sammy is at fault, but what about pihu?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I was watching the show and I realized, sammy is at fault for not saying anything and being honest about this marriage.
But what about pihu? Pihu knows he loves suhani and she even makes snide remarks towards him so shouldn't she also carry a little bit of the blame here?
Agree or disagree?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sammy is at fault for saying yes to the marriage with Pihu and not telling anyone anything about her. Pihu is also at fault...she needs to realise that she cannot get everything in life...she is using her dad as a weapon to get Sammy...if she truly loved him she would let him marry Suhani...Pihu is obsessed over Sammy and it's not right...she can't treat him like a object...Suhani needs to stop sacrificing her love for others...she has full right to marry the one she loves...

Edited by -Ritu567- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sammy had been giving all the wrong signals to Pihu and he used her to get Suhani. Even though Pihu did have feelings for him, he is the one who made her think that he loves her too, So he is totally to be blamed for this situation. However after realizing the truth Pihu should have backed out. Pihu has become a spoilt brat over the years, and so thinks that she can get anything and everything that she desires. She needs to realize that even if she does end up marrying Sammy, both of them can never be happy if he is not totally committed to the marriage in the first place.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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All the three are so wrong..Sammy Suhani and Pihu. in fact EVERYTHING is WRONG.
1.Sammy as most said is not being honest and showing any courage of any sort and blaming everything on dhoka and family relations. First of all he was not forced by Ram Kapoor and Priya Kapoor to say yes to the marriage..they had left it entirely on him so saying yes to the marriage fr relationships and getting engaged to pihu is nt a question. He was shown going straight to pihu and telling her yes fr engagement just because Suhani said no and she said she ws interested in Khush...this ws pure rebound and childishness to 'teach suhani a lesson'..plus he is still chasing suhani having committed to Pihu now...🤢🤢
2.Pihu is also wrong..she has realized that Sammy does nt love her and loves suhanny so her obsession to get married to Sammy is so so so stupid.
3.Suhani is also so wrong..she thinks Priya wld be happy to se pihu marrying a guy who does not love her and is into someone else..and sacrificing..and plus in this sacrifice mode took that poor khush for a ride and he fell for her..
The storyline is also so contorted..
Priya, who is one of the most sensible person and as seen Pihus issues regarding commitment and all is OK to get her married so early..who knws in future if she feels that she does nt want to stay wit Sammy and wld wnt it out of the marriage.
even Ram for that matter..he has seen how always giving in to Nutz whims and fancies did not work ..yet even he isnow repeating the same with Pihu..along wit Priya..
Vikram who is the most sensible guy was always advised right to ram and is seeing Sammy act weird is doing nothing but a silent spectator!
Its seems that the kids are royally taking the elders for a ride. Elders who have suddenly become nave and stupid.
this is one of the worst phase of BALH in terms of story..and the track is going on for a month now.
plus sorry to say just my opinion, the actors playing Sammy and suhani both lack in their scenes and they are not an enjoyable watch. Like yesterday, Sammy had a good breakdown scene..but it was such a mess in the acting department that it looked fake..Sonia Balani is acting well..but the CVS have made her character from bad to worse and is becoming unbearable watch..the moment pihu comes onscreen. There is no complexity or depth in Pihus character that I wld enjoy watching the so called grey shade..all she does is 'Sammy Sammy Sammy..and acts psycho..so the moment she comes on screen I change channels too..
yes the new khush is good though..no comments abt the twins..
So wit the current story focused on them..makes BALH so annoying ..people frm my family have already taken a break..saying its so boring now..
well if the Cvs feel that they are done with a DECENT raya story and need to focus on other characters..a tleast as a viewer I wld expect:
1.Better actors whose scenes I can enjoy.
2.better and more relatable characterization..
RaYa worked precisely for this reason.
1.acting and AWESOMEST chemistry..
2.relatable characters .
I wnt mind seeing RaYa cute scenes and the chillar story..provided it is a good watch..currently its is UNBERABLE..and I only wait when RaYa wld come on screen..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In the first place why did sammy agreed to marry pihu, why did he tell her wants to grow old with her, why did he tell priya that he cannot imagine his life without pihu, why was he quiet, the first day when he said he donot want to get married he would have told upfront, that he loves someone else, if he would have refused in the initial phase itself their wouldn't be any family issues, jaise w/o kal bol rha tha do pariwaar , dosti , relationship sab kharab ho jaayega, jaise wo ro rha tha, mujhe usse cady thappad kyon nhi de rhi hai ye soch rhi thi, sab ka sole responsibility sammy hi hai.
Was it necessary to go to pihu when suhani dumped him, that time no one had forced him, if he truly loves suhani than why don't he have the courage to tell everyone, agar suhani se badle k liye pihu se shaadi kar rha hai, to why don't he stick to pihu only, why is he taking advantage of being in kapoor mansion always n following suhani. Atleast pihu knows what she wants, she is a spoilt sport, n she thinks she can get anything as she ram kapoor's daughter, but she should realize love is not something to get or buy, n one cannot get forcefully, now for pihu its more than love a prestige n ego issue to get sammy, bcoz sammy is used , stilll using pihu.
He is the main culprit here.let him act like a man he is not a 22yr teenager he is 28 yr man. Agar rishtoan ki itni hi kadar hai, sabki khushi ki itni fikr hai , he himself agreed to marry pihu, n he should marry her n keep her happy rather than roaming around suhani, or else marry suhani, kisi rishtein ki kadar na karte hue. Waise bhi agar ab shaadi k liye mana karega toh zaroor shergill's n kapoor's ke risthein bigad jaayenge hi saath mein ram vikki, waise bhi pihu k saath wo best friend ka natak hi karta hai, to uss rishtein ka tootna koi badi baat nhi.
If he would have rejected in the initial phase I would have appreciated him, bcoz, neither ram, nor priya, neha, vikki had forced him to marry, rather as a parent they always want their kids to be happy.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yaar pehle tho mai sammy aur suhaani ki scenes bilkul nahi dekh thi per overall story tho samaj gayi...anyway you can't blame pihu as she is negative character as of now but as per sammy fans he is hero so he must be positive right...agar sammy ko pihu se compare kar rahe hai then they think that sammy is negative...
anyway I so love pihu she is so good sammy needs this lesson😡😡...bahut sare ladikiyon ke aat khel ne ke baad ab use pyaar chahiye😡😡 utna aasan hai tho use pyaar kyu kehete hai try stonger sammy like pihu(❤️) she is trying very hard even becoming negative
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Pihu knows Sammy used to love suhani not anymore... Watch the scene where he run to pihu saying lets get married because suhani dump me like Pam... Where is pihu to b blame...
Sammy is getting what he deserve he used pihu n always gave her wrong signal indirectly saying that he love her n will b always together with her...
Edited by simlavidhi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: simlavidhi

