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This girl has a strange way to greeting me.
She avoids saying hi's and hello's but she has to when she's passing in front of me and that's cause it appears the girl has a difficulty time STOPPING noticing me from day 1 (Since girls in general look at me pretty hard, I usually ignore it). So there has to be eye contact.
Speaking of which cause this girl's favorite time pass is noticing me, there's eye contact but no hi's or hellos. Sounds odd. Looks odder.
She usually responds to my hi's and hellos in a cold way, but today was special. The girl started smiling after noticing me. And when I held eye contact (via the reflective windows), she gave me a big smile. I did not smile back. I was confused (cause the girl has rejected me before).
When I said hi when she crossed my way, she smiled (kind of giggle in a naughty way) and said hi. So I decided to talk to her.
Me:Anything special for Christmas?
She:My friends came we saw all lord of the ring movies (laughing)
Me:My dad made cake and I made pissa
She:You Christan?
Me:No
She:You loosing any weight?
Me:No
She:You know all these exercises are not working
Me:actually I'm loosing fat. I went down from 91 to 78, but now it's constant.
She:From 91 to 78? That's good!
Me:It's not going beyond 78 cause I got muscle gain. Weight is not a good measure actually.
Me:You should measure the waist you know. It should be 25 to 27.
She:Yes, mine is 25.
Me:You dont look overweight and all you know.
She:I'm trying to maintain myself.
Me:Yeah, that's good.
She:Ok, bye!
She was in a good mood in general. She was smiling most of the time and was sustaining the conversation. I was VERY happy. like... "A girl is talking to me". She'll be the 1st one in adult life.
Whenever I've concluded that the girl has rejected me, I've always started to doubt my conclusions.
As of history of how I met her and how she rejected me --
[quote]Since the last 4 days there has been a gorgeous girl coming to the gym (I rate her 80%, where India's average is around 20%. To me she looks a little better than Katrina Kalf); she has been eyeing me quiet a lot, not in a surprised way, but just eyeing me indirectly through the mirrors or windows which reflect. I was doing the same but to a less extent.
Today she gave me a chance, I was sitting on the gym ball after thighs workout and she came sat net to the abs machine next to me.
Me:You new to the gym?
She:No, it's been 20 days.
Me:So you're maintaining yourself here?
She:No, medical problems. Typhoid. I was in bed for 3 months.
Me:It only happens once (I WAS WRONG).
She:You're an instructor here?
Me:No. I've been here for a month. I'm mostly doing weight training and little bit of weight loss.
Me:You do weight training also?
She:Yes
Me:You live locally?
She:Yes
Me:Your name?
She:(she gave her name)
Me:I'm (my name)
------shaking hands-----------
-------------waiting for ~ a minutes--------
She then leaves for cycling. She looked pretty tired.
I couldn't concoct anything more to ask. AHHH... SHE WAS WAITING...
Then she went out for 2 weeks and when she came back, I approached her again (went next to the treadmill). I don't remember the conversation exactly but she not sustaining the conversation, giving short answers and all. So I stopped trying. Now regularly we just greet each other. We don't have any conversation.[/quote]
She avoids saying hi's and hello's but she has to when she's passing in front of me and that's cause it appears the girl has a difficulty time STOPPING noticing me from day 1 (Since girls in general look at me pretty hard, I usually ignore it). So there has to be eye contact.
Speaking of which cause this girl's favorite time pass is noticing me, there's eye contact but no hi's or hellos. Sounds odd. Looks odder.
She usually responds to my hi's and hellos in a cold way, but today was special. The girl started smiling after noticing me. And when I held eye contact (via the reflective windows), she gave me a big smile. I did not smile back. I was confused (cause the girl has rejected me before).
When I said hi when she crossed my way, she smiled (kind of giggle in a naughty way) and said hi. So I decided to talk to her.
Me:Anything special for Christmas?
She:My friends came we saw all lord of the ring movies (laughing)
Me:My dad made cake and I made pissa
She:You Christan?
Me:No
She:You loosing any weight?
Me:No
She:You know all these exercises are not working
Me:actually I'm loosing fat. I went down from 91 to 78, but now it's constant.
She:From 91 to 78? That's good!
Me:It's not going beyond 78 cause I got muscle gain. Weight is not a good measure actually.
Me:You should measure the waist you know. It should be 25 to 27.
She:Yes, mine is 25.
Me:You dont look overweight and all you know.
She:I'm trying to maintain myself.
Me:Yeah, that's good.
She:Ok, bye!
She was in a good mood in general. She was smiling most of the time and was sustaining the conversation. I was VERY happy. like... "A girl is talking to me". She'll be the 1st one in adult life.
Whenever I've concluded that the girl has rejected me, I've always started to doubt my conclusions.
As of history of how I met her and how she rejected me --
[quote]Since the last 4 days there has been a gorgeous girl coming to the gym (I rate her 80%, where India's average is around 20%. To me she looks a little better than Katrina Kalf); she has been eyeing me quiet a lot, not in a surprised way, but just eyeing me indirectly through the mirrors or windows which reflect. I was doing the same but to a less extent.
Today she gave me a chance, I was sitting on the gym ball after thighs workout and she came sat net to the abs machine next to me.
Me:You new to the gym?
She:No, it's been 20 days.
Me:So you're maintaining yourself here?
She:No, medical problems. Typhoid. I was in bed for 3 months.
Me:It only happens once (I WAS WRONG).
She:You're an instructor here?
Me:No. I've been here for a month. I'm mostly doing weight training and little bit of weight loss.
Me:You do weight training also?
She:Yes
Me:You live locally?
She:Yes
Me:Your name?
She:(she gave her name)
Me:I'm (my name)
------shaking hands-----------
-------------waiting for ~ a minutes--------
She then leaves for cycling. She looked pretty tired.
I couldn't concoct anything more to ask. AHHH... SHE WAS WAITING...
Then she went out for 2 weeks and when she came back, I approached her again (went next to the treadmill). I don't remember the conversation exactly but she not sustaining the conversation, giving short answers and all. So I stopped trying. Now regularly we just greet each other. We don't have any conversation.[/quote]
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