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Originally posted by: aparnauma
My punishment post😡GRRR 😡PRATI AND KUSHI😡😡This shows how much I love this AT- Praising man for just being himself and doing what he is supposed to do with his life 😛
Ten qualities of ShivHe is a very intelligent man in all probabilities he had a very distinguished and brilliant track record in academics and probably must have excelled in sports too.Although it was not shown in the show considering that he has gotten into IAS and has a masters in business from western world it is safe to conclude that he is a very intelligent man.He rose to prominence andHe is very efficient in his work.That probably was the reason that CM of Rajasthan has chosen him to be the inaugural DC of the newly formed district of Jaitser. Even before he entered Jaitser he made sure he learnt something about that place and is aware of the good works done by the Sarpanch of Jaitser.He proved his efficiency by getting to work straight away after he joined work.He used to his office to accelerate the good works started by the Sarpanch.He listens to everybody and respects everybody's opinion irrespective of the fact that he agrees with it or not.He treats everybody with same respect whether they may be illiterate villagers or influential politicians.During the nehar project when villagers objected to the plan he did not stop them from expressing their views even f he lost his temper he listened to their views and with help from Anandi he made them see his point of view.Most recent example for the first time his wife disagreed with him he found it very painful and he thought she was wrong in her opinion but still respected her.He is very open minded.Though he knows his work well he is open to ideas and if his colleagues or people come up with an idea that is better than his he has no problems in taking up that idea.When he ha a meeting with Anandi and the villagers regarding the plan for the nehar when Anandi came up with a better idea for it he immediately got the engineer to redraw the plans according to Anandi's idea.He is very astute and doesn't form opinions regarding people without knowing anything about them.When he came to Jaitser he heard a lot f things about Anandi both good things and bad things but he did not let any of those things to influence his mind instead he formed his own opinion of her based on his own observations of her.And believed only what his logic and mind told him to believe when somebody came up with some story other about ehr.He fought against the age old customs like child marriage ill treatment of widows when ever he came across those situations.As a collector of Jaitser he used his office to fight against those customs.he made rules like age of the bride and groom to be mentioned on the wedding card etc.He fought against child marriages Jyothi's wedding is good example where he used the govt machinery to see that those responsible for the wedding were punished.He stood up for women and empowerment of women.He used his office to help women.Be it grant for Anandi's school rescuing Ganga using his office to hasten the process to help Ganga made sure Ratan Singh was put away behind bars and hasten the process by using his office.He did try to help Ganga tried to get her child back to her and tried to catch Ratan who was escaping from the law twice.It was his inherent quality to stand up for women made him go out of his way to help Ganga.Despite being good looking and women finding him attractive he never took advantage of his looks.He knew that Ashima was attracted to him but never gave encouragement to her because he knew she has dreams which are very different from his own.But all this did not prevent him from maintaining his good relationship with her.He does not chase women just because he finds them attractive.In his own words he felt very attracted to her the first time he saw Anandi but he took time to get to know her and her qualities before giving into his attraction and feelings for her.For him it is just not looks of a woman that is important.But she as a person is important before he established a relationship with her.He finally fell for Anandi because her inner beauty matched with the exterior.His concept of love is all about being there for that person and giving himself completely to that person and it is not about posessingWhen he fell for Anandi and wanted to make her own because he wanted the rights to make her happy and do everything for her to see a smile on her face.He did everything to make her happy for him love is all about giving himself totally to make that person happy.It is not about possessing that person.It is all about being there for that person.This was so evident at the time when Anandi was going through the final stages of her divorce.He just wanted to be there for her in case she needs a shoulder to cry on or hand to hold on and he wished he had the rights over her to support her.For him loving her meant taking care of her problems and accepting all the baggage that came with her namely her past with Jagya and her unbreakable relationship with Singhs.He forgave Jagya for all that he has done to him but he never forgave him for what he has done to his beloved Anandi.He did as much as he could to make Singhs happy because they are part of Anandi.After marriage as a husband he gave time and space for Anandi because that was what was required of him as a husband at that time.He earned the position of husband by not just through rituals but by working on being a husband giving space when necessary and not rushing his wife when she was not ready.He knew the value of marriage and he worked on it and did what ever is required of him to strengthen his marriage.He is an honest man who gives his everything to all his relationships.Be it as a son or a brother or a husband.He puts his relationships above himself and his own pleasures and happiness.He is always there for his family members in the hour of their need.In fact he is defined by his relationships.What he thinks doesn't matter but for him only the needs and desires of his loved ones matter.Be it his sister who wanted somebody totally unsuitable as a husband or his wife who needed space or a mother who demanded loyalty from him his thoughts and feelings did ot matter to him only the needs of his loved ones mattered to him.Of course there are some qualities which are not very desirable too like his inability to play multiple roles of husband brother and son simultaneously without compromising any of those roles.Which did cause a lot of distress to his loved ones.And he has his blind spots too like his inability to see that his sister is vindictive in nature and her selfishness beyond acceptable limits.To summarise Shiv is someone who is made in the same mould as Anandi and loves Anandi like the way she deserves to be loved.Anandi is the best part of ShivHe is made for Anandi and he is ideal for Anandi and only Anandi deserves to have a man like Shiv. Rest of the women who folk can only dream about him and if they want someone like Shiv they should make sure they are like Anandi in some way.Because it is only likes of Anandi who can make the hearts of men like Shiv beat faster.Keep dreaming because Shiv is just for Anandi and Anandi alone.😃------------------Ajee's Suniye jee rocks 😛
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Aparna, well done.👍🏼
Though i can imagine the effort it costs you.😉😆
And you said very well that to deserve a Shiv, one needs to be an Anandi.👏
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