Arshi FF: Zindagi of Arshi THREAD 2: FINAL EPILOGUE - Pg: 114 - Page 10

Originally posted by: mariam1368

Khushi only thinking about
La...but what about Arnav?
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Kushi has all right to be angry on him and close the door on his face saying he betrayed her. But she loves him and knows him. Yes she is hurt by his betrayal, because if not for this, they would have been together now. They had survived all hurdles together, but this one they can't! But she know that if she don't stand by him now, he will break. Kushi loves him and she did her farz!

She stood by him, made him understand what he should do. Made sure that he will abide it. Promised him that she will love him always and encouraged him saying they will survive this. She was suffering the same pain but she became the strong one for him. 

I CAN NEVER EXPRESS THE EXTENT OF KUSHI'S PAIN, inside her now while doing all this!!!!!!!

3) I don't know if I see it as a blackmail. But it was the last thing Kushi could do to make Arnav understand. Because nothing else can stop him. She knows he would prefer Kushi living and breathing somewhere in this world rather than seeing her vanish off. 

It was just to make sure. Arnav needed that dose, I guess. Otherwise instead of following her car, even at that point, he would have overtaken and pulled Kushi out back again!

4) Why Kushi is making decision for him.  -> Because she knows Arnav will never take a decision himself or rather will make the wrong one right now. He is helpless, angry, tortured, suffering. Nobody can think straight in this mentality. If Kushi just leaves him now without showing him the right direction ahead, he is going to destory himself and also his child's life. He might not love the child at all thinking it destoryed his happiness. But that is not right na? The child knows nothing! Or Arnav might just plunge in self-loathing and destroy his life. I don't want to make him next Devadas. And my Kushi is not going to be a Paru who want to take revenge on him and later pine over him. She is showing Arnav what he should do to rectify his mistakes and moving out of his life so that he can do his duties!

Hope yours doubts are clear now😆

Originally posted by: daljeet

Kushi was showing him the right direction. We allow only our loved ones to point out our flaws.

Agreed! 

 Kushi is the only loved one of his life and he knows she is saying it because after she leaves, she wants him to continue living on. She knows his relation with La will be strained forever from now on. But she don't want Arnav to hate his own child for denying him the only thing he wanted in life. Kushi is thinking for him, more than for La or the child. And it is natural. She feels for this man!

Here I feel pathetic for Kushi...one shouldn't love like this...it's truly toxic...his kind of love is almost like poison

OMG! 😲Are you saying this???? Eniku inni chatha mathi, SATHYAM!🤣

I'm sooo happy that I could change your hatred for Kushi. I feel like I climbed mountains! I never thought this day would come. Because you were not rational but partial to La. So I thought even if I present Kushi deliberately in good light, you won't accept.😃

See, I am rational on the whole but at times, certain scenes, the unjustices done to the certain characters brings the emotional me out and then I cant guarantee..

 Yup. Didn't Viren once said that if Arnav pursues her and something went wrong, it will destory her. This often happens in the case of 'the other women'. There are a lot many examples even in real life. But women of them who could come back and stand strong succeeded. Nayantara, I admire you for it. You are one of the inspiration for my Kushi in this scene. I don't know what happened in her life. But when she decided not to suicide, not to hide in some foreign countries but COME BACK into an industry where she will be mocked to no end, and do films and demand her stardom back, what shall I say, I SALUTE her for the courage she showed. She took the decision, she faced the consequences and she continued with her life. She didn't bow down to wagging tongues, to pressure or depression. But moved on. I love you for it Nayans. Thank you for helping me shape my Kushi here.⭐️

Yea. I too love Nayanthara for that..But for me Nayan here is La. Not Kushi...I am going to be partial again...he he..

After a long time, I cried while drafting for that scene. I do hate Arnav for using La and destroying Kushi's life like that. But, in that one scene, my heart went out to the man/boy in him who was helpless when fate took away the only thing he wanted. Because, that is a state where we all could be. Sometimes one mistake of ours can cost us the most important thing in our life. If that kid had not happened, then Arshi would have been together.

The worst thing that can happen to a human being is to get a glimpse of the happiness that he wants and then being denied it. I consider this to be Arnav's punishment.

Pakshe, my heart felt heavy  and my throat got blocked here. He went behind her car till where he can. It shows the extent to which he loves and wants Kushi. He is a selfish man, no doubt. But I am one too. So somewhere I felt for him🥺

I dont feel pity for him though I want to when you wrote like this...but no...am strong on hating him...and I feel happy for his punishment...the day he started thinking about him more than Lavanya, he got kicked out from my good books.and I wont feel any pity..nanayi poyi...avan athu kittanum!!

Originally posted by: daljeet

Originally posted by: daljeet

I have anwered many comments for this same question. So I am quoting the answers I gave them here for you😊

1) Kushi was showing him the right direction. We allow only our loved ones to point out our flaws. Kushi is the only loved one of his life and he knows she is saying it because after she leaves, she wants him to continue living on. She knows his relation with La will be strained forever from now on. But she don't want Arnav to hate his own child for denying him the only thing he wanted in life. Kushi is thinking for him, more than for La or the child. And it is natural. She feels for this man!

2) Kushi could see past Arnav's words. She could even understand what he will get into if she leaves him. She could see that he is loathing himself. She knows he is being desparate in his selfish nature. When you love a person, you love him/her with all their flaws. Similarly Kushi knows his selfish nature. She knows how he won't be able to come close emotionally with his child, she knows that he is being selfish. And deep down he is regretting his actions and is feeling helpless.

Kushi has all right to be angry on him and close the door on his face saying he betrayed her. But she loves him and knows him. Yes she is hurt by his betrayal, because if not for this, they would have been together now. They had survived all hurdles together, but this one they can't! But she know that if she don't stand by him now, he will break. Kushi loves him and she did her farz!

She stood by him, made him understand what he should do. Made sure that he will abide it. Promised him that she will love him always and encouraged him saying they will survive this. She was suffering the same pain but she became the strong one for him.

I CAN NEVER EXPRESS THE EXTENT OF KUSHI'S PAIN, inside her now while doing all this!!!!!!!

3) I don't know if I see it as a blackmail. But it was the last thing Kushi could do to make Arnav understand. Because nothing else can stop him. She knows he would prefer Kushi living and breathing somewhere in this world rather than seeing her vanish off.

It was just to make sure. Arnav needed that dose, I guess. Otherwise instead of following her car, even at that point, he would have overtaken and pulled Kushi out back again!

4) Why Kushi is making decision for him. -> Because she knows Arnav will never take a decision himself or rather will make the wrong one right now. He is helpless, angry, tortured, suffering. Nobody can think straight in this mentality. If Kushi just leaves him now without showing him the right direction ahead, he is going to destory himself and also his child's life. He might not love the child at all thinking it destoryed his happiness. But that is not right na? The child knows nothing! Or Arnav might just plunge in self-loathing and destroy his life. I don't want to make him next Devadas. And my Kushi is not going to be a Paru who want to take revenge on him and later pine over him. She is showing Arnav what he should do to rectify his mistakes and moving out of his life so that he can do his duties!

Hope yours doubts are clear now😆