Forgive Gauri before you forgive Jagya

Originally posted by: michelle281194

I've come across a lot of posts where people say that Jagya should be forgiven, his character is being butchered by CVs by making him a villain, he is and will remain the main lead of the show... which makes me wonder why none of us lent the same treatment to Gauri? Let me draw some parallels here:

Both Gauri & Jagya were intelligent and educated, yet they were turned into villains.

Now, we dont know much about Gauri as a child but when she was studying with Jagya- I remember her as being a nice mormal girl who was sympathetic and empathetic to child brides, was disgusted when she heard the story of 'Nandini' and her shehri husband (Anandi's alter ego when Jagya had introduced them for the first time)... Later CVs changed her totally. But it was still acceptable. She was a woman in love- She had been with Jagya for 5-6 yrs, had so much faith in him that she was living with him. But he had lied to her about everything, even his name! So of course she became insecure! And took it out on Anandi and the Singhs, so what? She had not taken a vow of marriage with them n was liable only by humanity... nothing else.

Jagya on the other hand, we know he was a mean n selfish person since he was a child n his character has gone over to the dark side little by little. He cheated on two women, but when the second one lied to him (it wasnt even infidelity!!!), he dumped her so easily and now he thinks he has a claim to all his lost happiness? gimme a break. The list of Jagya's crimes is endless. I know some ppl say that he was always a nice guy at heart. Following are the things that nice guys at heart DO NOT DO:

1. Try to break up someone's marriage.

2. Manipulate family members.

3. Lie to their spouses.

4. Never understand their mistakes and if they do, they expect only token punishment.

5. Try to harm someone professionally.

Now let me tell you that Gauri has also done the above things (some if not all) and most of you hate her. Then why not hate Jagya?

The real reason everyone hates Gauri is that she was blunt, fought her wars openly n said harsh things...while Jagya does some sweet things and then goes back to back-stabbing.

So i say this again, before everyone speaks of Jagya getting his happiness, Gauri must be forgiven too! Unless, you are gender-biased and/or judgmental to women. Then toh mera kuch bhi kehna useless hai.

[P.S. One thing I seriously hate: ppl say Gauri is really bad for living with someone else's husband, breaking up a marriage. Let me tell you that it takes two to tango n only a husband/wife can break a marriage, its never a third person. i dislike Gauri only for being mean to Anandi- but that's not a crime. The only thing I like about Jagya is that he saved Anandi from Heth Singh that one time.]