati was angel ,he wanted her forever ,blah blah blah ,so he thinks astha is trying to copy from the diary to get close to shlok physically ,somehow physically get close to him means swati , following swati's everything means a way to get close to him intimately thats what he thinks ,thats why he accuses astha & told her none can take place in his heart or life that way
if he would have let his past go ,astha would not have slept every night on the floor anymore ,so he still did not move on from his past ,bcoz like i said he has this image that swati is a link for him (he thinks ) to get close physically ,i mean swati= physically close ,thats what he meant ,following her means a try to get close ,how can i say more elaborately ,i m bad at explaining 😆 ,anyway that is not a married husband can say specially to a wife & if he says so , a wife should run immediately 😆
about shloke 's agenda or his doubt about NA or wanting to find these things involving NA ,i cannot comment bcoz so far shlok showed only worshiping of him ,it never shown that way that he doubts NA or anything that sort of ,or even any hints of that ,so i still dont think he doubts NA ,since he still didnt doubt abhay about avdhoot thingy even when there was proof ,even without the diary everything is going against them ,like aditi ,so why would he think that diary can be used against him ???it will clear astha about his past but it cannot be used against ,aditi is doing her job without diary 😆😆 perfectly ,she even know the music tune
about astha's pain ,i guess he should know more about his past ,its him who is giving her pain all the time by treating her like trash ,ruining her life ,revenge thingy ,not giving her any rights etc ,does not he know who is giving her pain
astha is emotionally strong person who would have not bother about his past ,thats why she dodged that matter during mandir marriage ,its more about his past ,he is giving her pain ,does shloke not know that ????he knows that
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