Chhanchhan-Daadi scene

Just watched the episode again ... and I have to say, I simply loved the last Chhanchhan-Daadi scene. Sanaya portrayed so beautifully the dilemma of Chhanchhan ... a girl in love, still in shock from the revelation that the MIL she was so excited and nervous to meet had turned out to be her arch-enemy Uma Ben ... the entire future she was planning so happily and excitedly with the man she loved, suddenly now looked so doubtful and uncertain ... everything turned on its head in the span of one single encounter ... yet she was trying to hold on to the love she felt for Manav, and hope that it would be enough ... but when Daadi, an old lady, wise and experienced in the ways of the world, asked her ... 'will Manav's love be enough to overcome the troubles you will face with Uma Ben?' ... Chhanchhan doesn't know, she's not sure at all.

Beautifully portrayed by both actresses ... the old lady worried about her darling granddaughter and her nervousness ... Chhanchhan a girl who has always been confident and strong, but is now nervous and unsure and scared for the first time in her life ... this is a decision which will affect her entire life.

I think any girl who has got married against the wishes of her parents, or even more, against the wishes of her in-laws, can relate to this scene and feel Chhanchhan's nervousness and fears. I know of girls who did ... when the wedding goes ahead, in most cases, the parents come around, but sometimes after years of estrangement and bitterness.

Sanaya aced every scene today!

I was waiting for someone to make a post on that scene... It was a fantastic scene , very real and pragmatic ...their is no clear answer to this question , while one feels one can overcome all the odds when in love , family can pull you down and make your life miserable.

good post and yes tht scene was very touchy I also like the scene dadi asked her direct;y y she want to marry the man whose mother hate her and no gurantee abt his love can save her and enough to over came all hurdles. i also doubt now uma ben is too cunning women

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Just watched the episode again ... and I have to say, I simply loved the last Chhanchhan-Daadi scene. Sanaya portrayed so beautifully the dilemma of Chhanchhan ... a girl in love, still in shock from the revelation that the MIL she was so excited and nervous to meet had turned out to be her arch-enemy Uma Ben ... the entire future she was planning so happily and excitedly with the man she loved, suddenly now looked so doubtful and uncertain ... everything turned on its head in the span of one single encounter ... yet she was trying to hold on to the love she felt for Manav, and hope that it would be enough ... but when Daadi, an old lady, wise and experienced in the ways of the world, asked her ... 'will Manav's love be enough to overcome the troubles you will face with Uma Ben?' ... Chhanchhan doesn't know, she's not sure at all.

Beautifully portrayed by both actresses ... the old lady worried about her darling granddaughter and her nervousness ... Chhanchhan a girl who has always been confident and strong, but is now nervous and unsure and scared for the first time in her life ... this is a decision which will affect her entire life.

I think any girl who has got married against the wishes of her parents, or even more, against the wishes of her in-laws, can relate to this scene and feel Chhanchhan's nervousness and fears. I know of girls who did ... when the wedding goes ahead, in most cases, the parents come around, but sometimes after years of estrangement and bitterness.

the best dialogue was dadi telling cc that this life and its full of ups and downs...dadi gave pratcial advice to her...😊

Originally posted by: jyothi-m

I love u r post.If i miss seeing at 9 i read your post first and then decide i should see or not.

Marriage is not between 2 people it is between 2 family.So family should be nice and should accept the DIL as daughter.

the whole family will accept cc as their dil ecpet ub and her ranjana..i guess ranjajan will feel jelaous and try to do somehting to defame cc name..bt with gomati around i guess cc will win ub heart😃

Originally posted by: Guinea

I was waiting for someone to make a post on that scene... It was a fantastic scene , very real and pragmatic ...their is no clear answer to this question , while one feels one can overcome all the odds when in love , family can pull you down and make your life miserable.

True ... I loved the scene ... even more so on second watch. Sanaya's expressions were ACE all through ... the hesitation, the fear, the nervousness ... she was fabulous!!! 👏 And I loved Daadi too ... gentle and loving, yet pragmatic ... is your love strong enough? Sometimes just love is not enough.

Daadi's question ... is your love strong enough to overcome Uma Ben's hatred and be able to live with her in the same house all your life? A very relevant question ... in India a girl marries not just the guy, she marries into the entire family, especially if it is a joint family ... family does matter a lot ... and there is really no clear answer to this dilemma that Chhanchhan finds herself in. Even if the husband is supportive, he will be out of the house at work for most of the day ... it's the girl who has to face the MIL most of the day.

I really hope CC becomes strong enough to start talking back ... politely and calmly as she always is ... but she has to start answering back.

Originally posted by: jyothi-m

I love u r post.If i miss seeing at 9 i read your post first and then decide i should see or not.

Marriage is not between 2 people it is between 2 family.So family should be nice and should accept the DIL as daughter.

Thank you ! 😳

Exactly ... in India, marriage is between two families ... especially for the girl, she marries into a family and she has to make the maximum adjustments. If the inlaws are supportive or at least welcoming, then adjustments can be made slowly, there are always ups and downs but things settle down slowly.

But if the inlaws are already against the marriage, the girl can have a really tough time.

Sanaya aced every scene in yesterday epis