Pihu knows Sammy used to love suhani not anymore... Watch the scene where he run to pihu saying lets get married because suhani dump me like Pam... Where i pihu to b blame...
Sammy is getting what he deserve he used pihu n always gave her wrong signal indirectly saying that he love her n will b always together with her...


yeah, but she always catches them staring at each other so something has go off in her head.
If a guy was madly in love with a woman and the next day, he says I don't love her doesn't mean he stops loving her. love isn't a on and off switch.
and also the way he treats pihu is not love so how can she even like his attitude towards her. i think pihu is obsessed with him. Sammy can hit pihu and she will say let's get married.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: howru



yeah, but she always catches them staring at each other so something has go off in her head.
If a guy was madly in love with a woman and the next day, he says I don't love her doesn't mean he stops loving her. love isn't a on and off switch.
and also the way he treats pihu is not love so how can she even like his attitude towards her. i think pihu is obsessed with him. Sammy can hit pihu and she will say let's get married.

[BR Sammy come running to pihu n said lets get married as suhani dump me... If your gf refuse to marry u that's doesn't mean u should run to an another girl the very next moment n said let's get married... I want to show her... What behaviour is this... Sammy deserve what he is getting...
Edited by simlavidhi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sammy is at fault coz he agrees to marry but only to take revenge but Pihu's fault is greater than Sammy coz she knows the love of Sahani but still she wants to win Sammy and her rough words to Sammy that 'I will get u" was totally a indication that she just wanna win him not his love. So, I can't say that it is love!!! After such statement of Pihu, Sammy should understand that is Pihu forcing Suhani to do all this???

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