What does Sandy want?? and what's her identity?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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This past week's episodes are really putting a dampener on the IPS training with BB at the academy in full form. Now my point begins with, it's alright to show BB there for an episode and listening to the orientation speech along with all the other families. But there comes a moment when Sandy has to show some evidence that she needs to be there and wants to get into it as soon as possible.


Her body language : How confused was I when no sooner she donned the uniform, she marched down the corridor oozing confident single-mindedness. Picked up the jewellery and handed it to Bhabo like it had nothing to do with her. She gazed at Suraj like she was the most confident person ever. Then standing in line at orientation, she crumbled. Her face showed misery while all her fellow cadets looked like they wanted to be there. Then she held the MRS SANDHYA RATHI name board up like she was a suspect in a police lockup lineup waiting to be jailed. Long before IPS Singh came and removed the extraneous letters, Sandy was a mess. Long before Bhabo expressed her shock at various rules and regs, Sandy looked defeated.


Then after orientation, in the room, she was unpacking with some reluctance. Maybe the presence of BB was unnerving her. Then that whole scene with IPS Singh and Bhabo arguing about Sandy's accommodation and having her own key while Sandy just watched them like it had nothing to do with her.


Looks like the CVs want to show that Saas can throw their weight around anywhere any time and get away with it. Even police officers have to listen to saas-bahu vachan problems. Saas_Bahu rules. If this week's trps rise, then it'll be interpreted that Bhabo not knowing where to say what is a big hit. She can be a rowdy and it's ok. Suraj and Bhabasa can't control her either. Just let her say whatever whenever to whomever and hope that others don't take offence. They try to show that Bhabo is 'strong' character who knows her mind and isn't afraid to say what she feels.

What about Sandy ? She's supposed to not show any strength of character? Not show her passion that dictated the main theme of DABH ? Not show that she can be respectful to elders but also draws the line where it should be drawn? What's the use of Suraj, the love of her life, who has adopted her dream, if he can't stop Bhabo from making Sandy's first hours at the academy a disaster?

No. All have to bow to Bhabo and let her run riot.


Why do I now feel that Bhabo is going to feature a lot more than I wanted. She isn't ready accept any part of the academy's rules and regs. She has a problem with EVERYTHING. I can see her calling the academy from Pushkar and checking up on Sandhya Beendani's status. She will also order Suraj to go there often. If Bhabo can march around there like she owns the place , she will think Suraj can go spend a few days with Sandy in her room. Agrima only said 'No Pati'. She didn't say no boyfriend.

There is only one way to stop all this nonsense. Sandy has to tell Suraj that it's time to say goodbye for eleven months and it has to start now. Until she shows him that she really understands why she's there and wants to get her training started, he will hang around giving her pep talks. Time to show her family that she is ready willing and able to start training. If not, I will have grave doubts about Sandy and what she really wants.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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True...we have to accept that Sandhya has been influenced a lot by BB after marriage...and now she has to fulfil BBs EV as well as her fathers dream at the same time which of course is difficult, and this is making her nervous. Really BB will never come out of her thinking about women...I thought she had now accepted Sandys dream but here she has a problem with everything Cant she compromise for once?? I guess BB was expecting the TA to be like Pushkar or her own house or something...
But now Sandy has the pressure of pleasing BB with what she does on her too...that's why she is acting differently...
True BB,BBSA and Suraj should've left by now...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nisha that's the point. Bhabo thinks she can behave the same way she behaves in her own house. Is that normal? No. And SurYa are just letting her do what she wants.
If this show wants to be even 50% realistic, then there's no way Sandy can fulfil her vachan to Bhabo AND be a police officer who does her job even half decently! It's plain ridiculous. When Bhabo actually mentioned the vachan to Agrima Singh, I was speechless!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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sandy shld be behave as cadet here for 11 months, there is no way for bhabho n she ll take EA wih her to pushkar..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I dont know what sandy wants...but all i want is bhabo to go far far away from sandy and her thoughts as well 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ayisha, I didn't expect Bhabo to have so much 'power' in the academy! And now she wants Sandy to get posted to Pushkar. Is Sandy going to try hard to be IPS or just try hard to please Bhabo and get posted to Pushkar?

Niru, do you really think Bhabo will be erased from Sandy's memory. B seems to have taken control of Sandy's entire training motive - to do well enough to go to Pushkar. Sandy has no control of her life. None whatsoever.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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no amma, in the academy that IS only have the full power.

sandy is no need to try hard ma as my pov, sandy just need to follow the TA rules..

and bhabho ll be change her mind as well..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayishas

no amma, in the academy that IS only have the full power.

sandy is no need to try hard ma as my pov, sandy just need to follow the TA rules..

and bhabho ll be change her mind as well..


Ayisha what you said ^ - that is what should happen. But they have shown something else. They made sure Bhabo told trainers about sandy's vachan. Let's see if Bhabo will stop interfering after she gets home.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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plz dnt expect sudden change frm bhabho ma..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayishas

plz dnt expect sudden change frm bhabho ma..


Not expecting sudden change at all. That's why I'm saying she is going to create a drama every week and make Suraj's life a misery in Pushkar.

Another thing - Bhabo used to be scared of police officers from Pushkar Police Station. Now how come she doesn't even have a bit of respect for officers at the academy? Just goes and orders them to do this and that.

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