OK INDI in blue that was the motive and is still and in purple yes good intentions, honesty , without reasons all is the main coarse of life but there some where in your life you get to point where all this seems as its not working but it does not mean you leave these things aside, the thing what I am trying to say there are moments when you feel and stop to ask where the heck I am wrong and what am I doing wrong because when everything goes in the negative way you have no light.Yes as Khushi tried our best and then there is "Bhagyea" Fate you can't fight with it.Its there yes you can do whatever and leave it to God but some moments do shake your belief as He is taking test ,exam and we are doing experiments to deal with it but results are always not what you want but if the # of failure results get bigger you go insane and sometimes give up and that is the point where again HIS presence makes you get up and do what you got to do but some really lose their hopes, go insane, commit sins or suicides as this is unbearable I know this because I've been there.Words sound good but when you are right at that spot and gun is at your forehead then forget it.@Horizon yes her belief on DM is way too strong and that's what makes her get up and do what she got to do.But Anjali has weak belief as she tried to kill her child and that was a weak and coward move.As you mention in previous post I shouldn't have regrets.I never regret my friend especially when I take step forward then "Peeche mud keh nahin dekhna" but these moments while watching show comes back then "Zakhum hare ho jate hain" that's it other wise Life made me very strong and yes as a human we all cry so do I but then I don't take forever to put myself on the track and that is life as Indi said Experiments yes life is full of em
As Jiddu Krishnamurti said "A man who is conscious of detachment ceases to be detached"! So this sense of detachment has to be shown only when it is required probably at the end when one has to face the result (fate?). One has to probably show a total sense of attachment while doing the task and an opposite detachment after one attains the result so as to perform the next task. A rather difficult cycle of attachment and detachment but probably necessary to keep doing karma, even for one who writes one's own destiny! As a firm believer of Karma theory, I try to take forward only the moral from my previous regrets/ errors, but NOT the bitterness associated with it as such.
And, one's actions certainly can change the course of things, but not their ultimate result as most of the times it involves more than one doer and one way of things! So while the belief of "ahem bhrahmasmi" is extremely important, at the end of the day karma theory keeps the world order rolling! I guess that is the whole essence of being blessed with the supreme form of life, that is being a human, blessed with the power of discretion.. with their will power and good karma, taking a better/ a righteous route is certainly in their hands although destination as such may not, which again may be random!
@Arshi, I don't think Anjali's belief as such was weak becos her devotion never waned and it was only a weak moment for her about the baby. So her belief system in God essentially worked as a support system for her as she is NOT as strong as ASR or Khushi both of whom had the guts to abandon the Supreme power and solely rely on themselves, ofcourse for ASR it was in decades where as for Khuhsi it was a few weeks/ months she stopped talking to DM! I am again sorry for you and totally applaud your efforts/ ability to move on. Wish you all good luck in this fight back in/ with life!
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