~*What a Fab Performance by Ram-Part II*~ - Page 252

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

I forgot...

Sorry Soap I can't be on...it's against my club rules to be on when anyone else is around (particularly w/intelligent convo happening). PI should be around I think...and the narazgi club VIP member too probably. Have fun gals.

Originally posted by: mayona

Congratulations to all gopis for making to the IF most addicted list 👏 by the way I am happy to be crowned with most addicted member on this KS forum once again 😆 😆

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Hello Guys:

AD lagta hai shortly I will be a member of your bhoot nagari - tend to log on too late and then catch up on a lot of missed pages of discussion.

I am going back to the topic of Pia/Pushkar and Jai/Bani in reference to Jigyasa's visit.

Bani is upset that JW hit such a big truth from her. There I do agree with her. But didn't Pia do the same thing with Pushkar and Bani by not telling them that she was working for JW. This is after what PP did not him and also after the fact that Bani has left him and the lecture she gave JW when she knew Bani was expecting.

Hiding something from a spouse no matter what it is should be looked at in the same way. I am in no way minimizing the consequences of the accident and what Bani suffered as a result of that. But then I would not hold JW solely ressponsible for that - Nish Dikshit had a huge role in it too.

So my question is that now will Bani be able to process this and realize that what happened at the hands of JW was an accident and nothing he does will reverse that or bring her mother back. What Pia did, she did knowingly and the hurt and humiliation Pushkar underwent should not be treated differently by the hurt Bani felt. Will she realize that keeping a father and child away on that basis is a very raw deal for all concerned? I am in no way minimizing the death of Kiran Dikshit over here.

When Pia said she did not tell Pushkar because she knew this would he his reaction exactly - this is the exact same reason JW did not tell Bani because he knew what her reaction would be. So if Pia's reason is justified by Bani then so should JW's.

I hope I have made sense to you guys of what I am trying to convey here...............

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

Thanks---so high on the list and yet really contribute no constructive thoughts at all...SAD!!!

Sorry I meant me...not the rest of the AF...they have real convos.

Originally posted by: pinky05

So my question is that now will Bani be able to process this and realize that what happened at the hands of JW was an accident and nothing he does will reverse that or bring her mother back. What Pia did, she did knowingly and the hurt and humiliation Pushkar underwent should not be treated differently by the hurt Bani felt. Will she realize that keeping a father and child away on that basis is a very raw deal for all concerned? I am in no way minimizing the death of Kiran Dikshit over here. When Pia said she did not tell Pushkar because she knew this would he his reaction exactly - this is the exact same reason JW did not tell Bani because he knew what her reaction would be. So if Pia's reason is justified by Bani then so should JW's.

Originally posted by: pinky05

Hello Guys:

AD lagta hai shortly I will be a member of your bhoot nagari - tend to log on too late and then catch up on a lot of missed pages of discussion.

I am going back to the topic of Pia/Pushkar and Jai/Bani in reference to Jigyasa's visit.

Bani is upset that JW hit such a big truth from her. There I do agree with her. But didn't Pia do the same thing with Pushkar and Bani by not telling them that she was working for JW. This is after what PP did not him and also after the fact that Bani has left him and the lecture she gave JW when she knew Bani was expecting.

Hiding something from a spouse no matter what it is should be looked at in the same way. I am in no way minimizing the consequences of the accident and what Bani suffered as a result of that. But then I would not hold JW solely ressponsible for that - Nish Dikshit had a huge role in it too.

So my question is that now will Bani be able to process this and realize that what happened at the hands of JW was an accident and nothing he does will reverse that or bring her mother back. What Pia did, she did knowingly and the hurt and humiliation Pushkar underwent should not be treated differently by the hurt Bani felt. Will she realize that keeping a father and child away on that basis is a very raw deal for all concerned? I am in no way minimizing the death of Kiran Dikshit over here.

When Pia said she did not tell Pushkar because she knew this would he his reaction exactly - this is the exact same reason JW did not tell Bani because he knew what her reaction would be. So if Pia's reason is justified by Bani then so should JW's.

I hope I have made sense to you guys of what I am trying to convey here...............

I agree Pinky hope Bani eyes open and she starts smelling the coffee because now she surely needs to leave Pias house has she already been shown her place by Pia and what remains now its showing the door which Pia will sooner or later do it😡 if she has any self respect left back Bani will return to her hubby JW😛

Originally posted by: pinky05

But didn't Pia do the same thing with Pushkar and Bani by not telling them that she was working for JW. This is after what PP did not him and also after the fact that Bani has left him and the lecture she gave JW when she knew Bani was expecting.

When Pia said she did not tell Pushkar because she knew this would he his reaction exactly - this is the exact same reason JW did not tell Bani because he knew what her reaction would be. So if Pia's reason is justified by Bani then so should JW's.

Originally posted by: pinky05

So my question is that now will Bani be able to process this and realize that what happened at the hands of JW was an accident and nothing he does will reverse that or bring her mother back.

Pinky, if Bani was to realise this she wouldn't be the typical Kekta show protagonist. It's the birth-right of a Kekta show leading lady to stay under a misconception for as long as possible! 🤢 Bani will not come to terms with JW's ACCIDENTAL galti for a while now and the sooner we accept it the better it will be for us!

What Pia did, she did knowingly and the hurt and humiliation Pushkar underwent should not be treated differently by the hurt Bani felt. Will she realize that keeping a father and child away on that basis is a very raw deal for all concerned?

As far as Bani's concerned EVERYONE except for hubby is right! 🤢 She will not see Pia's fault in hiding the truth from Pushky as being similar to her hubby hiding the truth from her. She is unable to see beyond her father's pain and drudgery and her sister's loneliness at this point so it's all about HER family for her now when she doesn't realise that what she has after marriage is also HER responsibility! 😕

When Pia said she did not tell Pushkar because she knew this would he his reaction exactly - this is the exact same reason JW did not tell Bani because he knew what her reaction would be. So if Pia's reason is justified by Bani then so should JW's.

Pinky...You and I see it (and of course so doest the rest of the AF) but Bani....well did I mention that she's a little dense? 😛 She will not see it coz she doesn't want to! She refuses to believe that he hubby is repenting and so noone can help her! Like Adi said she brought it on to herself so really she's the only one who can get herself out of this mess! 😛

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

As for PP...these two should not even be legally allowed to be married. Seriously, they are legally above the age but their maturity level is even below that baccha's who JW was playing w/on Friday's episode. Then again quite frankly I feel even Bani (and on certain occassions JW) too act the same way but PP are in a class of their own.